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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To a person on here?

I have tried the be nice to everyone approach, but then you end up having them calling you a time Easter.. just because you're conversing with them..so I dont bother now..lol

I honestly dont get excited by cock pics.. I want a mental connection, and lovely eyes help! But its nice to see pics of a man without a beer in his hands, a pussy in his mouth or his cock in his hand! Lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Waster not eater...damn autocorrect (not so correct)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I find them attractive or not, and I do then it depends on the type of message they send.

I've tried the whole being polite and replying to everyone thing but just leads to questioning and abuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I find them attractive or not, and I do then it depends on the type of message they send.

I've tried the whole being polite and replying to everyone thing but just leads to questioning and abuse"
god doesnt it!!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's so hit or miss with me, it's more about timing than anything. If someone sends me a funny interesting message at just the right time I'll seize it, and message them all night. Or if a nice arse attracts my attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly it's awful.

When I was on here before I had to hide my verifications because it would lead to guys questioning "why did you meet him but you won't meet me"

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I mainly chat to messages from the occasional forumite.

I can't seem to get that excited much by my inbox. I think I need to be more pro active.

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

It would be nice to have a nice chat with a nice woman and not just about sex just a chat that's all but I can't find any ladies interested in having a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fun, flirty, playful, cheeky message that has had some time and effort put in to craft without text speak is always the way to go for me...

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey


"To a person on here?

I have tried the be nice to everyone approach, but then you end up having them calling you a time Easter.. just because you're conversing with them..so I dont bother now..lol

I honestly dont get excited by cock pics.. I want a mental connection, and lovely eyes help! But its nice to see pics of a man without a beer in

his hands, a pussy in his mouth or his cock in his hand! Lol..."

Evening sweetheart,

I try but not having much luck, it seems some if the more cocky guys have more fun! Tell me what should change xxx

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

The only times I chat with anyone is in reply to their messages to me. I know how difficult it can be for the ladies to plough through 100s of messages that by me not sending them one, I am saving them a little bit of time that they would have used to delete it unread

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

If I see someone that I'm attracted to, something on their profile that interests me and sometimes if they have said something on the forum I'll get in touch.

Doesn't always lead to a conversation and it doesn't mean we are going to meet up....it's just a chat that's all.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"It would be nice to have a nice chat with a nice woman and not just about sex just a chat that's all but I can't find any ladies interested in having a chat "

For me that's where the forum come into their own.

I can converse, laugh, get dismayed and be entertained. And learn more about it's great members.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I chat to most who message me. They usually drift away though because i’m mighty shit at keeping up a conversation. I have to be prodded. And often.

When i chat it’s about all sorts of stuff. Just this minute i’ve been conversing about favourite Chinese meals. It’s not all about sucking cock .

Never been called a time waster by men unless it’s some fella who messages looking for a “meet now” and they get a bit miffed when you say no. Generally, most men can talk for ages about all sorts of guff, if you let them

I’m also a waffler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know what it is that makes me answer some and not others. Just perfect cosmic timing I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fantastic chap in Glasgow.. He knows my moods just on a text message.. So switched on so dam caring so nice not rude not vile therefore not blocked..

I fact 500miles difference I still want to meet him just to cuddle n saving my soul one night.

Have a fab hubster too...

Great laugh and a dreamy fab normality.. He cooks I take bins out...

Lonliness on both parts..

And many others I chat too.

Not all freaks n weirdos..

Just cherry pick the good ones

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I chat to most who message me. They usually drift away though because i’m mighty shit at keeping up a conversation. I have to be prodded. And often.

When i chat it’s about all sorts of stuff. Just this minute i’ve been conversing about favourite Chinese meals. It’s not all about sucking cock .

Never been called a time waster by men unless it’s some fella who messages looking for a “meet now” and they get a bit miffed when you say no. Generally, most men can talk for ages about all sorts of guff, if you let them

I’m also a waffler "

They usually drift away though because i’m mighty shit at keeping up a conversation. I have to be prodded.

This is me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha thanks for the replies lovelies. X

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I very rarely send a message, and if I do it's mostly to do with something that I have read, rather than a picture for instance.

Be that on profile or forum.

Rather have a conversation that is interesting (or just normal everyday life) but has to be some involvement to keep it going.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't think you necessarily choose who you message more you choose each other naturally.

By that I mean, yes there may be people you may send a message to because you like their profile, like something they said in the forums etc and they may reply - that bit of course you choose to do, but when it comes to moving beyond that and getting a flow of messages that go back and forth without effort,and build a connection then that is a natural and instinctive thing that we can't individually choose to happen, it just happens naturally.

The way I look at it is no different from any encounter in normal life, some people will come and go and be fleeting friendships, some may hang around for a while and then disappear, others will make a lasting impression and become firm friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like honesty and quirky, friendly and open.

I will happily chat and love to.

I'm more inclined to chat to women than guys, but that's mostly because the women are more interesting to talk to and, in my experience, more articulate, engaging and multifaceted conversationally.

Gxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only chat with those I like the look of and think I could potentially fuck. I'm not here for friends or relationships so I've no need to chat to anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Waster not eater...damn autocorrect (not so correct)"

Funny though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible at chatting, I tend to procrastinate when it comes to replying.

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"To a person on here?

I have tried the be nice to everyone approach, but then you end up having them calling you a time Easter.. just because you're conversing with them..so I dont bother now..lol

I honestly dont get excited by cock pics.. I want a mental connection, and lovely eyes help! But its nice to see pics of a man without a beer in his hands, a pussy in his mouth or his cock in his hand! Lol..."
so let me get this straight,

You are being abused on here for being nice and chatting,,

What sort of guys are you chatting with,,

Sound like right Aholes

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Stick to what you want.

I've preferred to connect with forum people because I get more of a sense of personality and spark.

Sometimes it's about timing .. someone that grabs my attention at the right time.

No hurry, it takes time.

I open and close my single men filter and trust the right ones come in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More really what KEEPS me chatting to a person. Honesty, integrity, energy, enthusiasm, dynamism, connection, effortlessness.... Just bloody well wanting to...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick to what you want.

I've preferred to connect with forum people because I get more of a sense of personality and spark.

Sometimes it's about timing .. someone that grabs my attention at the right time.

No hurry, it takes time.

I open and close my single men filter and trust the right ones come in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To a person on here?

I have tried the be nice to everyone approach, but then you end up having them calling you a time Easter.. just because you're conversing with them..so I dont bother now..lol

I honestly dont get excited by cock pics.. I want a mental connection, and lovely eyes help! But its nice to see pics of a man without a beer in his hands, a pussy in his mouth or his cock in his hand! Lol..."

There are many mindful men on here you just need to keep 'sieving' take your time..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I chat to anyone in real life and I'm the same here but am sensitive to them getting the wrong ideas. It's good to have connections with people, not just for shags. .

I'm very slow with messages as I spend a lot more time in the forum. I do get deterred by expectations of immediate chat and meets.

I expect most of us to have to chat with way more people than we will meets??, due to limited compatibility. Just chat for no reason other than that you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont know what it is that makes me answer some and not others. Just perfect cosmic timing I guess "

Welcome back.

Cosmic timing? Really?

Isnt life what you make it, just a whole lot of random events that you try to control.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried everything with chatting being dirty an telling them what I want to do to just a casual chat an fuck all back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To a person on here?

I have tried the be nice to everyone approach, but then you end up having them calling you a time Easter.. just because you're conversing with them..so I dont bother now..lol

I honestly dont get excited by cock pics.. I want a mental connection, and lovely eyes help! But its nice to see pics of a man without a beer in his hands, a pussy in his mouth or his cock in his hand! Lol..."
I'm a great conversationalist....... just saying

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