FabSwingers.com forum: Has swinging changed in the last 10 years

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It has for me

First time round, was as a couple on another site.

The other site had a higher monthly charge...I think 20 quid and everyone had to pay.. this made it less like Faceb@ok and people wouldn't bother setting up fake accounts or the like

Used to get lots of messages but can't remember it having a forum or if it did using it.

Our meets/socials would come via word of mouth and friends of friends or as a result of going to normal clubs and "pulling"

Never been to a swingers club yet

Now seems to be 80% men 15 % couples and the few single females . Reading the forums a lot of those men not seeing any or very little action.

By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Everything changed in 10 years.

The internet is out of its adolescent phase; it's in the hands and daily life of the majority of the world.

It is culture and it is quotable as daily practice, which softens the edges of individual communities to accidentally meld with others.

Or, roughly: people see Fab as Tinder hookups instead of a community gathering because memes.

...good coffee this mornin'.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes you are right.. I see tinder as a hook up site...have no interest in that... but to me swinging is more of a life style..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's a greater open mindedness for bi men over this time."

Yes definitely a lot more bi or bi curious men and women.