FabSwingers.com forum: Can single people be swingers?

By *isaAndNicoleTrans OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Although I attend swingers clubs and parties etc and have played with men, women, couples and other TVs I got told by a couple the other day that it was wrong to class myself as a swinger as true swinging is something for couples only.

Just got me thinking. What is swinging? What defines a swinger? And can single people be swingers?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Oh dear God

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Technically no

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I swing for one lady to a couple and back again I have no one committed sexual relationship with in my boundaries.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I class myself as one and who has the right to tell me otherwise?

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I'm single so therefore I don't class myself as a swinger

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By *isaAndNicoleTrans OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

"I'm single so therefore I don't class myself as a swinger "

But why not? What is swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single and wouldn't class myself as a swinger

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I had a think about this and for me it boils down to wether single people would still swing if they got into a relationship.

So yes and no.

Some are swingers (with a different relationship status) and some are just shaggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be anything you want to be, so long as you're happy and it doesn't hurt other people

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"I'm single so therefore I don't class myself as a swinger

But why not? What is swinging? "
for me swinging is about swooping partners , maybe that's wrong but it's how I see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a think about this and for me it boils down to wether single people would still swing if they got into a relationship.

So yes and no.

Some are swingers (with a different relationship status) and some are just shaggers "

We all shag at the end of the day

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By *isaAndNicoleTrans OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I'm happy to be classed as a shagger or a shagee or a swinger. Suppose I'm more interested in understanding the definition of swinging?

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By *isaAndNicoleTrans OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

"I'm single so therefore I don't class myself as a swinger

But why not? What is swinging? for me swinging is about swooping partners , maybe that's wrong but it's how I see it "

Ah I see, yes makes sense

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Here is my take.

Yes of course single people can be swingers.

Thank you. Up there with the weather report.

The end

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m single - just here for a good time - swinger or not!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"I had a think about this and for me it boils down to wether single people would still swing if they got into a relationship.

So yes and no.

Some are swingers (with a different relationship status) and some are just shaggers

We all shag at the end of the day

And sometimes in the morning or afternoon!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I'm single and yes I do.

Other people have different definitions of the word, some couples will try and tell you that you 'can't be' because you don't fit with their personal definition. I think that swinging is a mindset as much as anything else.

I think that people try to make specific things more exclusive all the time in an effort to feel more special when they do it. Really it's their issue, not yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another label, and the only thing that's clear is that people have different definitions of what constitutes 'swinging'. For example I'm on here because it is implied that you are not looking for a long term relationship, otherwise I'd just use a TV dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never thought of myself as a swinger. My bf and I play here as an extension of our Ds dynamic and as a single I'm just a chick who likes men and hates dating.

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By *LOVEpinacoladasWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I had a think about this and for me it boils down to wether single people would still swing if they got into a relationship.

So yes and no.

Some are swingers (with a different relationship status) and some are just shaggers "

Yes this! I'm a solo swinger at the moment (swingle?), and my relationship preference is to swing together.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I just label myself as promiscuous

Or I'm feeling bolshy licentious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just label myself as promiscuous

Or I'm feeling bolshy licentious.

Someone once said I was a bad girl and a good woman. I really liked that

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

I wouldn't see myself as a swinger. I'd be interested to know if the younger couples on here call themselves swingers as well. I'm just here for a good time, baby xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just got me thinking. What is swinging? What defines a swinger? And can single people be swingers? "

Yes, but it isn't compulsory

though singles who only meet singles are close to borderline between every normal human being and swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Although I attend swingers clubs and parties etc and have played with men, women, couples and other TVs I got told by a couple the other day that it was wrong to class myself as a swinger as true swinging is something for couples only.

Just got me thinking. What is swinging? What defines a swinger? And can single people be swingers? "
if a label is to be applied to the lifestyle then yes couples started it so they are the origin but as it progressed singles were needed

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Can single people be swingers ? If a couple want to swap with another couple then the answer is no.If a couple are looking for a guy or girl to experiment / experience a scenario , fantasy , tick something of the bucket list then yes single guys and girls can be swingers.Should single people who want to experience something be called something else I have seen the word swingle today on this thread.So what am I swinger , swingle , FWB , friend well I am a single guy looking to meet couples or single ladies for social , friends or adult fun. I let others decide if they want to attach a label.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I think swinging is anyone who enjoys sex with multiple people either one on one or in a group.

I love it when couples say singles can't be swingers, especially when most couples are looking for singles. Surely if they are having sex with a non swinger, it's no longer swinging?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I think swinging is anyone who enjoys sex with multiple people either one on one or in a group.

I love it when couples say singles can't be swingers, especially when most couples are looking for singles. Surely if they are having sex with a non swinger, it's no longer swinging? "

So in conclusion they ARE labelled a swinger when it suits the couple? I think you’ve nailed it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes single people can be swingers.

I don't like the term because the elitist couple Swingers tarnished it. They can keep it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single. I like people. I like sex.

Do we really need to worry that much h about labels.....

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I think swinging is anyone who enjoys sex with multiple people either one on one or in a group.

I love it when couples say singles can't be swingers, especially when most couples are looking for singles. Surely if they are having sex with a non swinger, it's no longer swinging?

So in conclusion they ARE labelled a swinger when it suits the couple? I think you’ve nailed it!"

Pretty much, some couples have a real bee in their bonnet over how swinging is just for them even while they are hunting singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think swinging is anyone who enjoys sex with multiple people either one on one or in a group.

I love it when couples say singles can't be swingers, especially when most couples are looking for singles. Surely if they are having sex with a non swinger, it's no longer swinging?

So in conclusion they ARE labelled a swinger when it suits the couple? I think you’ve nailed it!

Pretty much, some couples have a real bee in their bonnet over how swinging is just for them even while they are hunting singles.

I think it's the guilt. They need to call it Swinging because they feel bad about fucking around.

Other swinging couples are great. They are secure and don't need to look down on people.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I think swinging is anyone who enjoys sex with multiple people either one on one or in a group.

I love it when couples say singles can't be swingers, especially when most couples are looking for singles. Surely if they are having sex with a non swinger, it's no longer swinging?

So in conclusion they ARE labelled a swinger when it suits the couple? I think you’ve nailed it!

Pretty much, some couples have a real bee in their bonnet over how swinging is just for them even while they are hunting singles.

I think it's the guilt. They need to call it Swinging because they feel bad about fucking around.

Other swinging couples are great. They are secure and don't need to look down on people. "

Yep. I know a fair few really nice couples who embrace singles on the scene.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

adjective

1. moving back and forth or from side to side while suspended or on an axis.

"an old mahogany grandfather clock with a swinging pendulum"

INFORMAL

lively, exciting, and fashionable.

"a swinging resort"

noun

1. the action of moving back and forth or from side to side while suspended or on an axis.

"all clocks used to keep time by the swinging of a pendulum"

INFORMAL

the practice of engaging in group sex OR the swapping of sexual partners within a group, especially on a habitual basis.

I quite like the idea of being a pendulum

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

If you are single and only meet other single people, maybe you aren't a 'swinger'.

But if you are single and playing with a couple, maybe you are.

The reverse is asking whether couples who only meet single people (unicorns, or BBC etc) are swingers, because they are not swapping either.

If you want to draw a line, maybe it's about sharing?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"If you are single and only meet other single people, maybe you aren't a 'swinger'.

But if you are single and playing with a couple, maybe you are.

The reverse is asking whether couples who only meet single people (unicorns, or BBC etc) are swingers, because they are not swapping either.

If you want to draw a line, maybe it's about sharing?"

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By *illy999TV/TS
over a year ago

Taunton

Swinger is singular .

Swingers is the plural .

I swear I'll swing if anyone

contradicts me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we just shag around

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

If I just wanted a shag I'd go down town over the weekend.

I'm not a shagger.

Im a swinger and whether I'm in a relationship or not doesn't change that.

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

I see it as more of a lifestyle choice...one which I'm fully onboard with, both in and out of a relationship. So yes, I would class myself as a swinger even though I'm not currently in a relationship.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have always classed myself as a swinger and object to being told otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be swingle.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I'm single so therefore I don't class myself as a swinger

But why not? What is swinging? for me swinging is about swooping partners , maybe that's wrong but it's how I see it "
I will happily swap partners if I have one.. therefore I could probably be one ... but I prefer to say I'm a sexual adventurer anyway

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

If you're stuck in the 1960's then no.

If you've joined the rest of the world in the next milennium, we've updated the T&C's to be more inclusive.

I've even seen some couples claim that singles can be classed as swingers if they're allowed to play with a swinging couple...which was awfully nice of them to be so fucking gracious!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"If I just wanted a shag I'd go down town over the weekend.

I'm not a shagger.

Im a swinger and whether I'm in a relationship or not doesn't change that."

I agree completely.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"If you're stuck in the 1960's then no.

If you've joined the rest of the world in the next milennium, we've updated the T&C's to be more inclusive.

I've even seen some couples claim that singles can be classed as swingers if they're allowed to play with a swinging couple...which was awfully nice of them to be so fucking gracious!

Elitist couples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swingers site and it has an option for selecting if you are single or not. I originally thought of swinging as something couples did but since using Fabswingers I now class myself as a swinger, I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many single people are swingers but a single person exclusively hooking up with other single people for sex isnt swinging in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know Iam not skilled enough to reply to that question. All I know it that James killed her !

(How to get a murder spoilers !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically to swing means you have to swap isn’t it? So that involves more than one person.....but lots of singletons together at clubs you wouldn’t know if they was single or part of a couple x

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