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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey, I’m new on here, profile set up.. any positive words of wisdom for my profile or what to expect please.. No insults please I’m politely asking for advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What to expect...

Messages off blokes wanting to suck your schlong.

Other than that, expect nothing

P

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"What to expect...

Messages off blokes wanting to suck your schlong.

Other than that, expect nothing

P"

This is fairly solid advice OP

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Go ugly early.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Profile, brief but says what it needs to, although you might want to put a bit about what anyone you meet can expect.

Pictures, good too.

You can expect to find it difficult to get a meet, most guys do but if you persevere, go to a few socials, chat in the forums you'll increase your chances.

Good luck and enjoy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh and if you don't want messages from single men, yes message filters to block them from contacting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile, brief but says what it needs to, although you might want to put a bit about what anyone you meet can expect.

Pictures, good too.

You can expect to find it difficult to get a meet, most guys do but if you persevere, go to a few socials, chat in the forums you'll increase your chances.

Good luck and enjoy "

I thought that, it's a pretty decent profile for a newbie who's only been on site a week? Bodes well.

I'd pop into the cam rooms and chat, if only to get someone to verify you by cam which is better than nothing in that regard at least.

Then look out for clubs and socials, you can get meet verified here, even if you don't play. Be courteous, affable and don't take the site to seriously. Be you, but the. est you, if that makes sense?

Above all, be patient.

Good luck!

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go ugly early. "

See, you've already got guys coming on to you, OP

Looovely torso pic. Remember the women here are just normal women. Talk to them like you'd talk to any other women and see how you get on.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Welcome x

Nice pics, be patient and don’t take it too seriously, this can be a wonderful place if you make the effort and get involved

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Seems good to us.

Maybe a bit more info might help

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

You look like a good looking guy, hot body, can accommodate, profile write up is brief but if you put the effort in to your first message to people then that will help, I would say read people’s profiles pick up on something that you can perhaps put in your message to them so it’s not just a Hi how are you message, people like to think your interested in meeting them and not just anybody so show that you noticed what they have said and not just looked at their pics oh and obviously chatting on the forum helps but that all important first veri goes along way to helping you out, so maybe a club visit to get this. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is perfect to me but yet I am not anal about perfectness in a profile

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Good profile. Most have said it already, be yourself, get along to socials or in the cam room for a veri and be patient

Welcome and enjoy

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Welcome to Fabs & the Forums OP

Hope you enjoy your time here.

My best advice, be polite don't send cock pics or FAF messages, talk to a woman as you'd chat in person

Oh... And nice ink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not proud of this but I keep nipping back to have another look at them pecs and the view of that right tricep... Damn!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Your profile is perfect to me but yet I am not anal about perfectness in a profile "

To your dismay

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for the advice ... much appreciated ... now to find some naughty play mates xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile photo is a really good choice! I think just say what you want to say and be who you want to be. Try to avoid just making a profile for efficient sex meets - they won't be the best meets if you do....

.... presumably you want to attract the people you want to attract, not just a bunch of random forumites who quite often don't meet much, the forum isn't necessarily representative of anything other than itself....

If you're not sure then why not experiment with your own ideas and see how they work?

P.s. can you rate mine please...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, I’m new on here, profile set up.. any positive words of wisdom for my profile or what to expect please.. No insults please I’m politely asking for advice x"

You’re Jason Statham really aren’t you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can expect few compliments about that profile pic

On a serious note - welcome and enjoy modifying your profile as you go along. That's what many do. Just evolving with time and observations what works for them. Best wishes.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

Yes nice profile pic. Advice get out to some clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha I’ve had that said to me before.. I wish I had his bank balance ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks.. going to a club alone ... scary haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Puffnmuff is message you but I’m

Not verified yet... can’t get verified very easy .. boo hoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone for the advice ... much appreciated ... now to find some naughty play mates xx"

One more bit of advice. If you press reply+quote when you want to reply to a specific comment it will do what this has done, having the original comment in too making it easier to follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say some more info on your profile, show us some of your personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say some more info on your profile, show us some of your penisality. "

Oh you flirt lemon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say some more info on your profile, show us some of your penisality.

Oh you flirt lemon!

P"

I actually had to go back and check then I've always got penis on the mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say some more info on your profile, show us some of your penisality.

Oh you flirt lemon!

P

I actually had to go back and check then I've always got penis on the mind "

I was proud of that, I can't lie

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