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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do people think?

Do people find that a Social meet is always best or do people just dive straight in?

I would always say social meet at least once with some chatting to get things going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a few meets where I’ve invited them to mine and kissed them on arrival...

But social probably builds more anticipation and excitement, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first as I want to check if they smell bad or not before taking the knickers.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Absolutely a social first! Made the mistake of straight in when I first started, will not happen ever again unless you are Tom Hardy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely a social first! Made the mistake of straight in when I first started, will not happen ever again unless you are Tom Hardy. "

That's his name! Couldn't think of it last night when I was watching The Revenant. Thanks x.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Social first. Though a few of these quickly turned in to something more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like do have a social first x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes social is non committing..

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Absolutely a social first! Made the mistake of straight in when I first started, will not happen ever again unless you are Tom Hardy.

That's his name! Couldn't think of it last night when I was watching The Revenant. Thanks x."

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By *m6469Couple
over a year ago

Northwich

Yes we like to have a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social frist got to see if there really chemist in person. People can ack way different online than they do in person. Plus the right filter can take years off you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social....Saves any awkwardness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a social first. Chance to see if theres a spark and do a bit of flirting

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Social frist got to see if there really chemist in person. People can ack way different online than they do in person. Plus the right filter can take years off you lol"

I dont usually have cat ears...

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Absolutely always a social first for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social frist got to see if there really chemist in person. People can ack way different online than they do in person. Plus the right filter can take years off you lol

I dont usually have cat ears... "

Lol too true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social frist got to see if there really chemist in person. People can ack way different online than they do in person. Plus the right filter can take years off you lol

I dont usually have cat ears... "

Lol I think cat ears would be a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first, u never know what nutters are out there

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Social for localish meets, but the long distance ones I've been chatting/sexting swapping pics etc to for a few months its a straight meet.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Redruth Roller Disco..... I have to see what they look like in leg-warmers before I commit

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Usually a social first, but there have been a couple of exceptions when someone has been making a long trip just to meet me - but in those instances we have chatted extensively and spoken on the phone beforehand.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Social for localish meets, but the long distance ones I've been chatting/sexting swapping pics etc to for a few months its a straight meet."

Get your Ass to hull.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Most definitely a social first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never heard so much bullshit in all my life....

Every single, single man, who has messaged us, has never mentioned anything about a social first.....

And lets be honest here... there are that many single guys on here, which makes hard enough to get a meet, that no single man is going to miss the opportunity of a fuck by insisting on a social first... especially if it's a short notice meet.

No offence guys.... but your not here for tea and cakes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely a social first! Made the mistake of straight in when I first started, will not happen ever again unless you are Tom Hardy. "

Can we share him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind either

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands


"Social frist got to see if there really chemist in person. People can ack way different online than they do in person. Plus the right filter can take years off you lol

I dont usually have cat ears... "

Or whiskers!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Never heard so much bullshit in all my life....

Every single, single man, who has messaged us, has never mentioned anything about a social first.....

And lets be honest here... there are that many single guys on here, which makes hard enough to get a meet, that no single man is going to miss the opportunity of a fuck by insisting on a social first... especially if it's a short notice meet.

No offence guys.... but your not here for tea and cakes... "

Sorry, but all me first meets have been social.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Social . . . . Well we always mean to start with a social but sometimes the chemistry is just right isn't it?

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Absolutely a social first! Made the mistake of straight in when I first started, will not happen ever again unless you are Tom Hardy.

Can we share him? "

I was taught to share... xx

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By *lex.88Man
over a year ago

Edgware

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Always a social first x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Absolutely a social first! Made the mistake of straight in when I first started, will not happen ever again unless you are Tom Hardy. "

Now - I've been told I look like Tom Hardy......or was it Oliver Hardy?????

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Absolutely a social first! Made the mistake of straight in when I first started, will not happen ever again unless you are Tom Hardy.

Now - I've been told I look like Tom Hardy......or was it Oliver Hardy?????"

mwahh xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do people think?

Do people find that a Social meet is always best or do people just dive straight in?

I would always say social meet at least once with some chatting to get things going."

diving in not for me

social breaks the ice and then you can see if you want to fuck them or not because we do not have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have a job too turn up to a social so it’s a good barometer to see if they are genuine and secondly if they make you fizz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A quick hello a handshake and a ride in the lift is a social isnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a few meets where I’ve invited them to mine and kissed them on arrival...

But social probably builds more anticipation and excitement, I think."

we can still get disappointment

My first days on here were a let down with a few not looking like their photos

I am getting to the stage now where I have to have a social or nothing else because after all we have to be safe both men and women.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We've discussed this at length with several of our friends on here. We like socials but they seem to be a waste of time for others.

We bit the bullet and set up a private room and dinner at a country pub and invited everyone on our hot list that we'd been meaning to meet. Six couples showed. This led to an invitation to an awesome meet that still gives us the post orgasm shivers

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I like to have a social that can lead to more straight away. Like meeting in the bar of a hotel I’m staying at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A quick hello a handshake and a ride in the lift is a social isnt it "

he he he never tried a lift sex, sex lifts yes

must try that next time in the lift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything would be a bonus.....

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Always a social and often it stays right there.. I’m really enjoying socialising at the mo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do people think?

Do people find that a Social meet is always best or do people just dive straight in?

I would always say social meet at least once with some chatting to get things going."

some guys here think a social is a date and say that this is not a dating site.

Erm like to change your attitude, a social meet to me is not a date it just means you meet to either say yes or no to sex rather than

oi love just open your door and let me in for a quick fuck without even the slightest conversation

it is getting desperate on here lately not me ...

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Social all the way. You must always window shop before you buy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find socials incredibly awkward. I don't meet anyone unless we've had at least one phone conversation. Then I'll usually wait a bit, see how they behave over a few days. Then we'll talk again and once I'm comfortable I'll invite them here. It's worked brilliantly. And I've never been on a social meet that's gone further. It just doesn't work for me.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We've had guys round and got more or less straight down to play. Not meeting atm though.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Social first for me but often with the potential for more if we both want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had guys round and got more or less straight down to play. Not meeting atm though."

As a couple we never do socials. Never had any trouble with anyone. My bf is a big, scary looking fucker, they're always on their best behaviour.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"We've had guys round and got more or less straight down to play. Not meeting atm though.

As a couple we never do socials. Never had any trouble with anyone. My bf is a big, scary looking fucker, they're always on their best behaviour. "

Yes..lol. Same here, never any trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A quick hello a handshake and a ride in the lift is a social isnt it "

Reminds me of someone I used to know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've stopped doing socials, only meet at clubs now.

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich


"A quick hello a handshake and a ride in the lift is a social isnt it "

I think that counts as social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always just a social first. No sex chat or contact, not even a kiss.

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By *handraWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Prefer a social first but I have chatted to some guys for a while first and first meet wasn't social but went to his.

Need to get the right vibe from them, that they are real and not just wasting time.

Never had a bad experience so far.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Have done both all depends on the vibe of that person and how long you’ve been messaging, been very lucky so far

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