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By *entileschi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Does it put you off if a profile says 'a bit shy'?

I don't want to coax someone out of their shell. My bad I know, but these days I want a bold and confident lover.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No it really doesnt bother me. I think sometimes people say this because they get nerves when meeting someone, which I can relate to.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Not at all. Some are shy at the beginning, just means they need to be relaxed and comfortable. I’ve not anyone yet who 1-2-1 who remains shy for long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me neither, it is people being honest. If you have that spark, I am sure you will have a great experience. Plus what's that adage about quiet ones....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (her) would prefer shy to overtly confident. I am not attracted to that personality type at all, regardless of how handsome the person is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't put me off. I don't think it's a bad thing though if you decide that person isn't for you. I'm quite fond of a confident man, it definitely attracts me.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

The thing with shy it is not always down to actual confidence. A lot of the most outgoing people on the surface are in fact some of the most shy.

A great deal of being shy is down to how another person treats you. You need to allow them to feel at ease more than having to coax them out. There is a big difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a very difficult and awkward meet with someone who was super nervous.

I think I’d be cautious about meeting people like that now.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m shy socially but i’m a dirty bitch in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt bother me tbh im chatty and easy going so bring the shy out their shells.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m shy socially but i’m a dirty bitch in bed "

I was right, you are the best part of I don't accommodate in South Wales

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I find it quite endearing.. I can be quite socially awkward when meeting new people so I find it reassuring when someone’s in the same boat. Never lasts long if you get on well anyway

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Yes. Given the choice id not choose someone who said they were "shy" between 2 otherwise identical profiles.

People saying "shy" and confident are different are partly correct imo - im confident in most aspects of life but possibly less so with women. This is less to do with shyness than it is fear of fucking up though!!!

Also - some people say "shy" when they mean something else. Genuinely shy people unlikely to be on this site with intentions to meet

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Glad no one was put off my being a tad shy ,only first 5 mins or so but after that ,they need their hand on my mouth as i moan a lot and loud

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By *entileschi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"It doesn't put me off. I don't think it's a bad thing though if you decide that person isn't for you. I'm quite fond of a confident man, it definitely attracts me. "

I guess past a certain age I have learned what is right for me. Work requires coaxing people out of their shells. I have endless patience for that. Perhaps this informs my playtime and makes me want boldness to rev me up instead.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I find it quite endearing.. I can be quite socially awkward when meeting new people so I find it reassuring when someone’s in the same boat. Never lasts long if you get on well anyway "

I agree with this too. Fuck it, I'm going to actively seek out a shy guy now

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes it would put me off. I once had a social with someone who sweated like a pig and told me 100x how nervous he was. Too me this was off putting. God knows how he would react in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it quite endearing.. I can be quite socially awkward when meeting new people so I find it reassuring when someone’s in the same boat. Never lasts long if you get on well anyway

I agree with this too. Fuck it, I'm going to actively seek out a shy guy now "

I am really shy ne

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

I find it endearing in a woman but could see how it might me a turn off in a guy, just like confidence in a guy seems to be very attractive.

Last meet i had, she was very shy and described herself as very socially awkward before the meet.

She was indeed shy but Im not pushy and I found she was quite comfortable to chat and very forthcoming in bed. I messaged her later to say I didn't find her awkward at all.

I think there are so many dynamic factors in a meet that it's a real challenge to hold an air of confidence. I certainly get tongue-tied at times lol

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I find it quite endearing.. I can be quite socially awkward when meeting new people so I find it reassuring when someone’s in the same boat. Never lasts long if you get on well anyway

I agree with this too. Fuck it, I'm going to actively seek out a shy guy now

I am really shy ne "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it put you off if a profile says 'a bit shy'?

I don't want to coax someone out of their shell. My bad I know, but these days I want a bold and confident lover."
doesn't put me off people generally warm to me very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if the profile states that and there are thousand of pic of her sucking différents cock.

I would assume that she is just lying about being shy and it is a trick to lure men to fuck her and as I am not just a beautiful body with two legs that walk straight in curved lines, I would eat a Bueno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only if the profile states that and there are thousand of pic of her sucking différents cock.

I would assume that she is just lying about being shy and it is a trick to lure men to fuck her and as I am not just a beautiful body with two legs that walk straight in curved lines, I would eat a Bueno "
omg youve banged your head again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only if the profile states that and there are thousand of pic of her sucking différents cock.

I would assume that she is just lying about being shy and it is a trick to lure men to fuck her and as I am not just a beautiful body with two legs that walk straight in curved lines, I would eat a Bueno omg youve banged your head again lol "

At least someone who gets me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only if the profile states that and there are thousand of pic of her sucking différents cock.

I would assume that she is just lying about being shy and it is a trick to lure men to fuck her and as I am not just a beautiful body with two legs that walk straight in curved lines, I would eat a Bueno omg youve banged your head again lol

At least someone who gets me "
I'll get you a tourniquet

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By *entileschi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Only if the profile states that and there are thousand of pic of her sucking différents cock.

I would assume that she is just lying about being shy and it is a trick to lure men to fuck her and as I am not just a beautiful body with two legs that walk straight in curved lines, I would eat a Bueno "

Two sweet fingers

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