FabSwingers.com forum: Single M you have my sympathy

By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.

I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.

I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)

Now I know why men get so exacerbated.

Single lone ladies - where arreeee you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this explains a lot

I thought we were friends

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.

I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.

I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)

Now I know why men get so exacerbated.

Single lone ladies - where arreeee you? "

Yup!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was 2 busses of em 10 mins ago hurry u might catch one

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

There are lots of us about x

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By *oodGirl_BadGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cleveleys

Here..

I’ve not had any say they want there partners there.. coz I just don’t get a reply. Haha

Even the ones who wink you first don’t reply.. or if you are lucky enough to get a reply.. then stop chatting within a few messages.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

We exist!

I can play with guys (not my man, barf). But I don't have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like searching for an endangered species sometimes.

But their out there. There's plenty of vag about, but the women got it all.

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

6 messages. Pffff, try sending about 20 with no response and then do it daily, for a few months. OK not 20 a day but yano

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. Was the same when I was looking to meet women. Not many didn’t want their man involved in some way or another. Not a chance.

Was very annoying! If you want your man involved get a joint profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same problem.

I often put FF meets up, still waiting for it to happen on fab x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I agree. Was the same when I was looking to meet women. Not many didn’t want their man involved in some way or another. Not a chance.

Was very annoying! If you want your man involved get a joint profile!"

Yeah, you all but agree and set up a date, and boom! A man appears.

No. If I'm setting up something with a single female, there will be no men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was wondering why i keep seeing tumble....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree. Was the same when I was looking to meet women. Not many didn’t want their man involved in some way or another. Not a chance.

Was very annoying! If you want your man involved get a joint profile!

Yeah, you all but agree and set up a date, and boom! A man appears.

No. If I'm setting up something with a single female, there will be no men. "

Definitely. That’s the reason we’ve got a joint profile, I wouldn’t expect to be chatting to a woman on this one and all of a sudden say can he come along? Out of order in my opinion.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I agree. Was the same when I was looking to meet women. Not many didn’t want their man involved in some way or another. Not a chance.

Was very annoying! If you want your man involved get a joint profile!

Yeah, you all but agree and set up a date, and boom! A man appears.

No. If I'm setting up something with a single female, there will be no men.

Definitely. That’s the reason we’ve got a joint profile, I wouldn’t expect to be chatting to a woman on this one and all of a sudden say can he come along? Out of order in my opinion. "

I do very occasionally set up meetings where I couple up, but I say from the outset, happy to meet alone or I have a FWB (username), see verifications.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

... Oh and we've only done this with men and couples not women.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.

I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.

I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)

Now I know why men get so exacerbated.

Single lone ladies - where arreeee you? "

Now isn’t that like winning the lottery

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.

I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.

I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)

Now I know why men get so exacerbated.

Single lone ladies - where arreeee you?

Now isn’t that like winning the lottery

"
. No. Not when you’re not looking for any penis action lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Awwww where the hell was you when I was single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to play alone for ff fun. MrD is fine with me having fun with another lady. Yes he would eventually like to be involved but is more than happy for me to play alone with a lady. He finds the idea a super turn on.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I always assume women are snowed under with messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been so long since i looked id not have a clue how hard it is

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.

I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.

I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)

Now I know why men get so exacerbated.

Single lone ladies - where arreeee you? "

That's a shame that the men want to muscle in. I (Luke) am perfectly happy for Hannah to meet up with women with no involvement from me. She has had sex with one of her best friends a couple of times and I haven't had anything to do with it. The three of us have talked about those times without any embarrassment and there was no suggestion of me joining in in any way. It was rather lovely to be that open.

It may happen again. I would never try to stop it or think I need to be involved even if it happened in our own bed.

So have you tried approaching couples with a bi lady?

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.

I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.

I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)

Now I know why men get so exacerbated.

Single lone ladies - where arreeee you?

It may happen again. I would never try to stop it or think I need to be involved even if it happened in our own bed.

So have you tried approaching couples with a bi lady? "

No. I admit I haven’t but then it seems a real trudge picking apart their profile for if they play alone as I’d hate to offend. I usually like to address a couple as a couple.

Maybe I will put a meet up and see what transpires. Thanks for the tip xx

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.

I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.

I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)

Now I know why men get so exacerbated.

Single lone ladies - where arreeee you?

Now isn’t that like winning the lottery

. No. Not when you’re not looking for any penis action lol"
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true. I don’t disclose that information I have what you call manners

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.

I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.

I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)

Now I know why men get so exacerbated.

Single lone ladies - where arreeee you?

It may happen again. I would never try to stop it or think I need to be involved even if it happened in our own bed.

So have you tried approaching couples with a bi lady?

No. I admit I haven’t but then it seems a real trudge picking apart their profile for if they play alone as I’d hate to offend. I usually like to address a couple as a couple.

Maybe I will put a meet up and see what transpires. Thanks for the tip xx"

The difficulty with a meet is you can miss out on women who are not available at a particular time but would otherwise be interested.

I suggest you put up forum threads asking if any women are interested in meeting up with other women with no male involvement, probably socially at first, and open the question to couples where it is understood that only the woman would come. It would just be asking in principle and could potentially help women across the country find each other.

You could also start a thread to see if any women in your area would be interested in a ladies-only social, again including women in couples.

Threads like that can give interested women an opportunity to say so without tying them to times and places. Details can be worked out when you know who is interested.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Interesting read.... good luck OP, hope you find what you’re looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awwww where the hell was you when I was single

Are you a woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this OP can't find a lady.. There's no hope for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly a few knocking around, but it generally all comes down to survival of the fittest for most men on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contact me OP if you want female company as I’m a lesbo xxx

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I'm completely single!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Here! I have a partner but it would be awkward as fuck for me if he was watching. Not happening.

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over a year ago

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

It's tough for all genders and demographics on here for a variety ofreasons. No one has it easy.

Delete , if they only meet with a partner report, block if needed move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a single bi curious lady.

I’ve been on a couple dates with women but it’s never gone anywhere sexual (sadly)

I never expected to find other solo women on fab - it just didn’t seem like the place! I’d love to be proven wrong though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here..

I’ve not had any say they want there partners there.. coz I just don’t get a reply. Haha

Even the ones who wink you first don’t reply.. or if you are lucky enough to get a reply.. then stop chatting within a few messages.

As you no doubt know, women are absolutelt inundated with messages and your messages are either lost in the pike of mass deleted i expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now ladies imagine looking for women whilst you have a hardon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.

I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.

I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)

Now I know why men get so exacerbated.

Single lone ladies - where arreeee you? "

Have you tried meeting a TS/TV?

Remember , clothes and having a penis does not define a persons Sexuality......

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"Now ladies imagine looking for women whilst you have a hardon.

A wideon, surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.

I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.

I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)

Now I know why men get so exacerbated.

Single lone ladies - where arreeee you? "

I just peeked at your profile & if I was in the UK, you could count me in for some ff time with you. Tattoo's too....Im in!! Great pics

MsDub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a dubber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do love a dubber "

A what now??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dubber. I’ve had some fun times over your way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A dubber. I’ve had some fun times over your way "

Ah I see.

Us Dub's females are gorg sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You certainly are. That profile pic begs for a face sitting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You certainly are. That profile pic begs for a face sitting "

Had a few volunteers for that alright. MrD filled the role rather well that night.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It's very very annoying. If I want to meet a couple, I look for a mf profile.

I enjoy meeting women alone - it's fun and interesting. I don't want a man there to alter that dynamic.

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By *oyRoy06Man
over a year ago

leighton buzzard

"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.

I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.

I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)

Now I know why men get so exacerbated.

Single lone ladies - where arreeee you?

It may happen again. I would never try to stop it or think I need to be involved even if it happened in our own bed.

So have you tried approaching couples with a bi lady? "

Why assume that it's the men "muscling" in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder are there any swinging clubs with nights for only women.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I wonder are there any swinging clubs with nights for only women. "

Townhouse does a women only event called Indulgence. It's great fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder are there any swinging clubs with nights for only women.

Townhouse does a women only event called Indulgence. It's great fun!"

Well there's your chance, Ladies

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By *oodGirl_BadGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cleveleys

Lots appearing now.... but why are you all soooooooo far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots appearing now.... but why are you all soooooooo far away

A curse of the internet.

It brings us all closer by means of communication but not physical presence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on fan about 12 years. In all that time I have had 2 F/F meets. One off here. One off tinder.

I admit I very rarely send messages OUT but this week have made a determined effort to search for some female company.

I have messaged about 6 single F profiles and ALL of them stated that they would only meet if their man could be present (watch, basically)

Now I know why men get so exacerbated.

Single lone ladies - where arreeee you? "

Love the latex dress. You look fantastic.

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