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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you keep any physical mementos of your special meets? Perhaps a train ticket from THAT journey or her lipstick print on your collar to never be washed again? ok.. maybe not thaaat far. Or maybe yes!

Do you gift your friends with little tokens of appreciation? Something to be remembered by?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a train ticket or the reciet from a first social meet but i haven't met anyone yet sadly. Hopefully one day.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I do like to bring a gift of some sort - for a fun meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

no, we don't.

I think possibly that single people have a slightly different approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A raw body

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No, I just enjoy the memories

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I just enjoy the memories "

Those won't be lost or can't be taken away!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"No, I just enjoy the memories

Those won't be lost or can't be taken away! "

Precisely or shared except between you and them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a FWB who our thing was a roll of lifesavers on the car window since we worked not to far from each other as the "signal". It was just our game with each other.

Life happened, but the last thing I gave him was that and a little note attached to it. I still have his last pack somewhere I'm sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really on here as it tends to be more casual . Though I have taken a gift in the past.

If I was seeing someone romantically then yes I probably would.

I'm quite corny in that respect.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A small photo, I don't remember how it was produced -some macj I guess -from a long weekend together in New York with someone special.

Otherwise nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there was an empty can of rum and in my bedside drawer for a long time..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A raw body "

Do you keep it in a human size freezer?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think there was an empty can of rum and in my bedside drawer for a long time.. "

Shame about empty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe a train ticket or the reciet from a first social meet but i haven't met anyone yet sadly. Hopefully one day."

That would be nice indeed! Fingers crossed for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do like to bring a gift of some sort - for a fun meet.

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I am not sure if i should ask what 'of some sort' means?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I once had a FWB who our thing was a roll of lifesavers on the car window since we worked not to far from each other as the "signal". It was just our game with each other.

Life happened, but the last thing I gave him was that and a little note attached to it. I still have his last pack somewhere I'm sure.

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Loving the game idea. Just another way to bond & have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no, we don't.

I think possibly that single people have a slightly different approach."

Maybe that's true for some, didnt think about it until you mentioned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there was an empty can of rum and in my bedside drawer for a long time..

Shame about empty "

It wasn't when the night began purrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not really on here as it tends to be more casual . Though I have taken a gift in the past.

If I was seeing someone romantically then yes I probably would.

I'm quite corny in that respect.

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Yes i was wondering if it would have been seen as a step into 'romantic' direction? But it doesn't have to be. Just a kind gesture. Or something to laugh about days or weeks later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A small photo, I don't remember how it was produced -some macj I guess -from a long weekend together in New York with someone special.

Otherwise nothing. "

Smallest treasures are best. And what a special souvenir to cherish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a FWB who our thing was a roll of lifesavers on the car window since we worked not to far from each other as the "signal". It was just our game with each other.

Life happened, but the last thing I gave him was that and a little note attached to it. I still have his last pack somewhere I'm sure.

"

What is a lifesaver??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if I have feeling for that person. Otherwise I just burn everything

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes I do. I'm probably a bit odd but I like baking for people I like so I've made brownies and cakes before. The last date I still have the gig stub from and a little bar napkin with a daft hastily scrolled message on.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It’s nice to; it will help forensics when they find my body

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Not with meets in this side of our life.

Only in our 'real' life with those we love.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

If I go to a meet and I know the person has a cat or dog I usually take some treats..but don't ever take anything for the person I'm meeting.. probably why I never get invited back

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Of course. I like to pluck a hair or two of theirs and sellotape it into my little black book

Failing that, I keep the wonderful memories

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No, only with romantic relationships. My last item was a parking display ticket from our first date. It’s lasted longer than the relationship

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By *odd4funnMan
over a year ago

Walthamstow Leyton

Have been left a few pairs of knickers over the years And no !! i always launder them and keep in drawer safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do some rather special momentos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I just enjoy the memories

Those won't be lost or can't be taken away!

Precisely or shared except between you and them "

Well said! I relish of the memories... but no physical items

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By *LOVEpinacoladasWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm always picking up bits and pieces for friends (platonic or otherwise) or partners - I love gift-giving.

For flings or more casual hook ups I sometimes dress up (or down!) and take 'more special than a selfie' photos, and appreciate receiving well thought out ones too.

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By *nto My ArmsMan
over a year ago

Herts/London

We have the sombrero from a bottle of tequila as a memento of our first swinging experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love reading all these..

Glad it isn't just me.

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