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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We were getting a fair few messages off men.infact niks single profile she uses for cams got 170 in a day.we advertise we areookung for a single male to join us next week and its Luke our profile has gone private haha.

Are people on here just hot air or what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go to your message filter and block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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You're advertising for them and are sirprised when you get replies????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We don't want to block them.we want to find one to join us for a mmf,as soon as we advertise all messages stop.its like they know you for real and not toying around.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I don't understand "

They're all talk and no trousers!

It happens to me, lots of flirty Mayne chat until I push for a definite time and place...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've hit the nail on the head, hot air (and other things :P)

I'm off to the gym to buff myself up, I wonder if they have a rack to stretch myself out???? :-S After that I'll set off walking :P

Happy birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to read that twice to understand lol

Think it's best if u look for the people u want

Being a single woman who's mostly chatting I can't change my status without being swamped

They all after a quick fuck and when offered it they run screaming strange people

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I don't understand "

Allow me.....cough cough ..

They get TONS of message to a profile.

They decide to advertise for a single bloke and the messages dry up.

He means... No asky get loadsy BUT asky get nonsie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than using the filters the site provides you with, best way I've found is to say that I'm looking for a steady guy I can settle down with.

Guaranteed to have them running for the hills if you mention the C word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were getting a fair few messages off men.infact niks single profile she uses for cams got 170 in a day.we advertise we areookung for a single male to join us next week and its Luke our profile has gone private haha.

Are people on here just hot air or what? "

If Nik is on cam in the chatrooms they won't even have read the profile before mailing you.

The sudden realization when they read it and see there are TWO of you will have them frightened fartless.

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"Had to read that twice to understand lol

Think it's best if u look for the people u want

Being a single woman who's mostly chatting I can't change my status without being swamped

They all after a quick fuck and when offered it they run screaming strange people"

Only some men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other than using the filters the site provides you with, best way I've found is to say that I'm looking for a steady guy I can settle down with.

Guaranteed to have them running for the hills if you mention the C word. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand

Allow me.....cough cough ..

They get TONS of message to a profile.

They decide to advertise for a single bloke and the messages dry up.

He means... No asky get loadsy BUT asky get nonsie."

Thanks for clearing that up in a language I can understand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes some of us show up if asked if the op has loads of mesages why the need to advertise just mail the ones that like the sound of if thay dont get a result il eat my cock a foot at a time

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"We don't want to block them.we want to find one to join us for a mmf,as soon as we advertise all messages stop.its like they know you for real and not toying around."

never happens to us...we put up a meet request and get replies...is it possible they see u as just cammers and you are discouraging the guys who really want to meet?

You call it her cam account.

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"We don't want to block them.we want to find one to join us for a mmf,as soon as we advertise all messages stop.its like they know you for real and not toying around.

never happens to us...we put up a meet request and get replies...is it possible they see u as just cammers and you are discouraging the guys who really want to meet?

You call it her cam account."

Or maybe a lot of men dont think they meet your rather demanding standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do u chat to the guys when they message first time round? or at least the ones u might be interested in? if u dont then they might just think that they are not in with a chance when they see the meet req up and not bother.

if uve developed a bit of a rapport with some of the guys the likelyhood is they'll be the first to message u when the meet req goes up. thats our experience anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not sure i underdstand the question, i was with it upto they're looking for a single guy next week but totally lost it after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand

Allow me.....cough cough ..

They get TONS of message to a profile.

They decide to advertise for a single bloke and the messages dry up.

He means... No asky get loadsy BUT asky get nonsie."

ahh now i understand and i totally agree with the op

i get hundreds of mail on a weekly basis asking to meet, i put up a post on the meets forum 3 days ago asking if anyone wanted to meet next week as i was working away and staying in a hotel for 3 nights and i havnt had one single reply, not even asking for any money towards the rooms as works paying and still got no interest at all

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"do u chat to the guys when they message first time round? or at least the ones u might be interested in? if u dont then they might just think that they are not in with a chance when they see the meet req up and not bother.

if uve developed a bit of a rapport with some of the guys the likelyhood is they'll be the first to message u when the meet req goes up. thats our experience anyway. "

very true...we tend to chat with guys who randomly message us that we like the look of when we dont want a meet, then just put it as our status when we are looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please stop tarring us all with the same brush.

Besides, if you are getting 170 messages a day why do you need to advertise for a meet? Or have you been ignoring them?? Task Tsk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought typing 'NO TIMEWASTERS' at the top of your profile put most men off ?

No ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don't want to block them.we want to find one to join us for a mmf,as soon as we advertise all messages stop.its like they know you for real and not toying around.

never happens to us...we put up a meet request and get replies...is it possible they see u as just cammers and you are discouraging the guys who really want to meet?

You call it her cam account."

it also advertised on this account,and we have a few meets.it comes down to people liking to know if they are fancied.when it comes down to it they talk out of their arses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please stop tarring us all with the same brush.

Besides, if you are getting 170 messages a day why do you need to advertise for a meet? Or have you been ignoring them?? Task Tsk

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hold your horses.most of the messages she had on that profile were from idiots saying alsorts of crap.she soon got bored of offers of money etc and deleted alot of them.

we advertised for a male and nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don't want to block them.we want to find one to join us for a mmf,as soon as we advertise all messages stop.its like they know you for real and not toying around.

never happens to us...we put up a meet request and get replies...is it possible they see u as just cammers and you are discouraging the guys who really want to meet?

You call it her cam account.

Or maybe a lot of men dont think they meet your rather demanding standards "

why is that demanding?

she is not going to just fuck anyone

its well within our rights to ask for what we like

we dont go to a restuaraunt and order food we dont like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please stop tarring us all with the same brush.

Besides, if you are getting 170 messages a day why do you need to advertise for a meet? Or have you been ignoring them?? Task Tsk

hold your horses.most of the messages she had on that profile were from idiots saying alsorts of crap.she soon got bored of offers of money etc and deleted alot of them.

we advertised for a male and nothing.

"

It's ok, I totally understand. My tongue is shoved firmly in to my cheek at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

haha. my tongue will firmly be in niks cheeks later

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