FabSwingers.com forum: Hygiene

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Masterbate

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'd just really apologetically tell them.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

I'd be honest in a non judgemental way

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Can you smell chicken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hard on would become a lob on and my lob on would become flaccid. Then I just pretend to faint while she would call an ambulance I would leave by the window without saying good bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?"
just tell them, but don't be mean, you can't turn around and say you stink, but just let them know and let them know hygiene is a big thing for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?"

How did they tell you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Masterbate "

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Masterbate "

This but running at the same time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?"

I'd say am not on a sea-food diet

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I would have to say something, hopefully I would be able to do so without being insensitive.

Women can have BV and not even be aware of it and the smell.

I would really be uncomfortable having to say but I'd have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have to say something, hopefully I would be able to do so without being insensitive.

Women can have BV and not even be aware of it and the smell.

I would really be uncomfortable having to say but I'd have to."

Febreze innit....

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I would have to say something, hopefully I would be able to do so without being insensitive.

Women can have BV and not even be aware of it and the smell.

I would really be uncomfortable having to say but I'd have to.

Febreze innit...."

funny

This could be the new marketing strategy for fabreze

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?

I'd say am not on a sea-food diet"

The more you sea the more you eat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?

I'd say am not on a sea-food diet

The more you sea the more you eat

lol...or i could say, can i pour sweet chilli sauce on ur vaginal tract babe...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would have to say something, hopefully I would be able to do so without being insensitive.

Women can have BV and not even be aware of it and the smell.

I would really be uncomfortable having to say but I'd have to.

Febreze innit...."

Nooooo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would have to say something, hopefully I would be able to do so without being insensitive.

Women can have BV and not even be aware of it and the smell.

I would really be uncomfortable having to say but I'd have to."

I'd be the same but how would you say it ?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Jeeeeez....we hope we never end up in this situation.

Just how would you say it?

We wouldn't want to upset them but then how would you carry on playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeeeeez....we hope we never end up in this situation.

Just how would you say it?

We wouldn't want to upset them but then how would you carry on playing."

nosepegs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jeeeeez....we hope we never end up in this situation.

Just how would you say it?

We wouldn't want to upset them but then how would you carry on playing."

Would be a hard one

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Jeeeeez....we hope we never end up in this situation.

Just how would you say it?

We wouldn't want to upset them but then how would you carry on playing.

Would be a hard one "

Or maybe it wouldn't be

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I would have to say something, hopefully I would be able to do so without being insensitive.

Women can have BV and not even be aware of it and the smell.

I would really be uncomfortable having to say but I'd have to.

I'd be the same but how would you say it ?"

Take a deep breath and just say it as it is.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Jeeeeez....we hope we never end up in this situation.

Just how would you say it?

We wouldn't want to upset them but then how would you carry on playing.

nosepegs"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jeeeeez....we hope we never end up in this situation.

Just how would you say it?

We wouldn't want to upset them but then how would you carry on playing.

Would be a hard one

Or maybe it wouldn't be

I see what you did there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd just really apologetically tell them. "

How would you even start that conversation

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By *unguy70Man
over a year ago

cannock /staffs

Tell them and leave nothing worse than bad hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horrible if someone hasn’t looked after them self, shouldn’t be try to please someone else if they can’t please their hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had this problem....

Does this mean I have really low standards?

Or wait... does this mean I stink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew someone like this once. I didn't tell her, but I tried to bath her.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Quote Anchorman and go "Fuuuuuuucking hell, it smells like bigfoots dick!!!"

I actually wouldn't do that, but it would probably cross my mind before I made my excuses and left her to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I knew someone like this once. I didn't tell her, but I tried to bath her. "

How did that go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeeeeez....we hope we never end up in this situation.

Just how would you say it?

We wouldn't want to upset them but then how would you carry on playing.

nosepegs"

What if it's not just a smell... Cheesy nob comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy for the first time from Fab.

We started getting down to it when I noticed a very peculiar smell coming from his privates. It wasn't horrific but it certainly wasn't pleasant. I was wondering what to do when he suddenly got cold feet and scarpered. I was most relieved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy for the first time from Fab.

Haha lucky escape! Hygiene is a must!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It would depend who it was -new meet or regular. If there's time, use of the shower could be directed at the only way to proceed. If things were too bad, no redemption could mean that I'd state that it wasn't working and potentially that their cleanliness was a disappointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I knew someone like this once. I didn't tell her, but I tried to bath her.

How did that go?

It didn't go well. She was hot too, but dirty in the wrong way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ad say jen on your survey put use fen fresh fishy knickers

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

My dick would do the talking for me and just go soft.

Nothing as off putting for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come a few females in the past with bad hygiene, One I had to tell her shes got bad hygiene and dont want see her she got upset and started crying.I doont get much luck anyway but bit scared if I come across another female with bad hygiene again as it's happened on more the one occasion,Some of the close up pictures people post on fab are very off putting and look very unhygienic make you feel sick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jeeeeez....we hope we never end up in this situation.

Just how would you say it?

We wouldn't want to upset them but then how would you carry on playing.

nosepegs

What if it's not just a smell... Cheesy nob comes to mind

I'd vomit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?"

Have we ever taken a shower together? I'd like that.

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?"
boo Fffk that

You have to say something otherwise your playing with Cheese,

No no no, fffking nooooooo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?

Have we ever taken a shower together? I'd like that.

That's a nice way to put it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?"

Tough one, if you really like the person and you still want to jump his or her bones, suggest a sexy shower as part of your foreplay

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?

Tough one, if you really like the person and you still want to jump his or her bones, suggest a sexy shower as part of your foreplay

What if they say no thanks I've already showered?

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

Introduce the shower and have a shower together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?

Tough one, if you really like the person and you still want to jump his or her bones, suggest a sexy shower as part of your foreplay

What if they say no thanks I've already showered?"

Sniff sniff... are you sure?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?

Tough one, if you really like the person and you still want to jump his or her bones, suggest a sexy shower as part of your foreplay

What if they say no thanks I've already showered?

Sniff sniff... are you sure?"

Oh I'd not be able

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?

Tough one, if you really like the person and you still want to jump his or her bones, suggest a sexy shower as part of your foreplay

What if they say no thanks I've already showered?

Sniff sniff... are you sure?

Oh I'd not be able

Get the jet wash out or your trainers on an run

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?

Tough one, if you really like the person and you still want to jump his or her bones, suggest a sexy shower as part of your foreplay

What if they say no thanks I've already showered?

Sniff sniff... are you sure?

Oh I'd not be able

Get the jet wash out or your trainers on an run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if it’s a guy surely there’s lots of dick pics you should be able to see if there’s any cheese or scabs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well if it’s a guy surely there’s lots of dick pics you should be able to see if there’s any cheese or scabs "

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

For the guy

What’s these mushrooms growing on your bell end. Are they edible cuz they sure don’t smell like it. Ya durty bastard

For the lady

Would you like me to clean That for you

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?

Tough one, if you really like the person and you still want to jump his or her bones, suggest a sexy shower as part of your foreplay

What if they say no thanks I've already showered?"
say waaaa is your cheese waterproof, and if so get the fk out of there because they don't know what a bar of soap is,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For the guy

What’s these mushrooms growing on your bell end. Are they edible cuz they sure don’t smell like it. Ya durty bastard

For the lady

Would you like me to clean That for you

Mushrooms

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'd probably tell them afterwards or not at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd probably tell them afterwards or not at all."

Would you play again in the future?

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

If they were male I would literally get the baby wipes out. I always have some to hand for play.

If it was a female I would tactfully ask whether she had been feeling under the weather lately as most common cause is bv.

Fortunately most people are clean and those who aren’t are usually noticeable before clothing is ever removed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If they were male I would literally get the baby wipes out. I always have some to hand for play.

If it was a female I would tactfully ask whether she had been feeling under the weather lately as most common cause is bv.

Fortunately most people are clean and those who aren’t are usually noticeable before clothing is ever removed."

Not always noticable though.

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By *eniorsxMan
over a year ago

Coggeshall

Give her half a quid and tell her to get quick smart to lidl, as it isn't polite to polute personal space with something that smells like a bag of value cheese and onion crisps

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I’d definitely have to tell them although I’m sure the look on my face would say it all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Give her half a quid and tell her to get quick smart to lidl, as it isn't polite to polute personal space with something that smells like a bag of value cheese and onion crisps "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have to say something, hopefully I would be able to do so without being insensitive.

Women can have BV and not even be aware of it and the smell.

I would really be uncomfortable having to say but I'd have to."

I'm always so concious of this - the bv thing, only happened occasionally but I've always been the first to mention it if I have.

Also I find just before and just after my period is always a little funny, so again I pre-warn

Feel bright red faced for even discussing this

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

I once met this really hot woman and we were really getting into a steamy session frantically getting each others' clothes off. I couldn't wait to explore every nook and cranny of her body.

When she spread her legs and pulled her gusset aside a huge waft hit me in the face like an iron letting off steam!

It was the fishiest thing I had smelt since Billingsgate fish market.

But, like the trooper I am, I carried on and dived my face right in. Never let a woman go unsatisfied. Lol

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Myself I always try to have a shower just before any fun starts. Nothing beats fresh out the shower sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would have to say something, hopefully I would be able to do so without being insensitive.

Women can have BV and not even be aware of it and the smell.

I would really be uncomfortable having to say but I'd have to.

I'm always so concious of this - the bv thing, only happened occasionally but I've always been the first to mention it if I have.

Also I find just before and just after my period is always a little funny, so again I pre-warn

Feel bright red faced for even discussing this

At least you can be honest about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Myself I always try to have a shower just before any fun starts. Nothing beats fresh out the shower sex

Same here if its possible.

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Myself I always try to have a shower just before any fun starts. Nothing beats fresh out the shower sex

Same here if its possible."
is the new shower big enough for 2 ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Myself I always try to have a shower just before any fun starts. Nothing beats fresh out the shower sex

Same here if its possible.is the new shower big enough for 2 ??? "

I'll squeeze you in. Don't worry.

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Myself I always try to have a shower just before any fun starts. Nothing beats fresh out the shower sex

Same here if its possible.is the new shower big enough for 2 ???

I'll squeeze you in. Don't worry."
ahh I love a good Squeeze,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Myself I always try to have a shower just before any fun starts. Nothing beats fresh out the shower sex

Same here if its possible.is the new shower big enough for 2 ???

I'll squeeze you in. Don't worry. ahh I love a good Squeeze,,

Me too

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Might squeeze in a squeeze in your corner window, mmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it when they steal the lions gazelle then laugh at them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Might squeeze in a squeeze in your corner window, mmmmmmm"

No squeezing needed

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Might squeeze in a squeeze in your corner window, mmmmmmm

No squeezing needed

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think about that for a sec,,,

Squeeeezzzeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you tell someone there hygiene down below isn't up to standards or would you just say nothing ?"

Lol. Does this really happen? If it does, hope it is because of the diet than personal hygiene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have to say something, hopefully I would be able to do so without being insensitive.

Women can have BV and not even be aware of it and the smell.

I would really be uncomfortable having to say but I'd have to.

I'm always so concious of this - the bv thing, only happened occasionally but I've always been the first to mention it if I have.

Also I find just before and just after my period is always a little funny, so again I pre-warn

Feel bright red faced for even discussing this

Don't be red faced.

I get BV quite regularly, a few times a year.

Can be anything from shower gel (imperial leather is the absolute worst for this for me) or something simple like a change of fabric softener that brings it on, I'm also quite certain I've had it from my cycle too. I'm proper paranoid about what I use and whether I'm gonna have a dose of stink minge because of it. And no, I don't wash inside my chuff hole as tempting as it can be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have to say something, hopefully I would be able to do so without being insensitive.

Women can have BV and not even be aware of it and the smell.

I would really be uncomfortable having to say but I'd have to.

I'm always so concious of this - the bv thing, only happened occasionally but I've always been the first to mention it if I have.

Also I find just before and just after my period is always a little funny, so again I pre-warn

Feel bright red faced for even discussing this

Don't be red faced.

I get BV quite regularly, a few times a year.

What is BV?

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over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have to say something, hopefully I would be able to do so without being insensitive.

Women can have BV and not even be aware of it and the smell.

I would really be uncomfortable having to say but I'd have to.

I'm always so concious of this - the bv thing, only happened occasionally but I've always been the first to mention it if I have.

Also I find just before and just after my period is always a little funny, so again I pre-warn

Feel bright red faced for even discussing this

Don't be red faced.

I get BV quite regularly, a few times a year.

What is BV?"

Bacterial vaginosis.

Basically your fanjo self cleans on the inside and has different bacteria and PH inside it. Shower gels etc can upset the natural PH balance and give you a whiffy. Antibiotics sorts it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have to say something, hopefully I would be able to do so without being insensitive.

Women can have BV and not even be aware of it and the smell.

I would really be uncomfortable having to say but I'd have to.

I'm always so concious of this - the bv thing, only happened occasionally but I've always been the first to mention it if I have.

Also I find just before and just after my period is always a little funny, so again I pre-warn

Feel bright red faced for even discussing this

Don't be red faced.

I get BV quite regularly, a few times a year.

What is BV?

Bacterial vaginosis.

Basically your fanjo self cleans on the inside and has different bacteria and PH inside it. Shower gels etc can upset the natural PH balance and give you a whiffy. Antibiotics sorts it out.

Thanks for the explanation. You learn something everyday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Might squeeze in a squeeze in your corner window, mmmmmmm

No squeezing needed

think about that for a sec,,,

Squeeeezzzeee"

Okay I thought about it.

Maybe a little squeeze

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would have to say something, hopefully I would be able to do so without being insensitive.

Women can have BV and not even be aware of it and the smell.

I would really be uncomfortable having to say but I'd have to.

I'm always so concious of this - the bv thing, only happened occasionally but I've always been the first to mention it if I have.

Also I find just before and just after my period is always a little funny, so again I pre-warn

Feel bright red faced for even discussing this

Don't be red faced.

I get BV quite regularly, a few times a year.

What is BV?

Bacterial vaginosis.

Basically your fanjo self cleans on the inside and has different bacteria and PH inside it. Shower gels etc can upset the natural PH balance and give you a whiffy. Antibiotics sorts it out.

Thanks for the explanation. You learn something everyday.

Yah you explained that well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would have to say something, hopefully I would be able to do so without being insensitive.

Women can have BV and not even be aware of it and the smell.

I would really be uncomfortable having to say but I'd have to.

I'm always so concious of this - the bv thing, only happened occasionally but I've always been the first to mention it if I have.

Also I find just before and just after my period is always a little funny, so again I pre-warn

Feel bright red faced for even discussing this

Don't be red faced.

I get BV quite regularly, a few times a year.

What is BV?

Bacterial vaginosis.

Basically your fanjo self cleans on the inside and has different bacteria and PH inside it. Shower gels etc can upset the natural PH balance and give you a whiffy. Antibiotics sorts it out.

Thanks for the explanation. You learn something everyday.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Depends if you want to fuck them or not, as I assume you wouldn't want to fuck someone who was currently below par? So if you did want to fuck them, just tell them nicely but to the point as hygiene can often be very quickly sorted. I suspect most people would prefer you to tell them whether it results in a fuck or not. And anyone who throws their teddies out the pram needs to just grow up. At the end of the day we are all human and our bodies can produce hygiene faux pas'. So it's a shame to spoil things through shame and silence when all could be corrected with a little word and a shower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say anything to be honest - id assume they'd know there could be a problem beforehand so would be able to work out why there was a problem.

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over a year ago

"Depends if you want to fuck them or not, as I assume you wouldn't want to fuck someone who was currently below par? So if you did want to fuck them, just tell them nicely but to the point as hygiene can often be very quickly sorted. I suspect most people would prefer you to tell them whether it results in a fuck or not. And anyone who throws their teddies out the pram needs to just grow up. At the end of the day we are all human and our bodies can produce hygiene faux pas'. So it's a shame to spoil things through shame and silence when all could be corrected with a little word and a shower."

Very good points. How would you go about bringing it up though?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

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Very good points. How would you go about bringing it up though?"

Politely, to the point and in a non judgemental way. I figure it's more to do with tone, eye contact and body language more than the words used. Let them know it would be more enjoyable for both of you if that could be sorted out first. Like most games/activities it sometimes needs a bit of prior prep.

You could say for example if you wanted them to shower first simply how you would like them to shower first as you do with everyone. Maybe even to offer to join them (which could be fun). Maybe if it were a breath thing suggest you both takes some mints so kissing will be awesome and fresh. That way it's a joint thing and they don't feel singled out.

However you do it just be honest, to the point but let your kindness and humanity shine through too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I feel tonight, I don't care if its humming.. Give it to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very good points. How would you go about bringing it up though?

However you do it just be honest, to the point but let your kindness and humanity shine through too."

Some very good advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shower togather. Its great fun

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