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Saying what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you say on your profile what you're looking for?

Such as the type of person you want to meet, or type of relationship/ meet you want.

Do you find it attracts the people you are looking for, or does it encourage people to lie so you'll meet them?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I do say what I want it's been hidden for a good while mind,I just don't believe people when they say they're looking for the same so it's pointless really.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I do say what I want it's been hidden for a good while mind,I just don't believe people when they say they're looking for the same so it's pointless really."

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I do when meeting. Never had an issue (so far).

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By *ottielayWoman
over a year ago

by the bay


"I do say what I want it's been hidden for a good while mind,I just don't believe people when they say they're looking for the same so it's pointless really."

Same

It’s not worth it for me

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It gives a flavour of me and the type of thing I am looking for but doesn't go into detail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm way too easy and have no standards so no point really

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I do. All it leads to is discovering that 95% don't read and most of that 5% don't respect it.

There are diamonds out there, but few and far between.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Ours gives a broad understanding of what I'm interested in, however until they have messaged I would say I really don't have a type and it's more important that I am engaged with the person rather than physical attractiveness

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do you say on your profile what you're looking for?

Such as the type of person you want to meet, or type of relationship/ meet you want.

Do you find it attracts the people you are looking for, or does it encourage people to lie so you'll meet them? "

What I don’t want message me non stop!!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I do say what I want it's been hidden for a good while mind,I just don't believe people when they say they're looking for the same so it's pointless really.

"

Have you got something for me in your sack?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do. All it leads to is discovering that 95% don't read and most of that 5% don't respect it.

There are diamonds out there, but few and far between. "

Do you think it puts off the ones who aren't looking for the same?

Probably difficult to determine who it puts off. I assume (for example) if 100 people 'looked at' my profile but I only got 2 messages, 98 people were put off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ours gives a broad understanding of what I'm interested in, however until they have messaged I would say I really don't have a type and it's more important that I am engaged with the person rather than physical attractiveness "

I can't describe what I'm looking for (as in physical attraction) as it doesn't work that way for me.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I think my profile is fairly clear on what i'm looking for and my reasons for being here. Even though I'm rarely contacted first (which happens 5% of the time.The joys of being a man on fab ) it seems to work in my favour when I fancy and contact someone.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"Ours gives a broad understanding of what I'm interested in, however until they have messaged I would say I really don't have a type and it's more important that I am engaged with the person rather than physical attractiveness

I can't describe what I'm looking for (as in physical attraction) as it doesn't work that way for me. "

Same for me xxx all woman are beautiful some are even more beautiful inside xxx

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I think I’m pretty clear on what I want. Most don’t bother reading it anyway, but that justifies my lack of response to anyone looking for a quick meet..

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I do say what I want it's been hidden for a good while mind,I just don't believe people when they say they're looking for the same so it's pointless really.

Have you got something for me in your sack? "

Another call for that one, sexy, compatible and exclusive gent?

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Saying I'm looking for anyone with a pussy won't look great on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saying I'm looking for anyone with a pussy won't look great on my profile "

Give it a try and feed back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do yes, but so few people read the profile and the first message I usually get is "Where's your Pics"

Here's hoping though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve tried to, the fat lot of good it’s done..

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like to think I have x

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Yes I am specific about what I am looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I think I do, yes.

It's attracted some interesting conversations.

I still get the odd trier but that's to be expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mine gives big clues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you say on your profile what you're looking for?

Such as the type of person you want to meet, or type of relationship/ meet you want.

Do you find it attracts the people you are looking for, or does it encourage people to lie so you'll meet them? "

Yes and I think yeeesss

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Think mines makes it fairly clear.....

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Do you say on your profile what you're looking for?

Such as the type of person you want to meet, or type of relationship/ meet you want.

Do you find it attracts the people you are looking for, or does it encourage people to lie so you'll meet them? "

I think mine is pretty clear what I do & don't want.

8/10 obviously haven't read it

1/10 tell me what they think I want to hear, but it's quickly apprarant what game is.

1/10 are actually sincere, and more than make up for the other 9

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

We think we're pretty clear on the profile and it's even sorted by couple/f/m so it should be easy.

Unfortunately very few people read profiles and those that do read them either ignore it or lie.

It's a very small amount of people that message after reading the profile and they fit the profile.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I do, but it doesn't matter what I write because the small percentage of people that read it either ignore it or think that they will be an exception to it

I get so many messages that begin "I know I'm not what you're looking for, but..."

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I do, but it doesn't matter what I write because the small percentage of people that read it either ignore it or think that they will be an exception to it

I get so many messages that begin "I know I'm not what you're looking for, but...""

Oh god I hate that expression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I outline it in my profile and still get no messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I was always very specific. It’s quite easy to work out who’s pretending to be what you’re looking for. Still got loads of messages though from people who obviously don’t bother reading it or just totally ignore it.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Yeah I was always very specific."

Mentioning me by name was a good idea

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