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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are some of the women on this app catfish who are just trying to take the piss or what!?

Earlier I messaged a local woman who wrote in her profile that she doesn't like cock pics. She replied to me and said there is no initial attraction, so didn't want to continue chatting. Fair enough.

But her veris were all from men with only cock pics.

I can't work it out.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you will never understand what drives people..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of. "

But she fancied the initial attraction of cock pics, with she said she didn't like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lord above. She didn't fancy you. She did fancy the guys with dick pics. Not rocket science!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They sent a face picture when messaging her and not a cock pic?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of.

But she fancied the initial attraction of cock pics, with she said she didn't like lol

"

Exactly. She did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lord above. She didn't fancy you. She did fancy the guys with dick pics. Not rocket science!!"

I stand by my toddler comment with every post I read...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes you will never understand what drives people.. "

No I don't think I ever will. I always try to dig deep to understand things.. I can't help it, it's in my nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They sent a face picture when messaging her and not a cock pic?"

This ^^^ plus she obviously fancied the guys that verified her!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Sometimes you will never understand what drives people..

No I don't think I ever will. I always try to dig deep to understand things.. I can't help it, it's in my nature.

"

This tickled me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to fancy them

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"Are some of the women on this app catfish who are just trying to take the piss or what!?

Earlier I messaged a local woman who wrote in her profile that she doesn't like cock pics. She replied to me and said there is no initial attraction, so didn't want to continue chatting. Fair enough.

But her veris were all from men with only cock pics.

I can't work it out. "

How is that catfishing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes you will never understand what drives people..

No I don't think I ever will. I always try to dig deep to understand things.. I can't help it, it's in my nature.

"

Maybe overthinking will be your demise on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are some of the women on this app catfish who are just trying to take the piss or what!?

Earlier I messaged a local woman who wrote in her profile that she doesn't like cock pics. She replied to me and said there is no initial attraction, so didn't want to continue chatting. Fair enough.

But her veris were all from men with only cock pics.

I can't work it out.

How is that catfishing? "

I don't know however you define it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least she had the decency to send you a reply.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Most people keep fave pics hidden and send them in messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes you will never understand what drives people..

No I don't think I ever will. I always try to dig deep to understand things.. I can't help it, it's in my nature.

Maybe overthinking will be your demise on here"

Maybe. I'm leaving here soon anyway. I'm going to stick with bars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put on a cock avatar innit.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At least she had the decency to send you a reply. "

Fucking right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Earlier I messaged a local woman who wrote in her profile that she doesn't like cock pics. She replied to me and said there is no initial attraction, so didn't want to continue chatting. Fair enough.

But her veris were all from men with only cock pics. I can't work it out. "

1. Man sees profile of sexy woman who doesn't like cock pics

2. Man takes down his cock pics and messages woman

3. Man and woman meet and fuck like wild animals

4. Man gets nice veri from woman, and leaves nice veri for her

5. Man puts his cock pics back up

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

You've clearly no idea what catfishing is all about!

What a guy has on his profile and what he sends privately are two totally different things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are some of the women on this app catfish who are just trying to take the piss or what!?

Earlier I messaged a local woman who wrote in her profile that she doesn't like cock pics. She replied to me and said there is no initial attraction, so didn't want to continue chatting. Fair enough.

But her veris were all from men with only cock pics.

I can't work it out. "

Lol. I had a lady I was chatting to who wanted to see my manhood pics.

But her profile says no dick pics. When I confronted her, the answer was she didn't want to see dick pics first. She wanted to see face pics prior to seeing dick pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of.

But she fancied the initial attraction of cock pics, with she said she didn't like lol

"

How do you know?

They may not have had a cock pic as their profile pic when they met and veried each other.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Earlier I messaged a local woman who wrote in her profile that she doesn't like cock pics. She replied to me and said there is no initial attraction, so didn't want to continue chatting. Fair enough.

But her veris were all from men with only cock pics. I can't work it out.

1. Man sees profile of sexy woman who doesn't like cock pics

2. Man takes down his cock pics and messages woman

3. Man and woman meet and fuck like wild animals

4. Man gets nice veri from woman, and leaves nice veri for her

5. Man puts his cock pics back up"

You put it in a way far easier to understand than I did

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Earlier I messaged a local woman who wrote in her profile that she doesn't like cock pics. She replied to me and said there is no initial attraction, so didn't want to continue chatting. Fair enough.

But her veris were all from men with only cock pics. I can't work it out.

1. Man sees profile of sexy woman who doesn't like cock pics

2. Man takes down his cock pics and messages woman

3. Man and woman meet and fuck like wild animals

4. Man gets nice veri from woman, and leaves nice veri for her

5. Man puts his cock pics back up"

Do ppl so that extreme for a fuck

I must admit, that is commitment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Earlier I messaged a local woman who wrote in her profile that she doesn't like cock pics. She replied to me and said there is no initial attraction, so didn't want to continue chatting. Fair enough.

But her veris were all from men with only cock pics. I can't work it out.

1. Man sees profile of sexy woman who doesn't like cock pics

2. Man takes down his cock pics and messages woman

3. Man and woman meet and fuck like wild animals

4. Man gets nice veri from woman, and leaves nice veri for her

5. Man puts his cock pics back up

Do ppl so that extreme for a fuck

I must admit, that is commitment. "

Go*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of.

But she fancied the initial attraction of cock pics, with she said she didn't like lol

How do you know?

They may not have had a cock pic as their profile pic when they met and veried each other.

P"

She said initial attraction. She basically said that she chooses who she chats with and meets by the book on the cover.

She also said she hated cock pics, but was veried by men with only cock pics on their profile.

I think women say this when they just don't want to meet anyone. I'd rather they be truthful in the first place an tell me ugly or whatever.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of.

But she fancied the initial attraction of cock pics, with she said she didn't like lol

How do you know?

They may not have had a cock pic as their profile pic when they met and veried each other.

P

She said initial attraction. She basically said that she chooses who she chats with and meets by the book on the cover.

She also said she hated cock pics, but was veried by men with only cock pics on their profile.

I think women say this when they just don't want to meet anyone. I'd rather they be truthful in the first place an tell me ugly or whatever.

"

Would you really be happier if someone said you're ugly?

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

Also, clearly she does want to meet people- as per her cock profiled veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of.

But she fancied the initial attraction of cock pics, with she said she didn't like lol

How do you know?

They may not have had a cock pic as their profile pic when they met and veried each other.

P

She said initial attraction. She basically said that she chooses who she chats with and meets by the book on the cover.

She also said she hated cock pics, but was veried by men with only cock pics on their profile.

I think women say this when they just don't want to meet anyone. I'd rather they be truthful in the first place an tell me ugly or whatever.

"

Jesus.

The people who verified her (the ones she met) could have initially (at the time they began messaging and even up until waaaaay after they met) had beautiful body or face pics up. She could have been initially attracted to them.

Fast forward.

They changed their profile pic to one of a penis. She has no control over that, and can't go back in time to before they started talking and decide that later on they may have a cock pic as a profile pic that may confuse a blue balled man so it won't be worth it.

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of.

But she fancied the initial attraction of cock pics, with she said she didn't like lol

How do you know?

They may not have had a cock pic as their profile pic when they met and veried each other.

P

She said initial attraction. She basically said that she chooses who she chats with and meets by the book on the cover.

She also said she hated cock pics, but was veried by men with only cock pics on their profile.

I think women say this when they just don't want to meet anyone. I'd rather they be truthful in the first place an tell me ugly or whatever.

Would you really be happier if someone said you're ugly? "

I don't know I'm tipsy tonight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fab

Get real

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of.

But she fancied the initial attraction of cock pics, with she said she didn't like lol

How do you know?

They may not have had a cock pic as their profile pic when they met and veried each other.

P

She said initial attraction. She basically said that she chooses who she chats with and meets by the book on the cover.

She also said she hated cock pics, but was veried by men with only cock pics on their profile.

I think women say this when they just don't want to meet anyone. I'd rather they be truthful in the first place an tell me ugly or whatever.

Jesus.

The people who verified her (the ones she met) could have initially (at the time they began messaging and even up until waaaaay after they met) had beautiful body or face pics up. She could have been initially attracted to them.

Fast forward.

They changed their profile pic to one of a penis. She has no control over that, and can't go back in time to before they started talking and decide that later on they may have a cock pic as a profile pic that may confuse a blue balled man so it won't be worth it.

P"

Maybe they all changed their profile pics to pricks. I don't know.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Sometimes you will never understand what drives people..

No I don't think I ever will. I always try to dig deep to understand things.. I can't help it, it's in my nature.

"

Sometimes it just is what it is..no understanding required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of.

But she fancied the initial attraction of cock pics, with she said she didn't like lol

How do you know?

They may not have had a cock pic as their profile pic when they met and veried each other.

P

She said initial attraction. She basically said that she chooses who she chats with and meets by the book on the cover.

She also said she hated cock pics, but was veried by men with only cock pics on their profile.

I think women say this when they just don't want to meet anyone. I'd rather they be truthful in the first place an tell me ugly or whatever.

Jesus.

The people who verified her (the ones she met) could have initially (at the time they began messaging and even up until waaaaay after they met) had beautiful body or face pics up. She could have been initially attracted to them.

Fast forward.

They changed their profile pic to one of a penis. She has no control over that, and can't go back in time to before they started talking and decide that later on they may have a cock pic as a profile pic that may confuse a blue balled man so it won't be worth it.

P

Maybe they all changed their profile pics to pricks. I don't know. "

That's what we've been saying

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of.

But she fancied the initial attraction of cock pics, with she said she didn't like lol

How do you know?

They may not have had a cock pic as their profile pic when they met and veried each other.

P

She said initial attraction. She basically said that she chooses who she chats with and meets by the book on the cover.

She also said she hated cock pics, but was veried by men with only cock pics on their profile.

I think women say this when they just don't want to meet anyone. I'd rather they be truthful in the first place an tell me ugly or whatever.

Jesus.

The people who verified her (the ones she met) could have initially (at the time they began messaging and even up until waaaaay after they met) had beautiful body or face pics up. She could have been initially attracted to them.

Fast forward.

They changed their profile pic to one of a penis. She has no control over that, and can't go back in time to before they started talking and decide that later on they may have a cock pic as a profile pic that may confuse a blue balled man so it won't be worth it.

P

Maybe they all changed their profile pics to pricks. I don't know.

That's what we've been saying

P"

Heck of a coincidence though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she wrote that in her profile to put off hundreds of men messaging her pictures? She might enjoy a cock picture, just not hundreds of them all sent in a first message. It might put some men off knowing she doesn't like them.

I'm saying all of this but it doesn't really matter anyway does it? If there's nothing between you both, forget about her and the people she has met and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of.

But she fancied the initial attraction of cock pics, with she said she didn't like lol

How do you know?

They may not have had a cock pic as their profile pic when they met and veried each other.

P

She said initial attraction. She basically said that she chooses who she chats with and meets by the book on the cover.

She also said she hated cock pics, but was veried by men with only cock pics on their profile.

I think women say this when they just don't want to meet anyone. I'd rather they be truthful in the first place an tell me ugly or whatever.

"

She was truthful. She said she had no attraction to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is like an ocean. If you dont get one with a hook, get the net out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of.

But she fancied the initial attraction of cock pics, with she said she didn't like lol

How do you know?

They may not have had a cock pic as their profile pic when they met and veried each other.

P

She said initial attraction. She basically said that she chooses who she chats with and meets by the book on the cover.

She also said she hated cock pics, but was veried by men with only cock pics on their profile.

I think women say this when they just don't want to meet anyone. I'd rather they be truthful in the first place an tell me ugly or whatever.

Jesus.

The people who verified her (the ones she met) could have initially (at the time they began messaging and even up until waaaaay after they met) had beautiful body or face pics up. She could have been initially attracted to them.

Fast forward.

They changed their profile pic to one of a penis. She has no control over that, and can't go back in time to before they started talking and decide that later on they may have a cock pic as a profile pic that may confuse a blue balled man so it won't be worth it.

P

Maybe they all changed their profile pics to pricks. I don't know.

That's what we've been saying

P

Heck of a coincidence though "

Not really, you have seen how many cock pics are floating about surely?

I generally don't meet those with cock pics, however when I've looked at profiles I've met they have a penis at a later date.

Again, as a rule I don't like cock pics, however, if I had been initially attracted to someones forum posts and mind then I may make exception.

Or Lib... that's one example of penisy goodness I'll not tire of looking at, he doesn't have his wang on show at the mo but sometimes he does. I know there's more to him than his winkle..... more winkle.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of.

But she fancied the initial attraction of cock pics, with she said she didn't like lol

How do you know?

They may not have had a cock pic as their profile pic when they met and veried each other.

P

She said initial attraction. She basically said that she chooses who she chats with and meets by the book on the cover.

She also said she hated cock pics, but was veried by men with only cock pics on their profile.

I think women say this when they just don't want to meet anyone. I'd rather they be truthful in the first place an tell me ugly or whatever.

Jesus.

The people who verified her (the ones she met) could have initially (at the time they began messaging and even up until waaaaay after they met) had beautiful body or face pics up. She could have been initially attracted to them.

Fast forward.

They changed their profile pic to one of a penis. She has no control over that, and can't go back in time to before they started talking and decide that later on they may have a cock pic as a profile pic that may confuse a blue balled man so it won't be worth it.

P

Maybe they all changed their profile pics to pricks. I don't know.

That's what we've been saying

P

Heck of a coincidence though

Not really, you have seen how many cock pics are floating about surely?

I generally don't meet those with cock pics, however when I've looked at profiles I've met they have a penis at a later date.

Again, as a rule I don't like cock pics, however, if I had been initially attracted to someones forum posts and mind then I may make exception.

Or Lib... that's one example of penisy goodness I'll not tire of looking at, he doesn't have his wang on show at the mo but sometimes he does. I know there's more to him than his winkle..... more winkle.

P

"

Nah, that's all I've got.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She didn’t fancy you, dude. End of.

But she fancied the initial attraction of cock pics, with she said she didn't like lol

How do you know?

They may not have had a cock pic as their profile pic when they met and veried each other.

P

She said initial attraction. She basically said that she chooses who she chats with and meets by the book on the cover.

She also said she hated cock pics, but was veried by men with only cock pics on their profile.

I think women say this when they just don't want to meet anyone. I'd rather they be truthful in the first place an tell me ugly or whatever.

Jesus.

The people who verified her (the ones she met) could have initially (at the time they began messaging and even up until waaaaay after they met) had beautiful body or face pics up. She could have been initially attracted to them.

Fast forward.

They changed their profile pic to one of a penis. She has no control over that, and can't go back in time to before they started talking and decide that later on they may have a cock pic as a profile pic that may confuse a blue balled man so it won't be worth it.

P

Maybe they all changed their profile pics to pricks. I don't know.

That's what we've been saying

P

Heck of a coincidence though

Not really, you have seen how many cock pics are floating about surely?

I generally don't meet those with cock pics, however when I've looked at profiles I've met they have a penis at a later date.

Again, as a rule I don't like cock pics, however, if I had been initially attracted to someones forum posts and mind then I may make exception.

Or Lib... that's one example of penisy goodness I'll not tire of looking at, he doesn't have his wang on show at the mo but sometimes he does. I know there's more to him than his winkle..... more winkle.

P

Nah, that's all I've got."

Even more more winkle? That bugger must be never ending winkleness

P

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Once again with the worrying about how other people choose to use the site and making comparisons?

The sooner you realise OP that how others choose to interact is entirely their business, and you focus on your own way of using the site, the less frustrating you'll find it.

There could be a million and one reasons behind what happened, some very good ones have already been pointed out here - no point sweating them. What do you think will happen? The lady in question will see this thread and go "you know what? You're right, how bad of me, let's meet?"

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Sometimes you will never understand what drives people..

No I don't think I ever will. I always try to dig deep to understand things.. I can't help it, it's in my nature.

Maybe overthinking will be your demise on here

Maybe. I'm leaving here soon anyway. I'm going to stick with bars. "

Don’t show ladies cock pics in the bars, you’ll definitely get thrown out

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