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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get a lot of people messaging back after being deleted, my profile clearly states face pics or no reply but people are still surprised that their messages gets deleted when they fail to attach one also when I reply to state that I'm not interested I then get harassed by guy's demanding an explanation or a second chance. If you are not my type you're not my type simple. Why is it that so many people have issues with rejection or respecting the wishes of others? Who else has had similar issues?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would with boobs like that tbf....

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By *admedic23Man
over a year ago

all over the place

I never get messaged back full stop lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People dont read, my profile says women only, but men still try... selective reading syndrome hah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get a lot of people messaging back after being deleted, my profile clearly states face pics or no reply but people are still surprised that their messages gets deleted when they fail to attach one also when I reply to state that I'm not interested I then get harassed by guy's demanding an explanation or a second chance. If you are not my type you're not my type simple. Why is it that so many people have issues with rejection or respecting the wishes of others? Who else has had similar issues? "
people dont like rejection end of and i imagine neither do you if truth be known

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

A lot of them dont read the profile and even if they do they still chance their arm. think its part and parcel of it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try delete and block option, that should fix it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People dont read, my profile says women only, but men still try... selective reading syndrome hah"

Yea I definitely think there's a case of selective reading syndrome here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 27/11/19 19:43:46]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get a lot of people messaging back after being deleted, my profile clearly states face pics or no reply but people are still surprised that their messages gets deleted when they fail to attach one also when I reply to state that I'm not interested I then get harassed by guy's demanding an explanation or a second chance. If you are not my type you're not my type simple. Why is it that so many people have issues with rejection or respecting the wishes of others? Who else has had similar issues? people dont like rejection end of and i imagine neither do you if truth be known "

I understand that I'm not always going to be someone's cup of tea and I respect that fact and thier wish. Rejection is just a part of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 27/11/19 19:43:46]"

I agree with this, and we have also been rejected on fab - not directly as such, but by messages being deleted. We have never messaged back, however we get plenty of messages, especially from couples. And I have to say, I always reply with a polite no thank you, only to get more messages from them. I'm a bit of a softie, so it's normally Tom that reads them, deletes and blocks...

It is a fine line, and a very frustrating one at that!

N x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 27/11/19 19:43:46]

I agree with this, and we have also been rejected on fab - not directly as such, but by messages being deleted. We have never messaged back, however we get plenty of messages, especially from couples. And I have to say, I always reply with a polite no thank you, only to get more messages from them. I'm a bit of a softie, so it's normally Tom that reads them, deletes and blocks...

It is a fine line, and a very frustrating one at that!

N x"

I find it frustrating that my opinion is not respected or that them finding me attractive some how gives them the right to harass me. I've even have guys use different profiles to message me. It would be nice if I had someone to read the messages for me as I can be hot headed.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

My profile set out exactly the type of person I was looking for: no ambiguity. It also stated I would not respond to anyone outwith what I was looking for: and I didn't!

I replied to everyone who met my criteria and never got a nasty reply back.

I don't get the "I reply to everyone even if they've completely ignored my preferences" mentality if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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My profile set out exactly the type of person I was looking for: no ambiguity. It also stated I would not respond to anyone outwith what I was looking for: and I didn't!

I replied to everyone who met my criteria and never got a nasty reply back.

I don't get the "I reply to everyone even if they've completely ignored my preferences" mentality if I'm honest. "

Neither do I, it would take up a lot of time and its not usually the end of it

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Unfortunately it's a fact of life here Op. Many won't respect your preferences nor take rejection gracefully. Your not obliged to respond and if a lack of a response or a no is offensive to them just block. Saves you a world of hassle and time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 27/11/19 19:43:46]

I agree with this, and we have also been rejected on fab - not directly as such, but by messages being deleted. We have never messaged back, however we get plenty of messages, especially from couples. And I have to say, I always reply with a polite no thank you, only to get more messages from them. I'm a bit of a softie, so it's normally Tom that reads them, deletes and blocks...

It is a fine line, and a very frustrating one at that!

N x

I find it frustrating that my opinion is not respected or that them finding me attractive some how gives them the right to harass me. I've even have guys use different profiles to message me. It would be nice if I had someone to read the messages for me as I can be hot headed. "

Hopefully you are reporting the ones with multiple profiles, OP. Bang out of order. Then again, having looked at your profile, you do look pretty hot - those poor men obviously can't help themselves..... LOL

x Niki

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 27/11/19 19:43:46]

I agree with this, and we have also been rejected on fab - not directly as such, but by messages being deleted. We have never messaged back, however we get plenty of messages, especially from couples. And I have to say, I always reply with a polite no thank you, only to get more messages from them. I'm a bit of a softie, so it's normally Tom that reads them, deletes and blocks...

It is a fine line, and a very frustrating one at that!

N x

I find it frustrating that my opinion is not respected or that them finding me attractive some how gives them the right to harass me. I've even have guys use different profiles to message me. It would be nice if I had someone to read the messages for me as I can be hot headed.

Hopefully you are reporting the ones with multiple profiles, OP. Bang out of order. Then again, having looked at your profile, you do look pretty hot - those poor men obviously can't help themselves..... LOL

x Niki"

Yea I am and I guess guys can get pretty desperate when it comes to thinking with thier dicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 27/11/19 19:43:46]

I agree with this, and we have also been rejected on fab - not directly as such, but by messages being deleted. We have never messaged back, however we get plenty of messages, especially from couples. And I have to say, I always reply with a polite no thank you, only to get more messages from them. I'm a bit of a softie, so it's normally Tom that reads them, deletes and blocks...

It is a fine line, and a very frustrating one at that!

N x

I find it frustrating that my opinion is not respected or that them finding me attractive some how gives them the right to harass me. I've even have guys use different profiles to message me. It would be nice if I had someone to read the messages for me as I can be hot headed.

Hopefully you are reporting the ones with multiple profiles, OP. Bang out of order. Then again, having looked at your profile, you do look pretty hot - those poor men obviously can't help themselves..... LOL

x Niki

Yea I am and I guess guys can get pretty desperate when it comes to thinking with thier dicks "

Yes, so don't let it upset you. It is so not worth it! Just delete / block and move on (and report multiples - we haven't experienced that yet - it would make my blood boil)

x Niki

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your filters to stop men messaging you and be proactive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got over yourself just ignore or block em then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I wouldn’t message you as you seem very demanding OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t message you as you seem very demanding OP "

I really don't care, I'm just trying to find out if people experience similar issues to me.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I used to until I started blocking x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I wouldn’t message you as you seem very demanding OP

I really don't care, I'm just trying to find out if people experience similar issues to me. "

Good luck, I hope you find what your looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get a lot of people messaging back after being deleted, my profile clearly states face pics or no reply but people are still surprised that their messages gets deleted when they fail to attach one also when I reply to state that I'm not interested I then get harassed by guy's demanding an explanation or a second chance. If you are not my type you're not my type simple. Why is it that so many people have issues with rejection or respecting the wishes of others? Who else has had similar issues? "

Exactly the same issues and I think my profile is pretty clear. No face pic no reply and it says if I delete take that as a no.

I've even had some really rude messages because I deleted the message!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get a lot of people messaging back after being deleted, my profile clearly states face pics or no reply but people are still surprised that their messages gets deleted when they fail to attach one also when I reply to state that I'm not interested I then get harassed by guy's demanding an explanation or a second chance. If you are not my type you're not my type simple. Why is it that so many people have issues with rejection or respecting the wishes of others? Who else has had similar issues?

Exactly the same issues and I think my profile is pretty clear. No face pic no reply and it says if I delete take that as a no.

I've even had some really rude messages because I deleted the message! "

I've experienced the same thing, I've even had death threats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[OP rejected but carelessly not blocked by poster at 27/11/19 21:30:26]"

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