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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I recently read a profile.

“ if your a single male and you can’t accommodate you are married “.

There are a lot of reasons single males can not accommodate.

Being married or in a relationship is not necessarily one of them.??

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Well, it will be the reason for some, but not all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

live with mum and dad would invite a lady over if I could lol

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

My daughter has returned home after recent seperation, so difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

It's quite a blinkered stance, to be sure

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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"live with mum and dad would invite a lady over if I could lol"

I live with and care for my elderly mother since my father passed,

“ family will always come first “.

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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"live with mum and dad would invite a lady over if I could lol

I live with and care for my elderly mother since my father passed,

“ family will always come first “. "

It can be hard holding down full time employment and caring for someone.

so no time for presumptuous attitudes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have bad anxiety and no-one has stepped foot in my flat for four years!! I am awaiting counseling so hopefully I will be able to accommodate one day.

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By *TJxComboMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Maybe they just don't want strangers in their house

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Personally I see can't accommodate means just that! Nothing more

We say we can but don't unless we have met before and they know our dog.

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"I recently read a profile.

“ if your a single male and you can’t accommodate you are married “.

There are a lot of reasons single males can not accommodate.

Being married or in a relationship is not necessarily one of them.??"

We agree we met a carer lovely man and genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discreet and can’t accommodate.

In a relationship or too scared to admit to being on here?

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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"I have bad anxiety and no-one has stepped foot in my flat for four years!! I am awaiting counseling so hopefully I will be able to accommodate one day."

I hope your counselling goes well, life can be hard at times.

Just remember tomorrow is another day and every day is a beautiful day.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Even if I was single, why would I be so naive to allow any old stranger into my home? If people are in such a rush to get into your home, alarm bells should be ringing.

Ed

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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Discreet and can’t accommodate.

In a relationship or too scared to admit to being on here?"

Please read my profile and verifications.

they speak for themselves. I have no need to make false statements what so ever. Totally single and nothing to hide what so ever.

“ each to their own “.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even if I was single, why would I be so naive to allow any old stranger into my home? If people are in such a rush to get into your home, alarm bells should be ringing.

Ed"

!!

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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Even if I was single, why would I be so naive to allow any old stranger into my home? If people are in such a rush to get into your home, alarm bells should be ringing.

Ed"

This is why I think a social meet first is so important

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

My big scary dog would have kittens if a bloke walked into my house, he is so 'brave' and the kids would probably bite

It's good people put things like that on their profile. It's another filter to tell you to run

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Even if I was single, why would I be so naive to allow any old stranger into my home? If people are in such a rush to get into your home, alarm bells should be ringing.

Ed"

100% spot on...

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Even if I was single, why would I be so naive to allow any old stranger into my home? If people are in such a rush to get into your home, alarm bells should be ringing.

Ed

This is why I think a social meet first is so important "

Most definitely. We’ve all seen ‘Fatal Attraction’ right? Why would you let a nutter know where you live?

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my kid's here half the week so as it's their home too I'd need to meet someone socially first before anyone came here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My big scary dog would have kittens if a bloke walked into my house, he is so 'brave' and the kids would probably bite

It's good people put things like that on their profile. It's another filter to tell you to run "
like dogs bring them on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many things people say OP that lack any form of logic or objectivity..

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I recently read a profile.

“ if your a single male and you can’t accommodate you are married “.

There are a lot of reasons single males can not accommodate.

Being married or in a relationship is not necessarily one of them.??"

I can't accommodate because my wife told me the kid wouldn't like it. Accusation upheld!

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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Even if I was single, why would I be so naive to allow any old stranger into my home? If people are in such a rush to get into your home, alarm bells should be ringing.

Ed

This is why I think a social meet first is so important

Most definitely. We’ve all seen ‘Fatal Attraction’ right? Why would you let a nutter know where you live?

Ed"

Yes or enter a nutters property

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only work part time. So live a house share. Pretty hard to bring someone over if the house is full of other people.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It can make me more cautious but I know it doesn't always mean that. Some people live with parents or other family members, some have kids at home, some don't feel comfortable with people they don't know well knowing where they live, some live with housemates and don't feel comfortable bringing random over. There's all sorts of reasons. You can often tell when people are trying to hide things and aren't being entirely honest compared to those with genuine reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is seldom as clear cut as some think. I am married, but as my wife has her own flat in a completely different country, and comes home to our home about twice a year, and beyond that I have 4 bedrooms in my home so dont even need to use our bed, I could most certainly accommodate if I wanted to. Currently it amuses me to neither accommodate or travel, so I dont.

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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

There are many reasons people are unable to accommodate, this thread clearly portrays that.

“ think you are married because you are a single male”,

has to be the shallowest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After losing everything, I've been staying with friends and more recently back at my parents, but tomorrow I get the keys to my new apartment so I will finally be able to accommodate, but that doesn't mean I will it means i might.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've accommodated a few ladies in my time on here, usually overnight or for a couple of days, but the last one ended up staying for 4 nights, I thought she was planning on moving in!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't think anyone should justify why they don't want strangers in their home or assume someone's married.

I meet at home. I only invite people who welcome me in theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've accommodated a few ladies in my time on here, usually overnight or for a couple of days, but the last one ended up staying for 4 nights, I thought she was planning on moving in! "

She did mate, haven't you noticed you are now living in the shed

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I don’t accomodate as my youngest son lives here but even if he didn’t would I really want random people stepping over my doorstep . I live in a village and believe me everything gets noticed here

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I've accommodated a few ladies in my time on here, usually overnight or for a couple of days, but the last one ended up staying for 4 nights, I thought she was planning on moving in!

She did mate, haven't you noticed you are now living in the shed "

Yeah, and the bog seat is always down

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

We (my young kids and i) live with my mum so i can look after her and help around the house. She has health issues as well as very poor mobility.

I never assume someone’s situation on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's no one's business why they don't accommodate, too many people are quick to judge and make assumptions. If people don't like the fact you don't accom just use it as a filter to not meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's no one's business why they don't accommodate, too many people are quick to judge and make assumptions. If people don't like the fact you don't accom just use it as a filter to not meet them. "
off topic nice pig tails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone really wants to meet me then they should be willing to meet somewhere public for a social first.

If both still keen then they shouldn't mind splitting the cost of a room .

What I choose to do regarding my own home is no ones business but mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had few couples message me after checking their fab profile, like at 2.30am over weekend asking can I pick em up or pay for a taxi accommodate for a social just seemed like they're just after somewhere to crash after a night out and don't want to pay for hotel to stay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discreet and can’t accommodate.

In a relationship or too scared to admit to being on here?

Please read my profile and verifications.

they speak for themselves. I have no need to make false statements what so ever. Totally single and nothing to hide what so ever.

“ each to their own “."

I was asking a general question, it wasn’t aimed at anyone in particular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i live in a monastery praise be the lord

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the same thing goes for women then.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We can't accommodate because we like to meet at clubs.

Plus our dog can be very distracting during sex lol.

And if someone doesn't wanna meet because you can't accommodate that's there loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on my own for a while but my son moved back in after his relationship broke down now I can't be naked as much as I used to and can't accommodate

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By *ovegames42 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Discreet and can’t accommodate.

In a relationship or too scared to admit to being on here?

Please read my profile and verifications.

they speak for themselves. I have no need to make false statements what so ever. Totally single and nothing to hide what so ever.

“ each to their own “.

I was asking a general question, it wasn’t aimed at anyone in particular "

No offence meant, apologise or it sounded so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone really wants to meet me then they should be willing to meet somewhere public for a social first.

If both still keen then they shouldn't mind splitting the cost of a room .

What I choose to do regarding my own home is no ones business but mine "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone really wants to meet me then they should be willing to meet somewhere public for a social first.

If both still keen then they shouldn't mind splitting the cost of a room .

What I choose to do regarding my own home is no ones business but mine

"

Amen

XXX

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By *attooedsmileMan
over a year ago

dudley

Having my daughter live with me full time is hard as fu*k, even before joining FAB if I was to meet a woman ide have to make sure my daughter was asleep, sometimes it would be to late for anyone to come round as she she had work... hard times

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

So many men appear to have theur kids living with them ! Off fab, this is rare.

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