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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There's a guy you fancy but he's acting aloof. What's your move to get on his radar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing

I’ve never done the chasing. Since day 1 the sperm came to me, and I was created. And I stick by that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flash the gash works for most

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing

I’ve never done the chasing. Since day 1 the sperm came to me, and I was created. And I stick by that "

May have missed out on some hot men then cus they didn't notice you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Be friendly, be myself, don't push. Other fish in the sea. (different if we've established interest before)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Nothing

I’ve never done the chasing. Since day 1 the sperm came to me, and I was created. And I stick by that

May have missed out on some hot men then cus they didn't notice you"

Or risked humiliation, or annoying people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you"

Bit of a quitter attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you

Bit of a quitter attitude

It's not at all. It doesn't matter how hot a guy is, if he doesn't show an interest then he's not worth spending the time and effort on. Life is short, I've got no time for games and players

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm way to old to play games

So if he's aloof I'm away

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you

Bit of a quitter attitude

It's not at all. It doesn't matter how hot a guy is, if he doesn't show an interest then he's not worth spending the time and effort on. Life is short, I've got no time for games and players"

Plus, pushing despite lack of interest is disrespectful.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Nothing

I’ve never done the chasing. Since day 1 the sperm came to me, and I was created. And I stick by that "

Love this!!!

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

If I need to chase then hes not for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never chased a man in my life.

I have never had to.

If they’re not interested in pursuing me I switch off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you

Bit of a quitter attitude

It's not at all. It doesn't matter how hot a guy is, if he doesn't show an interest then he's not worth spending the time and effort on. Life is short, I've got no time for games and players"

Have you considered he might be shy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you

Bit of a quitter attitude

It's not at all. It doesn't matter how hot a guy is, if he doesn't show an interest then he's not worth spending the time and effort on. Life is short, I've got no time for games and players

Have you considered he might be shy?"

Oh hunni, if he's that shy then he definitely isn't for me

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you

Bit of a quitter attitude

It's not at all. It doesn't matter how hot a guy is, if he doesn't show an interest then he's not worth spending the time and effort on. Life is short, I've got no time for games and players

Have you considered he might be shy?

Oh hunni, if he's that shy then he definitely isn't for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you

Bit of a quitter attitude

It's not at all. It doesn't matter how hot a guy is, if he doesn't show an interest then he's not worth spending the time and effort on. Life is short, I've got no time for games and players

Have you considered he might be shy?

Oh hunni, if he's that shy then he definitely isn't for me

Fair enough but that doesn’t make him a player.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d message to find out why he’s aloof as I have a habit of sending messages that are misunderstood

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"There's a guy you fancy but he's acting aloof. What's your move to get on his radar "

Nothing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think I'm learning that I need to be less lazy and do more chasing haha

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I’d send her a photo of my bum to show I’m not aloof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can such things be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing. If hes not interested I'm not making a twat of myself just to try and get his attention.

Sin.

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By *iss behaving2019Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Nothing! If that is his attitude then I'm not interested either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you give an example of aloofness in this case?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’d shimmy into his line of vision. Then carry on shimmying past him.

He’d think to himself “who was that shimmying? I must have her”.

And BOOM, i’d have reeled him in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm way to old to play games

So if he's aloof I'm away"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine many men on here would be surprised to learn a woman might fancy them. Ladies need to be more direct, something like 'I fancy you' would be good...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are "

Thank you for explaining.

I think it's relatively easy to engage with someone on here if you want to be known to that person? You do mean on forum?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

Thank you for explaining.

I think it's relatively easy to engage with someone on here if you want to be known to that person? You do mean on forum? "

Yeh on here but also in real world. On here it's easy to get noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing

I’ve never done the chasing. Since day 1 the sperm came to me, and I was created. And I stick by that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think you women are lying. So you're saying that the only time you've got with a guy is when he has perused you? You've done nothing to get noticed by him? Fuck off

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By *ueen of sleezeWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"If he's that aloof, he's not worth pursuing. Walk away and find someone who actually wants you"

If he isnt interested thats fine by me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you women are lying. So you're saying that the only time you've got with a guy is when he has perused you? You've done nothing to get noticed by him? Fuck off"

If he's being aloof he's not interested. If the situation is neutral then I would ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you women are lying. So you're saying that the only time you've got with a guy is when he has perused you? You've done nothing to get noticed by him? Fuck off"

You're question wasnt have we pursued a guy, your question was if a guy was aloof what would we do for his attention.

So again, absolutely nothing. If a guy has indicated interest then I have no problem with doing the chasing when I know hes mutually interested. What I wont do is try and force an interest from his side.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Nothing

I’ve never done the chasing. Since day 1 the sperm came to me, and I was created. And I stick by that

May have missed out on some hot men then cus they didn't notice you"

How will she ever cope!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Think I'm learning that I need to be less lazy and do more chasing haha "

Nah I don't want to be chased or chase anyone. I'm about equal enthusiasm. If I always have to make the first move for us to interact I'll eventually get bored. If I never make the first move that usually means I've lost interest and should put the poor person out of their misery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flash the gash works for most

I almost spat my coffee out reading that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a guy you fancy but he's acting aloof. What's your move to get on his radar "

I’m currently experiencing this in real life,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you women are lying. So you're saying that the only time you've got with a guy is when he has perused you? You've done nothing to get noticed by him? Fuck off"

I mean

Yeah

I’m fucking lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing

I’ve never done the chasing. Since day 1 the sperm came to me, and I was created. And I stick by that

May have missed out on some hot men then cus they didn't notice you

How will she ever cope!"

No one I’ve fancied has ever not noticed me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think you women are lying. So you're saying that the only time you've got with a guy is when he has perused you? You've done nothing to get noticed by him? Fuck off"

No. I'm friendly and make myself open. If he's aloof he sees me but is showing no signs of interest. I don't pursue, that's creepy, he appears uninterested. I at most remain open in my approach.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"There's a guy you fancy but he's acting aloof. What's your move to get on his radar

I’m currently experiencing this in real life,

Me too, it's hard work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a guy you fancy but he's acting aloof. What's your move to get on his radar

I’m currently experiencing this in real life,

Me too, it's hard work!"

It’s painful

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Absolutely nothing.

If they're not interested why should I put any effort into it?

Attraction should be mutual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there no element of want but can't have that stimulates attraction...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Nothing, I'd assume he's not interested and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to do anything. They cave eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a guy you fancy but he's acting aloof. What's your move to get on his radar "

Ohh fuck him!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't need to do anything. They cave eventually.

Teach me your ways!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing

I’ve never done the chasing. Since day 1 the sperm came to me, and I was created. And I stick by that "

This. I don’t chase. Have never had to

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

If someone’s not interested I forget about them. Otherwise I’d look like a creepy stalker or a knob, and to be honest I don’t really fancy either of those options.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a loofer I'd like to share with a shower partner. Water shower before anyone asks....

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"There's a guy you fancy but he's acting aloof. What's your move to get on his radar

I’m currently experiencing this in real life,

Me too, it's hard work!

It’s painful

Yes, that's a good word for it. Painful! If I thought for one second he wasn't interested I'd leave him be. But he is, he's just....hard work!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I dress up in a clowns outfit and fire a paintball gun at him from hidden places when he's least expecting it. It seems to work

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"There's a guy you fancy but he's acting aloof. What's your move to get on his radar "

He'd be eye candy. i dont chase

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Simple start a conversation and see how it flows

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Charm him with my witty personality lol

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I'll make it perfectly clear I want to fuck him, if he still acts aloof and doesn't give me a definite sign he's interested or not, I'll just move onto the next piece of meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set him on fire for rejecting my advances.

That'll fecking learn him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Set him on fire for rejecting my advances.

That'll fecking learn him

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Set him on fire for rejecting my advances.

That'll fecking learn him

Then we pull out the marshmallows and have a 'burn bitch burn' party?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll make it perfectly clear I want to fuck him, if he still acts aloof and doesn't give me a definite sign he's interested or not, I'll just move onto the next piece of meat

I did say though, please don’t spank me (publicly)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Set him on fire for rejecting my advances.

That'll fecking learn him

Then we pull out the marshmallows and have a 'burn bitch burn' party?"

Yeah!! While dancing to Disco Inferno!!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I'll make it perfectly clear I want to fuck him, if he still acts aloof and doesn't give me a definite sign he's interested or not, I'll just move onto the next piece of meat

I did say though, please don’t spank me (publicly)"

Spanking would be the last thing on my mind if I got you in private

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Grab me whilst you still can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside."

So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple start a conversation and see how it flows "

That sounds rather sensible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.

So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side? "

Personally, I only realise a guy likes me once he’s stuck up my back side

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.

So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side? "

No, I meant if he is aloof. If he doesnt express interest that's entirely different.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Simple start a conversation and see how it flows

That sounds rather sensible"

That’s me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.

So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side?

No, I meant if he is aloof. If he doesnt express interest that's entirely different."

Admittedly it is not my first language so your answer puzzled me. I went and search for the definition of aloof and I found this: at a distance especially in feeling or interest; reserved or reticent; indifferent or disinterested.

Isn’t it what it means?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.

So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side?

No, I meant if he is aloof. If he doesnt express interest that's entirely different.

Isn’t it what it means?"

Guess so then. In that case my answer would still be nothing. Why would I do anything for someone who was indifferent or disinterested...when there are plenty of others who are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never chased and will never chase. If a gys aloof, he's not interested.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are "

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.

So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side?

No, I meant if he is aloof. If he doesnt express interest that's entirely different.

Isn’t it what it means?

Guess so then. In that case my answer would still be nothing. Why would I do anything for someone who was indifferent or disinterested...when there are plenty of others who are

The op’s question was «if there is someone you fancy... » . Isn’t it a worthy enough reason to give the guy a nudge? I understand the balance of power is strongly in favour of women on here, but I also see many women complaining about the underwhelming offers they receive. Isn’t it worth putting a little effort in to get what you want?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ? "

My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"I don't need to do anything. They cave eventually.

Teach me your ways!!!!!"

I'd like a couple of lessons as well.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?

My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on "

That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?

My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on

That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place

Yep, I'd flirt in my not so subtle way, 'fancy a fuck?'

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.

So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side?

No, I meant if he is aloof. If he doesnt express interest that's entirely different.

Isn’t it what it means?

Guess so then. In that case my answer would still be nothing. Why would I do anything for someone who was indifferent or disinterested...when there are plenty of others who are

Ofcourse I would let him know but certainly wouldn't pursue it if he were to be 'aloof' about it.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?

My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on

That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place

Yep, I'd flirt in my not so subtle way, 'fancy a fuck?'

Haha yes you don’t beat around the bush, I love it makes me laugh

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?

My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on

That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place

Yep, I'd flirt in my not so subtle way, 'fancy a fuck?'

Haha yes you don’t beat around the bush, I love it makes me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh I like a bit the chase. If they are all keen I get bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing. I like down to earth guys, not one who's stuck up his own backside.

So if a guy doesn’t express interest in you, he’s stuck up his own back side?

No, I meant if he is aloof. If he doesnt express interest that's entirely different.

Isn’t it what it means?

Guess so then. In that case my answer would still be nothing. Why would I do anything for someone who was indifferent or disinterested...when there are plenty of others who are

Ofcourse I would let him know but certainly wouldn't pursue it if he were to be 'aloof' about it."

That is only fair. And works both ways.

And I was not having a go at you personally. The thread is generally infuriating in my point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?

My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on

That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place

Yep, I'd flirt in my not so subtle way, 'fancy a fuck?'

Still waiting for my offer ...

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?

My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on

That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place

Yep, I'd flirt in my not so subtle way, 'fancy a fuck?'

Still waiting for my offer ...

I think I made my interest in you perfectly clear, I want to fuck you until you can't move

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ? "

If he's oblivious or doesn't know who I am then my answer would change. I would start a conversation, put some effort into it and see where it went from there. But,it does take participation from both parties. However, if he's aloof or disintetested my answer would remain the same.

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over a year ago

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?

My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on

That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place

Yep, I'd flirt in my not so subtle way, 'fancy a fuck?'

Still waiting for my offer ...

I think I made my interest in you perfectly clear, I want to fuck you until you can't move

Name the date! You’re on!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?

My answer would stay the same, I'd make my interest clear, if I got nothing back I'd move on

That’s fair enough, but you tried in the first place

Yep, I'd flirt in my not so subtle way, 'fancy a fuck?'

Still waiting for my offer ...

I think I made my interest in you perfectly clear, I want to fuck you until you can't move

Name the date! You’re on!"

I'll be on you

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?

Which is something we all would do, we tried, it’s not working move on. The important part is attempting the contact rather than just waiting if you like someone

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?

Which is something we all would do, we tried, it’s not working move on. The important part is attempting the contact rather than just waiting if you like someone "

It could be a mutual attraction and you'd never know if you had made no effort at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

knickers........ floor........ now

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?

Which is something we all would do, we tried, it’s not working move on. The important part is attempting the contact rather than just waiting if you like someone

It could be a mutual attraction and you'd never know if you had made no effort at all.

Exactly ! The guy could also be a bit shy or (and I hate these words) they think they are out of your league.

You’ve got nothing to lose and potential everything to gain

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"knickers........ floor........ now

I thought you'd never demand

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Maybe aloof was the wrong word. I meant if he seems oblivious or doesn't know who you are

OP clarified his question, he didn’t mean aloof. Would all of you that said no I wouldn’t bother or do nothing, still answer in the same way if you liked someone, but they are oblivious to it ?

Which is something we all would do, we tried, it’s not working move on. The important part is attempting the contact rather than just waiting if you like someone

It could be a mutual attraction and you'd never know if you had made no effort at all.

Exactly ! The guy could also be a bit shy or (and I hate these words) they think they are out of your league.

You’ve got nothing to lose and potential everything to gain "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"knickers........ floor........ now

I thought you'd never demand

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I'm very demanding................ but this was a suggestion when confronted by a very stubborn man of your dreams......... its never been successful i know but anything is worth a shot

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