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"Hey you lovely sexy lot. I'm just wondering if many people out there have body image issues? Everyone seems so confident in their skin. I'm a mum with a mum tum (which I'm very proud of) but sometimes crave that fit little figure I used to have.." Nowt wrong with a mum tum! I kinda like them! I have body image issues. Always have. In my teens and early 20’s I was “too thin”. Now at 36 it’s all caught up with me and I’ve got an extra dad body. A bit too large with small moobs... | |||
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"I love having my mum tum. Before this I was just tubby " | |||
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"Hey you lovely sexy lot. I'm just wondering if many people out there have body image issues? Everyone seems so confident in their skin. I'm a mum with a mum tum (which I'm very proud of) but sometimes crave that fit little figure I used to have.." Oh god yes I see these curvy women with flat tummies and I am envious 2 c sections and my tum is like an apron just gotta keep going the gym eventually this body will be the way I want it lol | |||
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"Almost every single one of us. We're all putting on a front in some ways. " | |||
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"Almost every single one of us. We're all putting on a front in some ways. " Tis true | |||
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"Thank you so much for your replies. At the ripe old age of 41 I still can't believe I have moments of panic about my body. I guess some of us are never truly happy with what we've got. Ps, I've had a sneaky peak at your profiles and you all look fabulous.. xx" You have an amazing figure, time to start believing it! x | |||
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"Good god....just looked at your pics, lady your are gorgeous! .....lovely pics, don't forget what you see others don't.... " What she said | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 01/12/19 00:01:01]" I don’t remember removing this.. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 01/12/19 00:01:01] I don’t remember removing this.." I've done that before. Lol | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 01/12/19 00:01:01] I don’t remember drinking that whole bottle of gin .." Shit happens innit... | |||
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"I've lost 7 stone so now my stomach looks like a hot mess. I try and keep it covered up with basques or corsets. I'm really self concious of it" And I bet nobody has ever seen it and rejected you because of it. We are so much more harsh on ourselves than others are. | |||
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"Mines more face image, kinda same thing I guess...I'm fine with my body, but absolutely despise my face." And I'm the opposite. I would kill for your waistline! | |||
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"I've lost 7 stone so now my stomach looks like a hot mess. I try and keep it covered up with basques or corsets. I'm really self concious of it And I bet nobody has ever seen it and rejected you because of it. We are so much more harsh on ourselves than others are." ^exactly this.. I have a 'mummy tummy', a bit of loose skin from making babies.. im learning to like it. but I'm also so much more than my tummy. The right ones will see you for who you are. And if you feel more comfy in sexy undies. That's sexy too. | |||
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"I was the same as you but getting older you learn to accept yourself more and the confidence grows, still always have the off day but hey we are all beautiful in our own way " He'll yeah. Even me. If you take your glasses off and squint why the lights turned down. Lol | |||
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"Hey you lovely sexy lot. I'm just wondering if many people out there have body image issues? Everyone seems so confident in their skin. I'm a mum with a mum tum (which I'm very proud of) but sometimes crave that fit little figure I used to have.." hey i myself prefer a lived in body, you can only work with what youve got, you look lovely what i can see | |||
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"Hey you lovely sexy lot. I'm just wondering if many people out there have body image issues? Everyone seems so confident in their skin. I'm a mum with a mum tum (which I'm very proud of) but sometimes crave that fit little figure I used to have.." You’d be hard pushed to find someone who says no. Welcome to the consumerism led society and evil, evil marketers. | |||
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"Aw you guys.... thank you so much for replying with such lovely positive comments.. Today is a new day. I'm going to wear my scars and wobbly bits with pride... Happy Sunday you wonderful lot xx " Yay I say let the wobbly bits wobble | |||
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"Hey you lovely sexy lot. I'm just wondering if many people out there have body image issues? Everyone seems so confident in their skin. I'm a mum with a mum tum (which I'm very proud of) but sometimes crave that fit little figure I used to have.." I’ve just booked surgery in the summer to lessen my hatred of my body as it is. | |||
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"I met a lady who had a real complex about her tummy. By the next day she was letting me kiss it. Anyone worth their salt will love your tummy because it's part of you. Xx" Aw lovely story and gorgeous gesture.. I want my tummy kissed! | |||
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"I met a lady who had a real complex about her tummy. By the next day she was letting me kiss it. Anyone worth their salt will love your tummy because it's part of you. Xx Aw lovely story and gorgeous gesture.. I want my tummy kissed! " I will happily kiss your tummy, if you will return the favour!! Xxx | |||
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"I'm most definitely am not, suffer from bad body dysmorphia following having eating disorders. But think as I'm growing older I have better body acceptance. And though my opinion may not matter think you look amazing op" Totally get this....I've had both an eating disorder and body dysphoria too. Ive had a whole lot of counselling which has helped and I'm not checking anywhere near as much as I used to. Saying that, I do have to work incredibly hard not to. Getting rid of my very controlling ex husband and finding an amazing wonderful man who has loved me, for me, has definitely helped too. Ps.... I've looked and I think you look bloody fabulous...even though I know you wont believe me!! Xxx | |||
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"I met a lady who had a real complex about her tummy. By the next day she was letting me kiss it. Anyone worth their salt will love your tummy because it's part of you. Xx Aw lovely story and gorgeous gesture.. I want my tummy kissed! " You know I'd be there at the drop of a hat. | |||
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"Hey you lovely sexy lot. I'm just wondering if many people out there have body image issues? Everyone seems so confident in their skin. I'm a mum with a mum tum (which I'm very proud of) but sometimes crave that fit little figure I used to have.." nothing wrong with craving how you used to look better than pickled gherkins I guess some women are able to get back to their original size straight away. People in life should like you for who you are not for what you became Media and mags hardly ever show bbw women and so the market is for slim models, once got asked to be a model, was too skinny! | |||
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"I'm most definitely am not, suffer from bad body dysmorphia following having eating disorders. But think as I'm growing older I have better body acceptance. And though my opinion may not matter think you look amazing op Totally get this....I've had both an eating disorder and body dysphoria too. Ive had a whole lot of counselling which has helped and I'm not checking anywhere near as much as I used to. Saying that, I do have to work incredibly hard not to. Getting rid of my very controlling ex husband and finding an amazing wonderful man who has loved me, for me, has definitely helped too. Ps.... I've looked and I think you look bloody fabulous...even though I know you wont believe me!! Xxx " Yeah I find it's too easy to slip into my old ways. Had the same with an ex who made out I should be ashamed of my body and that it should be covered up. And yes finding an amazing man who loves the bones off you helps loads. | |||
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"Having completely the wrong body all your life isn’t a whole lotta fun. Wanting to try to correct some of nature’s mistakes with a Stanley knife scared the crap out of me. I’m glad I didn’t. I try not to regret waiting this long. " You are beautiful Xx | |||
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"I I have a love hate relationship with my body. I have issues caused by meds that make me very self conscious. No longer do I have the muscles or size 32 waist I had three years ago. At the same time I love sex and I'm in no way exaggerating or trying to show off when I say I have considerably more of it than most people on here. So.. Self conscious and overweight with my own hangups, I still seem to be able to indulge my considerable appetites h and reciprocate so much intense pleasure. I think most of us judge ourselves far more unkindly than ever we would anyone else For what it's worth to you, I've just looked at your photos and I think they're great. You've a wonderful body, sparkling eager eyes and the pair of you ooze tactile sexuality Go Gettem, tiger Gxx" | |||
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"Hey you lovely sexy lot. I'm just wondering if many people out there have body image issues? Everyone seems so confident in their skin. I'm a mum with a mum tum (which I'm very proud of) but sometimes crave that fit little figure I used to have.." A lot of men love that mum tum look though! Embrace it, love it, you went through hell and produced something amazing for that look! I too have a mum tum, but have learnt to know it’s just as sexy as a flat stomach or ripped abs | |||
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"Hey you lovely sexy lot. I'm just wondering if many people out there have body image issues? Everyone seems so confident in their skin. I'm a mum with a mum tum (which I'm very proud of) but sometimes crave that fit little figure I used to have.." 4 little humans and a mum tum (topped up with junk food) I have so many insecurities but slowly those have been leaving with the lovely positive comments I get on my pics. Been feeling the most confident ever with my body recently even if it’s not how I like it there plenty who do | |||
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"Hey you lovely sexy lot. I'm just wondering if many people out there have body image issues? Everyone seems so confident in their skin. I'm a mum with a mum tum (which I'm very proud of) but sometimes crave that fit little figure I used to have.. 4 little humans and a mum tum (topped up with junk food) I have so many insecurities but slowly those have been leaving with the lovely positive comments I get on my pics. Been feeling the most confident ever with my body recently even if it’s not how I like it there plenty who do" | |||
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