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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey. What type of man girl prefer?

Dom? Sub? Or both?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It entirely depends on the woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like very dominant men. Not for me at all.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I don’t like very dominant men. Not for me at all. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t like very dominant men. Not for me at all. "

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm open to either though have some preference for Dom/switch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I liked dominant men

But then my misandry boils and I can’t stand it

I think now I want a nice submissive husband to be cuckolded

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm open to either though have some preference for Dom/switch."

Nice...sub/switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with Lacey on this ... she could do either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub.

Though I have a switchy side that needs letting loose

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Why is it only the ladies allowed to have a preference? I'm rather partial to a dominant man myself

Everyone will be different though OP and for some it may even be circumstantial and vary from occasion to occasion

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Sub

But I need someone extremely dominant to tame me, someone who really understands the trust involved. Gets into your mind, body and soul from the inside out.

Many so called doms role like a crash bang wallop sex scene...really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub

But I need someone extremely dominant to tame me, someone who really understands the trust involved. Gets into your mind, body and soul from the inside out.

Many so called doms role like a crash bang wallop sex scene...really "

With you on this. So many dom wannabes that don't get the dynamics of it.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"Hey. What type of man girl prefer?

Dom? Sub? Or both?"

Know about demi girls but not man girls - is that like being bigender?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub.. I have more control

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Sub

But I need someone extremely dominant to tame me, someone who really understands the trust involved. Gets into your mind, body and soul from the inside out.

Many so called doms role like a crash bang wallop sex scene...really

With you on this. So many dom wannabes that don't get the dynamics of it. "

I thought you would get me

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Sub

But I need someone extremely dominant to tame me, someone who really understands the trust involved. Gets into your mind, body and soul from the inside out.

Many so called doms role like a crash bang wallop sex scene...really

With you on this. So many dom wannabes that don't get the dynamics of it. "

In the interests of balance and not suggesting this applies to anyone here, there are also sub wannabes who read "those" books or see some fairly mild BDSM porn and think it appeals and end up being easy prey for the dom wannabes too.

The key to D/s should always be informed, safe, sane consent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub

But I need someone extremely dominant to tame me, someone who really understands the trust involved. Gets into your mind, body and soul from the inside out.

Many so called doms role like a crash bang wallop sex scene...really

With you on this. So many dom wannabes that don't get the dynamics of it.

I thought you would get me "

I do. Loved one of your comments on a thread recently.

The trust factor is a big one. Hard to find!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub

But I need someone extremely dominant to tame me, someone who really understands the trust involved. Gets into your mind, body and soul from the inside out.

Many so called doms role like a crash bang wallop sex scene...really

With you on this. So many dom wannabes that don't get the dynamics of it.

In the interests of balance and not suggesting this applies to anyone here, there are also sub wannabes who read "those" books or see some fairly mild BDSM porn and think it appeals and end up being easy prey for the dom wannabes too.

The key to D/s should always be informed, safe, sane consent "

Totally agree.

I never did read some of those books. Got half way through the first one and stopped reading. There's so much more to the D/s relationship and its unique to the two in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub.. I have more control"

Me too

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Sub

But I need someone extremely dominant to tame me, someone who really understands the trust involved. Gets into your mind, body and soul from the inside out.

Many so called doms role like a crash bang wallop sex scene...really

With you on this. So many dom wannabes that don't get the dynamics of it.

In the interests of balance and not suggesting this applies to anyone here, there are also sub wannabes who read "those" books or see some fairly mild BDSM porn and think it appeals and end up being easy prey for the dom wannabes too.

The key to D/s should always be informed, safe, sane consent

Totally agree.

I never did read some of those books. Got half way through the first one and stopped reading. There's so much more to the D/s relationship and its unique to the two in it. "

Absolutely it is unique to the two (or more) people involved.

I often say there is no "right" way to D/s only the way agreed between two (or more) informed and consenting adults - which is why the OPs question is a little irrelevant really because just because someone says they are submissive doesn't mean they will be submissive to everyone that calls themselves dominant.

In over 20 years of having an interest in D/s I've come across maybe 3 people I truly felt submissive to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sub.

Though I have a switchy side that needs letting loose "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dominant. A man who has self control & charisma and a passionate persona.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I don’t like very dominant men. Not for me at all. "

One for the block list

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

I'm a sub wannabe cuck.

For me I adore someone who takes advantage of another's lust and submissive side and enjoys having someone at their beck and call but would also enjoy times with Alpha men and tease me about it x

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I prefer dominant men but to be honest most haven't got a clue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t like very dominant men. Not for me at all.

One for the block list "

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I play sexual Dom, L is a major switch, which at times make for rather interesting scenario’s.

In such a stunning way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere in between.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Somewhere in between. "
cool.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girls prefer me but they better be good if there gonna get there preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither, depends on dynamic with that person

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Lou) I'm a sub and Ray is definitely a dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. I like an even playing field.

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Speaking as a bloke, switch works for us. I take the lead in real life, but a sub in Fab world.

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over a year ago

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