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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies do you mind if a guy doesn't cum during sex or if he takes way to long to cum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as long as I do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you work for Sydney University or something?

The green arrow makes me believe you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes dont cum but always enjoy the sex. I get satisfaction knowing the lady is happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago I had a meeting where I just couldn't cum....the lady was really pleased...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you work for Sydney University or something?

The green arrow makes me believe you do"

I'm bored.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

What’s Cum??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What’s Cum??"

I'm not sure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I sometimes dont cum but always enjoy the sex. I get satisfaction knowing the lady is happy."

That good to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm difficult to please so it happens alot with me..and even if i think the woman is happy and sarisfied...a part of me thinks she isnt really as i feel it could make her think she wasnt desirable enough or sexy enough...so ive faked it a few times x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this happen a lot?

FFS, I used to cum BEFORE sex quite often. Very easily excited

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Doesn’t really matter.

What matters is whether he’s enjoying it or not

Lex

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By *ix-foot-two-stuMan
over a year ago

Coventry

If we’re having sex within a few hours of cumming the last time, I might struggle to get over the hill before one of us needs a break. In which case I’m honest about it and I suggest I save it for next time. It’s a bonus for her since I’ll want another go fairly soon.

But she knows she does it for me cos I tell her. And jump on her at every opportunity.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

An ex used to tell me that if I couldn't cum, for whatever reason, it was incredibly frustrating for her.

I assume she thought she either wasn't enough to turn me on fully or wasn't doing her job properly.

I never saw it as a problem per se, but would apologise if it wasn't going to happen as I knew she liked me to finish

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) don't always ejaculate during sex and Hannah is fine with that. We don't set it as a goal. Our only goal in sex is to enjoy ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I (Luke) don't always ejaculate during sex and Hannah is fine with that. We don't set it as a goal. Our only goal in sex is to enjoy ourselves. "

It's the right way to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Doesn’t really matter.

What matters is whether he’s enjoying it or not

Lex"

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

K gets disappointed sometimes if I can't cum but sometimes it just doesn't happen for me. It's not that I'm not turned on or anything, it's just one of those things.

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

"I (Luke) don't always ejaculate during sex and Hannah is fine with that. We don't set it as a goal. Our only goal in sex is to enjoy ourselves. "

Yep this is the best way. If not cumming becomes an thing’ it makes it worse....not cumming becomes can’t cum

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Sorry but have to be honest. I will be disappointed ... and feel bad about myself. Make me feel like a failure (if the guy who met me didn't cum).

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I don't mind if a guy doesn't cum as long as he does actually get hard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"K gets disappointed sometimes if I can't cum but sometimes it just doesn't happen for me. It's not that I'm not turned on or anything, it's just one of those things."

At least she understands.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Doesn’t really matter.

What matters is whether he’s enjoying it or not

Lex"

Yah that is the main thing. That both are giving fun.

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By *eWillMakeYouSquirtCouple
over a year ago

leicester

I must say I like the women to cum before me so then I know I’ve done a good job

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By *ivin_dead_girl86Woman
over a year ago

dundee

I like to make sure he does yesits only fair x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to make sure he does yesits only fair x"

So would you feel bad if he just couldn't cum?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does this happen a lot?

FFS, I used to cum BEFORE sex quite often. Very easily excited

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

When C has had too much to drink he take absolutely forever to cum which is fine. I dont like it if they dont cum feel like I've failed in some way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When C has had too much to drink he take absolutely forever to cum which is fine. I dont like it if they dont cum feel like I've failed in some way"

Yah I have a friend who says the same.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Quids in for me ! .. I like very physical sex over a long time which has varying pace and energy, sensual play.

There's lots more to sex than the goal of orgasm and more to orgasm than ejaculation.

In some practices men aim to retain their semen and expand the experience/sensation/orgasm away from the genitals for a more fulfilling experience for both partners.

If it was a struggle or disheartening I'd be more tempted to try and remedy that rather than putting the onus on cumming everytime.

Plus, as long as there's an erection we get to fuck ourselves fit! Happy days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quids in for me ! .. I like very physical sex over a long time which has varying pace and energy, sensual play.

There's lots more to sex than the goal of orgasm and more to orgasm than ejaculation.

In some practices men aim to retain their semen and expand the experience/sensation/orgasm away from the genitals for a more fulfilling experience for both partners.

If it was a struggle or disheartening I'd be more tempted to try and remedy that rather than putting the onus on cumming everytime.

Plus, as long as there's an erection we get to fuck ourselves fit! Happy days

Fuck yourselves fit. I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about guys who cum and want to keep going

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What about guys who cum and want to keep going

No harm in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies do you mind if a guy doesn't cum during sex or if he takes way to long to cum?"
yes from my experience ladies do mind if you dont cum as I suffer this from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about guys who cum and want to keep going

They’re my favourite type

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I'm not upset by it, I prefer if they do of course, preferably multiple times

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ladies do you mind if a guy doesn't cum during sex or if he takes way to long to cum? yes from my experience ladies do mind if you dont cum as I suffer this from time to time"

Care to explain?

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I can get beyond cuming.. over-sensitised sometimes. Dosent bother me or my partner - In fact makes me turbo charged for next time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can get beyond cuming.. over-sensitised sometimes. Dosent bother me or my partner - In fact makes me turbo charged for next time!"

Good to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt really feel 'finished' to me if the man doesnt cum, Im not so bothered about it for myself. I think its because I do love the cum, it wouldn't particulary be a problem. Sexual frustration is a good frustration, as long as I get to have another go with him faìrly soon

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Yes I know what you mean by that if I guy doesn't cum but I'm a guy that loves to please a lady and cums first so I know that I have satisfied her then I will cum .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I know what you mean by that if I guy doesn't cum but I'm a guy that loves to please a lady and cums first so I know that I have satisfied her then I will cum ."

Its very British to argue over who should cum first, like two old ladies fighting over who will pay for the tea at the teashop. 'You first dear', 'No,No you first, I insist'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I (Luke) don't always ejaculate during sex and Hannah is fine with that. We don't set it as a goal. Our only goal in sex is to enjoy ourselves. "

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I'm not going to argue if it's me or you no you cum first.i just like to make sure that she has cum but if she wants me to cum well I'm a cumin.lol

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

I doubt if any guy can say he has cum everytime.... BUT does it matter if you have both enjoyed the sex

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I (Luke) don't always ejaculate during sex and Hannah is fine with that. We don't set it as a goal. Our only goal in sex is to enjoy ourselves. "

Totally agree.

I've never cum with anyone else but I still love sex, I find if there's too much pressure then it ruins it, I just go with the flow and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I (Luke) don't always ejaculate during sex and Hannah is fine with that. We don't set it as a goal. Our only goal in sex is to enjoy ourselves.

Totally agree.

I've never cum with anyone else but I still love sex, I find if there's too much pressure then it ruins it, I just go with the flow and see what happens. "

Couldnt agree more. Just enjoy having fun and take away the pressures of cumming!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No as long as I do x"

This has made me chuckle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It doesnt really feel 'finished' to me if the man doesnt cum, Im not so bothered about it for myself. I think its because I do love the cum, it wouldn't particulary be a problem. Sexual frustration is a good frustration, as long as I get to have another go with him faìrly soon

If he didn't cum when you went again would you be upset?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies do you mind if a guy doesn't cum during sex or if he takes way to long to cum? yes from my experience ladies do mind if you dont cum as I suffer this from time to time

Care to explain?"
like especially if it happens more than once they start to think theres something wrong with them when the reality is it's me who cant reach climax. If they wernt doing it for me I wouldn't be hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can get beyond cuming.. over-sensitised sometimes. Dosent bother me or my partner - In fact makes me turbo charged for next time!"
I aggregate sometimes after so long it's like your dick becomes numb and you cant achieve orgasm. Then other times I'll cum.after 30 seconds haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that if I felt pressurised to cum it might be a problem. I have had times due to performance anxiety and lack of practice that I’ve taken longer to cum than I would have expected and also struggling with my erection.

Thankfully my partners have been patient and very understanding which has been very helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't. I love when one does but i would hate the same pressure on me..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ladies do you mind if a guy doesn't cum during sex or if he takes way to long to cum? yes from my experience ladies do mind if you dont cum as I suffer this from time to time

Care to explain?like especially if it happens more than once they start to think theres something wrong with them when the reality is it's me who cant reach climax. If they wernt doing it for me I wouldn't be hard. "

Yah that is a very good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No as long as I do x"

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Ladies do you mind if a guy doesn't cum during sex or if he takes way to long to cum?"
do you mind or not,,

This is valuable info before you invite me down to Cat land,,,

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

"I sometimes dont cum but always enjoy the sex. I get satisfaction knowing the lady is happy."

This and it’s always about the ladies for me.

A bit like the saying “Happy wife, Happy life” not that I’m married anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ladies do you mind if a guy doesn't cum during sex or if he takes way to long to cum? do you mind or not,,

This is valuable info before you invite me down to Cat land,,, "

It would probably annoy me a little but not enough to make me not keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can get beyond cuming.. over-sensitised sometimes. Dosent bother me or my partner - In fact makes me turbo charged for next time!I aggregate sometimes after so long it's like your dick becomes numb and you cant achieve orgasm. Then other times I'll cum.after 30 seconds haha

Good to know

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Ladies do you mind if a guy doesn't cum during sex or if he takes way to long to cum? do you mind or not,,

This is valuable info before you invite me down to Cat land,,,

It would probably annoy me a little but not enough to make me not keep trying."
stored in the vault,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ladies do you mind if a guy doesn't cum during sex or if he takes way to long to cum? do you mind or not,,

This is valuable info before you invite me down to Cat land,,,

It would probably annoy me a little but not enough to make me not keep trying. stored in the vault,,

Oh and I here I was thinking you may have released it this morning

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over a year ago

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By *ivin_dead_girl86Woman
over a year ago

dundee

"I like to make sure he does yesits only fair x

So would you feel bad if he just couldn't cum?"

I would definitely feel bad xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to make sure he does yesits only fair x

So would you feel bad if he just couldn't cum?

I would definitely feel bad xxx"

I think it looks like most would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must say I like the women to cum before me so then I know I’ve done a good job

Yep have to agree with you there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I must say I like the women to cum before me so then I know I’ve done a good job

Yep have to agree with you there

Good point there

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"K gets disappointed sometimes if I can't cum but sometimes it just doesn't happen for me. It's not that I'm not turned on or anything, it's just one of those things."

it's just one of those things for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he didn't cum at all over a whole session then probably yes. Although if I've already made him cum and he's spending time getting me there then I have no issues whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If he didn't cum at all over a whole session then probably yes. Although if I've already made him cum and he's spending time getting me there then I have no issues whatsoever"

I mean if they didn't cum at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see it as an issue on the odd occasion.

Just like women, men cum through different stimulus. Or sometimes not at all. I've found sometimes play can last for ages (woo!) and the simplest finish is to finish themselves as oversensitive or tired etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't see it as an issue on the odd occasion.

That's very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't see it as an issue on the odd occasion.

Would it bother you if the guy finished himself off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see it as an issue on the odd occasion.

Would it bother you if the guy finished himself off"

Nope. But I'm pretty chilled. There's a lot of pressure on men to perform, satisfy AND cum. As long as whatever occurs is pleasurable, its all good!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't see it as an issue on the odd occasion.

Would it bother you if the guy finished himself off

Nope. But I'm pretty chilled. There's a lot of pressure on men to perform, satisfy AND cum. As long as whatever occurs is pleasurable, its all good! "

Such a great attitude to have

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ladies do you mind if a guy doesn't cum during sex or if he takes way to long to cum? do you mind or not,,

This is valuable info before you invite me down to Cat land,,,

It would probably annoy me a little but not enough to make me not keep trying. stored in the vault,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes don't. It's frustrating.

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