FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the ladies

By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

So ladies.

If you messaged a guy that you was interested in and you hinted you wanted him in your messages but not in a blunt ovous way and cos he is not use two people flirting with him he just didn't get it and thought you just wanted to have a casual chat.

Would you just go blunt and tell him you want to meet him or would you just give up and try someone else ?

Honest answers please.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’d persistently drop casual hints until the day he told me he’d met someone and was getting married.

Then i’d kick myself from here to Builth Wells!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Tell him. It's no good hinting and being coy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. I'd probably assume he wasn't interested and being polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly be upfront not play games

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Depends how the conversation flowed, sometimes though (as men just don’t get it) you have to be blunt and spell it out for them

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Why not just type "would you like to meet for a drink?" ?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think I'd continue attempts at flirting for a while but if I suspected that they remained oblivious I would just be blunt. I prefer rejection to what ifs.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"(men just don’t get it) you have to be blunt and spell it out for them "

Yep, we're genuinely really bad at knowing when a woman is interested in us.

Subtle hints don't work, obvious hints don't work. Turning up and stripping off in front of us might be giveaway, but don't count on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only live once straight to the point....Fancy a shag.. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell him. I think pretty much of all my solo meets have been because I instigated them.

Sin.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’d make it known

pussy footing isn’t my thing!

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"So ladies.

Would you just go blunt and tell him you want to meet him or would you just give up and try someone else ?

Honest answers please.

Give up lol...plenty more fish in the sea if he doesn't get you...I only want to spend time and effort on someone who gets me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are no good with hints, I know for a fact I'm not.

If a woman got into my bed with me, naked and complained she was cold, I'd probably just get her another blanket

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm quite direct anyway so would say something x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Men are no good with hints, I know for a fact I'm not.

If a woman got into my bed with me, naked and complained she was cold, I'd probably just get her another blanket "

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Be up front about it. Subtle hints will get you no where.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'd quit

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Thanks everyone

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Men are no good with hints, I know for a fact I'm not.

If a woman got into my bed with me, naked and complained she was cold, I'd probably just get her another blanket "

This made me laugh out loud.

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