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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone whose online for several months, no pics, no Veri's, catfish? Frauds?

Thoughts...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not necessarily.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Could be all kinds if reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sydney University.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

It took us about three months to get our profile up to speed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always like to keep openminded and positive, but we all know it can be a mine field x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Someone whose online for several months, no pics, no Veri's, catfish? Frauds?

Thoughts..."

Have you contacted them...or is it just a general question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it bother you OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No it's an ongoing chat x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why does it bother you OP?"

OP?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"No it's an ongoing chat x "

So what makes you think they might be a catfish? I've seen every episode, I'm quite the expert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the distant ting a ling of alarm bells....?

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By *modDMan
over a year ago

Lichfield


"Someone whose online for several months, no pics, no Veri's, catfish? Frauds?

Thoughts..."

Are you worried that somebody with a naff profile is getting more sex than you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh ding a long indeedy

I'm more than understanding to take time to chat initially I'm not one to rush nor pester, but it's been a while and duck several questions regarding pics etc x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone whose online for several months, no pics, no Veri's, catfish? Frauds?

Thoughts...

Are you worried that somebody with a naff profile is getting more sex than you?"

Everyone's getting more sex than me lol

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"No it's an ongoing chat x "

Ok well, your messages should be an indicator of what's what. If it feels right then there's only one way to find out. If not, back out.

People have their reasons I'm sure for no pics.

Ask them to send you one. I wouldn't meet without seeing them, persoanlly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No it's an ongoing chat x

Ok well, your messages should be an indicator of what's what. If it feels right then there's only one way to find out. If not, back out.

People have their reasons I'm sure for no pics.

Ask them to send you one. I wouldn't meet without seeing them, persoanlly"

Oh I agree,

I never ask nor demand pics in any circumstance, I have asked but don't want to force the issue, I certainly wouldnt meet without a pic nor a chat over the phone x

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By *weety321Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

Maybe they’re just not having much luck, they might not of had any free time to meet or they might not of been ready to meet... who knows? Could be anything

I had doubts about a guy turning up to our arranged social meet a few weeks back because there was no veries, I give him a chance and glad I did as we got on really well and had a great time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they’re just not having much luck, they might not of had any free time to meet or they might not of been ready to meet... who knows? Could be anything

I had doubts about a guy turning up to our arranged social meet a few weeks back because there was no veries, I give him a chance and glad I did as we got on really well and had a great time "

That's good to hear, hence why I raised the question, but surely not account verified is a red flag? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone whose online for several months, no pics, no Veri's, catfish? Frauds?

Thoughts..."

Nope, not necessarily. My first profile I had here years ago, I didn't have pics, didn't meet anyone therefore no veris. Read the forums but could not contribute for about 2 years..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone whose online for several months, no pics, no Veri's, catfish? Frauds?

Thoughts...

Nope, not necessarily. My first profile I had here years ago, I didn't have pics, didn't meet anyone therefore no veris. Read the forums but could not contribute for about 2 years.. "

I'll take it on board, by no means do I intend to rush or pressure anyone,

How you finding fab now?

X

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By *weety321Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Maybe they’re just not having much luck, they might not of had any free time to meet or they might not of been ready to meet... who knows? Could be anything

I had doubts about a guy turning up to our arranged social meet a few weeks back because there was no veries, I give him a chance and glad I did as we got on really well and had a great time

Why I arranged a social meet in a public place, near a place I wanted to go to whilst out anyway. Killed 2 birds with 1 stone!

That's good to hear, hence why I raised the question, but surely not account verified is a red flag? X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll take it on board, by no means do I intend to rush or pressure anyone,

How you finding fab now?

X"

This is probably my 4th profile but 2nd of same name. I've met some lovely gents during this and previous profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll take it on board, by no means do I intend to rush or pressure anyone,

How you finding fab now?

X

This is probably my 4th profile but 2nd of same name. I've met some lovely gents during this and previous profile. "

That's good to hear! Nothing worse than fab been misued, granted I've not had too many meets, of course we all have our preferences, but looking like I've been hit with a spanner does somewhat restrict me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. Chat to them and ask why they haven’t if it makes you feel better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah. Chat to them and ask why they haven’t if it makes you feel better."

Gone zero dark on me,says it all, unless my mugs scared em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone whose online for several months, no pics, no Veri's, catfish? Frauds?

Thoughts..."

Maybe they’re just hibernating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone whose online for several months, no pics, no Veri's, catfish? Frauds?

Thoughts...

Maybe they’re just hibernating "

Its is chilly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah. Chat to them and ask why they haven’t if it makes you feel better.

Gone zero dark on me,says it all, unless my mugs scared em "

Ooooh. Lucky escape for you then...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah. Chat to them and ask why they haven’t if it makes you feel better.

Gone zero dark on me,says it all, unless my mugs scared em

Ooooh. Lucky escape for you then..."

Seems that way yeah lol

Cant not appreciate the contact, basket case or not..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone whose online for several months, no pics, no Veri's, catfish? Frauds?

Thoughts..."
nope maybe they had pics but you never noticed, maybe they had a bad experience but you wernt aware of it, maybe they dont like veris, maybe they're taking a break etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone whose online for several months, no pics, no Veri's, catfish? Frauds?

Thoughts...nope maybe they had pics but you never noticed, maybe they had a bad experience but you wernt aware of it, maybe they dont like veris, maybe they're taking a break etc "

Yeah I thought that but nearly a year without even verifying the profile raises questions, nonetheless raising that point themselves would be fine,but nope nothing lol

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By *elshguy999Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly

No joy in the early days, maybe. Takes time to get established.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone whose online for several months, no pics, no Veri's, catfish? Frauds?

Thoughts...nope maybe they had pics but you never noticed, maybe they had a bad experience but you wernt aware of it, maybe they dont like veris, maybe they're taking a break etc

Yeah I thought that but nearly a year without even verifying the profile raises questions, nonetheless raising that point themselves would be fine,but nope nothing lol "
i dont like veris i see them as bragging and avoid them like the plague

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone whose online for several months, no pics, no Veri's, catfish? Frauds?

Thoughts...nope maybe they had pics but you never noticed, maybe they had a bad experience but you wernt aware of it, maybe they dont like veris, maybe they're taking a break etc

Yeah I thought that but nearly a year without even verifying the profile raises questions, nonetheless raising that point themselves would be fine,but nope nothing lol i dont like veris i see them as bragging and avoid them like the plague "

Hahaha that's you been smooth as there eh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was recently catfished by a woman who had visible meet verifications. So it's not hard to believe someone without is fake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was recently catfished by a woman who had visible meet verifications. So it's not hard to believe someone without is fake"

Ouch!

What happened

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