FabSwingers.com forum: Can ladies explain ???

By *mileTogether69 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Hi Ladies,

Can you put into words why it is you get such a thrill of of guys finding you desirable?

Is it like a drug ,once you feel that buzz you just can,t get enough....

Can the knowing of desire and reassurance it's been attained offset the intimacy of sex?

Do you feel disappointed by the end of the day if you had NOT had any yearning lustful eyes from someone ....

Can it be annoying or irritation or just a unwritten distant compliment between the sexes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Ladies,

Can you put into words why it is you get such a thrill of of guys finding you desirable?

Is it like a drug ,once you feel that buzz you just can,t get enough....

Can the knowing of desire and reassurance it's been attained offset the intimacy of sex?

Do you feel disappointed by the end of the day if you had NOT had any yearning lustful eyes from someone ....

Can it be annoying or irritation or just a unwritten distant compliment between the sexes..."

It’s nice to know someone finds me attractive.

No, it’s not like a drug, I don’t get a buzz or whatever..

And nope, no disappointments. I’d be amazed if someone found me attractive every day

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Hi Ladies,

Can you put into words why it is you get such a thrill of of guys finding you desirable?

Is it like a drug ,once you feel that buzz you just can,t get enough....

Can the knowing of desire and reassurance it's been attained offset the intimacy of sex?

Do you feel disappointed by the end of the day if you had NOT had any yearning lustful eyes from someone ....

Can it be annoying or irritation or just a unwritten distant compliment between the sexes..."

I never have wanted desire from all and sundry, that can get dangerous - I only ever wanted the desire of the ones I desire, which number is few.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of attention from men too.

What can I say .... sorrrry!

It doesn’t feel like a drug , it’s just a curse I have to live with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X "

I know what I would like to ask you

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

It's nice to be wanted, it doesn't matter which sex you are.

If you feel sexy, then you are sexy. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X "

James Blunt innit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the feeling of his warm flesh on me.

I like watching his reaction to me, my body and what I do.

I like hearing his reactions to what I do.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X

I know what I would like to ask you

Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything

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By *mileTogether69 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X "
oh yes you,ve rumbled me .... I am a bit of a ..BABLER..ha ha ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being lusted by someone doesn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally read the OP wrong

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By *mileTogether69 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Just read my thread again...

I,m no academic but I do think it makes sense...

Does,nt it ?

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X oh yes you,ve rumbled me .... I am a bit of a ..BABLER..ha ha .."

I'll have a go any way xx

I think I feel pretty resourced and secure in myself..enough so that I don't need to be lusted after, crave attention or feel frustrated if I don't get it. AND my ego likes it, of course. Fundamentally we all like to feel wanted. But I don't place my value on it.

What I like is a mutual exchange, when theres chemistry and I don't mind if I get to the end of the day without lustful eyes ... end of the month however might ave my bottom lip out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being able to turn people on. It’s a power thing. Like giving a good blow job. Empowerment is very sexy. But there’s not drug like buzz or anything exciting like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read my thread again...

I,m no academic but I do think it makes sense...

Does,nt it ?"

What makes sense?

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"Hi Ladies,

Can you put into words why it is you get such a thrill of of guys finding you desirable?

Is it like a drug ,once you feel that buzz you just can,t get enough....

Can the knowing of desire and reassurance it's been attained offset the intimacy of sex?

Do you feel disappointed by the end of the day if you had NOT had any yearning lustful eyes from someone ....

Can it be annoying or irritation or just a unwritten distant compliment between the sexes..."

I find it more thrilling if it's a woman who's paid me a complement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X

I know what I would like to ask you

Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything

I'll give it a try. But to save time, just read my status and get back to me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's all a matter of context. Most of the time I don't particularly care that much unless it's a friend paying me a compliment. Sometimes, usually involving strangers, it's downright irritating. Sometimes I just want to get shit done.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X

I know what I would like to ask you

Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything

Kfc and massage should never go in the same sentence

I'll give it a try. But to save time, just read my status and get back to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X

I know what I would like to ask you

Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything

Kfc and massage should never go in the same sentence

I'll give it a try. But to save time, just read my status and get back to me

Youre going to have to try harder if you want to ride this train

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X

I know what I would like to ask you

Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything

Kfc and massage should never go in the same sentence

I'll give it a try. But to save time, just read my status and get back to me

Youre going to have to try harder if you want to ride this train

Hahaha! Im past trying hard .. o trust all the right trains will arrive in my station

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X

I know what I would like to ask you

Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything

Kfc and massage should never go in the same sentence

I'll give it a try. But to save time, just read my status and get back to me

Youre going to have to try harder if you want to ride this train

Hahaha! Im past trying hard .. o trust all the right trains will arrive in my station

Choo choo bitch!

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By *atonMan
over a year ago

barnet

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X

I know what I would like to ask you

Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything

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just did and where are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X

I know what I would like to ask you

Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything

just did and where are you?

Riding my train

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read my thread again...

I,m no academic but I do think it makes sense...

Does,nt it ?"

It comes across as asking for assumptions to be confirmed than asking questions. Saying that both sexes like to be desired to some extent its not just a female thnig.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X

I know what I would like to ask you

Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything

Kfc and massage should never go in the same sentence

I'll give it a try. But to save time, just read my status and get back to me

Youre going to have to try harder if you want to ride this train

Hahaha! Im past trying hard .. o trust all the right trains will arrive in my station

Choo choo bitch!

Charmer x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok back to the OP please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an ego boost. Men tell me I'm hot and it makes my minge drip and my pantaloons fall down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just read my thread again...

I,m no academic but I do think it makes sense...

Does,nt it ?"

Made sense to me.

I never have a day where lustful eyes haven't ogled my tits.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"Just read my thread again...

I,m no academic but I do think it makes sense...

Does,nt it ?

Made sense to me.

I never have a day where lustful eyes haven't ogled my tits. "

As the official founding member of the boob appreciation club (see my forum thread) ogling boobs is a founding principle. Thanks for the mammories.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

It's nice to get compliments but I don't get upset if I don't get any. I don't base my own self worth upon other peoples opinions.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"Ok back to the OP please"

Indeed, apologies OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's nice to be wanted, it doesn't matter which sex you are.

If you feel sexy, then you are sexy. Simple.

"
is

this

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By *ornymalefemale2019Couple
over a year ago

fucksvill

Getting a compliment on fab doesn't make me feel great at all as u men will say anything to anyone for a shag...a compliment of a stranger in the street is nice

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By *mileTogether69 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X oh yes you,ve rumbled me .... I am a bit of a ..BABLER..ha ha ..

I'll have a go any way xx

What I like is a mutual exchange, when theres chemistry and I don't mind if I get to the end of the day without lustful eyes ... end of the month however might ave my bottom lip out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When am fully aware of a guest at work following me with there eyes checking out my ass always gives me a boost

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By *mileTogether69 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"Getting a compliment on fab doesn't make me feel great at all as u men will say anything to anyone for a shag...a compliment of a stranger in the street is nice

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ooooh yes ...very good .... had,nt thought of that angle....

Damn pretty pointless writing .." oh your so damn sexy " now is it...

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By *mileTogether69 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"When am fully aware of a guest at work following me with there eyes checking out my ass always gives me a boost "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me...being an almost 43yr old woman after 2 kids popped out, its knowing I still have it.

I was in a bad marriage and when I ended it in 2018, my self esteem was soooo low, I said to a gal pal I will never be attractive to a guy and get a date.

So to know MrD loves my bod and it gets me fabbed is a huge boost for my confidence. Small steps.....

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By *mileTogether69 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"Just read my thread again...

I,m no academic but I do think it makes sense...

Does,nt it ?

Made sense to me.

I never have a day where lustful eyes haven't ogled my tits. "
ha ha ha ..

thankyou..

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By *mileTogether69 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"It's an ego boost. Men tell me I'm hot and it makes my minge drip and my pantaloons fall down. "
ha ha brilliant !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Ladies,

Can you put into words why it is you get such a thrill of of guys finding you desirable?

Is it like a drug ,once you feel that buzz you just can,t get enough....

Can the knowing of desire and reassurance it's been attained offset the intimacy of sex?

Do you feel disappointed by the end of the day if you had NOT had any yearning lustful eyes from someone ....

Can it be annoying or irritation or just a unwritten distant compliment between the sexes...

I never have wanted desire from all and sundry, that can get dangerous - I only ever wanted the desire of the ones I desire, which number is few.

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By *mileTogether69 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"So many questions .. what is it you really want to say? X

I know what I would like to ask you

Say my name 3 times in the mirror and I might appear, then you can ask me anything

just did and where are you?

"
Baton ?? That photo ....that's never yours ?? Cccchhhhrrriiiisstt..!!

Oh god ,oh god...

I feeling an inferior complex coming on...

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By *mileTogether69 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"For me...being an almost 43yr old woman after 2 kids popped out, its knowing I still have it.

I was in a bad marriage and when I ended it in 2018, my self esteem was soooo low, I said to a gal pal I will never be attractive to a guy and get a date.

So to know MrD loves my bod and it gets me fabbed is a huge boost for my confidence. Small steps....."
good for you ....go girl @!

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

What they say doesnt define me ,but god yes it helps my confidence ,ive had body issues and been shy for years ,butafter a shit put down first hubby ,ive now had a great one for 25 years but i enjoy his compliments but feel he is biased ,so any i get on here from meets etc makes me smile and ive gone from body shy to wearing underwear id have NEVER looked at before myself and hubby are loving my new confidence in and out of the bedroom ,i still have the odd wobble but feel so sexual now love it ..

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I get a thrill from guys I want to bang desiring me. It makes me feel sexy and I enjoy teasing them relentless. I don't get that feeling from just being desired by any old random though haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I am an attention seeking drama llama!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it’s the menopause, but I don’t feel desirable and i don’t desire anyone either and it really doesn’t bother me

I just don’t get what’s so great or important about some stranger on the internet saying they find you desirable.

Most times on here, it’s a lie anyway and is said just in the hope of them getting sex.

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