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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What things do you want to know about them as soon as possible?

Tea or coffee?

How do you like your breakfast?

Spit or swallow?

What would you ask?

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I quiz them mercilessly about their music taste. Very important.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

If they’re single.. solvent and sane..

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I quiz them mercilessly about their music taste. Very important."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just what kind of things in the world they care about.. and whether they are fussy eaters

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"If they’re single.. solvent and sane.. "

I am at least one of those things!

I agree.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Alliance or Horde?

Marvel or DC?

Wilde or Byron?

French or Italian?

Shelley or Stoker?

Audio or erotica?

All very important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quiz them mercilessly about their music taste. Very important.

This "

Well that's me out then.... an unpublished young talent, a bit odd bluegrass and, some queen... not a normal taste in music

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I enter into a witty sarcastic conversation with them about random stuff and see if they can match me

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I quiz them mercilessly about their music taste. Very important.

This

Well that's me out then.... an unpublished young talent, a bit odd bluegrass and, some queen... not a normal taste in music"

That doesn’t mean you’re out. No music specifics were specified in our posts.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I ask about family/past relationships. You can tell a lot about someone from the way they talk about their family and indeed ex partners.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I ask about family/past relationships. You can tell a lot about someone from the way they talk about their family and indeed ex partners."

Oh that’s very true. I agreed to meet someone hinges on the fact that I really liked the way he spoke about his ex wife (who it turns out I knew!)

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I ask about family/past relationships. You can tell a lot about someone from the way they talk about their family and indeed ex partners.

Oh that’s very true. I agreed to meet someone hinges on the fact that I really liked the way he spoke about his ex wife (who it turns out I knew!)"

*hinged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enter into a witty sarcastic conversation with them about random stuff and see if they can match me"

Omg this it's me.. If they can't keep up its sayounara!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I ask about family/past relationships. You can tell a lot about someone from the way they talk about their family and indeed ex partners.

Oh that’s very true. I agreed to meet someone hinges on the fact that I really liked the way he spoke about his ex wife (who it turns out I knew!)"

Yes! If they badmouth/bitch all of their previous partners, it tends to be more a reflection of them - they are the link.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Do you like showers?

Do you like profiteroles?

What’s your views on cling film?

Lex

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I'd try and pick up vibes that they actually enjoyed my company rather than searching for a good deal.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I ask about family/past relationships. You can tell a lot about someone from the way they talk about their family and indeed ex partners.

Oh that’s very true. I agreed to meet someone hinges on the fact that I really liked the way he spoke about his ex wife (who it turns out I knew!)

Yes! If they badmouth/bitch all of their previous partners, it tends to be more a reflection of them - they are the link."

Exactly.

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By *he way you moveMan
over a year ago

Inverness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you like showers?

Do you like profiteroles?

What’s your views on cling film?

Lex"

Interesting questions lol

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By *he way you moveMan
over a year ago

Inverness


"I quiz them mercilessly about their music taste. Very important."

Aberdeen

I've been misled with that before. Start off thinking yea they're into all the same stuff as me then boom out of nowhere the xfactor songs are playing and it's too late, you've already been trapped. Think in future my music interrogation needs to be more thorough and nerdy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enter into a witty sarcastic conversation with them about random stuff and see if they can match me

Omg this it's me.. If they can't keep up its sayounara!! "

Hahaha so this.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I like to sit them down, position the spotlight and give them a good grilling. It’s worked so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to sit them down, position the spotlight and give them a good grilling. It’s worked so far "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What things do you want to know about them as soon as possible?

Tea or coffee?

How do you like your breakfast?

Spit or swallow?

What would you ask?"
I'd ask where she wanted to go for lunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quiz them mercilessly about their music taste. Very important.

Aberdeen

I've been misled with that before. Start off thinking yea they're into all the same stuff as me then boom out of nowhere the xfactor songs are playing and it's too late, you've already been trapped. Think in future my music interrogation needs to be more thorough and nerdy lol

"

I ask for their choice in funeral music... Reveals a lot about someone!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"If they’re single.. solvent and sane.. "

Ha ha too right!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"What things do you want to know about them as soon as possible?

Tea or coffee?

How do you like your breakfast?

Spit or swallow?

What would you ask?I'd ask where she wanted to go for lunch "

* brownie points *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What things do you want to know about them as soon as possible?

Tea or coffee?

How do you like your breakfast?

Spit or swallow?

What would you ask?I'd ask where she wanted to go for lunch

* brownie points *"
i already know where you want to go

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By *he way you moveMan
over a year ago

Inverness


"I quiz them mercilessly about their music taste. Very important.

Aberdeen

I've been misled with that before. Start off thinking yea they're into all the same stuff as me then boom out of nowhere the xfactor songs are playing and it's too late, you've already been trapped. Think in future my music interrogation needs to be more thorough and nerdy lol

I ask for their choice in funeral music... Reveals a lot about someone! "

Like it. I've already considered my playlist for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I ask for their choice in funeral music... Reveals a lot about someone!

Like it. I've already considered my playlist for that."

.. And your choice is??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to sit them down, position the spotlight and give them a good grilling. It’s worked so far "

I don’t know why, but Sharon stone in basic instinct springs to mind lol

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By *he way you moveMan
over a year ago

Inverness


"

I ask for their choice in funeral music... Reveals a lot about someone!

Like it. I've already considered my playlist for that.

.. And your choice is?? "

I like the idea of keeping it up beat and lively but still everyone with the lump in their throat. Quite a bit of Dropkick Murphys, but coffin being carried out to Flogging Molly - If I ever leave this world alive. Because I want them howling with tears by that point....I change the playlist pretty regularly to be fair so it's really going to depend what I was feeling on the lead up to the inevitable lol

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"Do you like showers?

Do you like profiteroles?

What’s your views on cling film?

Lex

Interesting questions lol"

All very important compatibility questions

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