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By *ensualbicock OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

If someone is nasty to you on here. Do you give them a second chance?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

When I initially was on here I was block happy, now I just see it as differences of opinion unless someone is really vile

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

How nasty are we talking and no I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to hold a grudge. I used to but not anymore.

If I have an argument with someone I tend to forget about and move on now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll sometimes try to find out why.

The politics here is complicated and they're often misled.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not met any bad ones here yet, but in life, i do yes, people often have problems they don't show or anyone knows about, id want a second chance...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How nasty are we talking and no I don't."

Oh and by the way. Going to have a wank at about 8ish tonight, can you unhide your profile before then please?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't tend to hold a grudge. I used to but not anymore.

If I have an argument with someone I tend to forget about and move on now"

Forgot about Swindon fo sho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they get blocked regardless

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"If someone is nasty to you on here. Do you give them a second chance?"

Yes. I usually tell them off and they apologise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How nasty are we talking and no I don't.

Oh and by the way. Going to have a wank at about 8ish tonight, can you unhide your profile before then please?

Thanks "

I'll go for the 8.30 slot if that's ok... ...wait that's like sloppy seconds, can I go first ...?

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"If someone is nasty to you on here. Do you give them a second chance?"

On the forums or nasty by sending abusive messages? On the forums we would just tend to ignore, we’re not argumentative and we realise that not everyone will share our tastes and opinions. If somebody goes out of their way to send us an abusive or derogatory message ( which has happened ) then we will just block them. Thankfully that’s only happened twice though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll get the odd nasty inbox message. I just delete and block.

I'm not going to let a keyboard warrior upset my day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't tend to hold a grudge. I used to but not anymore.

If I have an argument with someone I tend to forget about and move on now

Forgot about Swindon fo sho! "

Look, for the last time, I haven't forgot about Swindon, I just don't see why I have to put all the effort in to making it happen!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It depends. Language is often misinterpreted, dynamics are also. I tend to ask for clarification so I'm not in any doubt. Humour is subjective at the best of times. If they are without any shadow of a doubt nasty to me, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, cannot be doing with drama in life let alone on Fab. The block stays

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

If it is personally nasty, then I block.

If its opinion differences then that's fine, people have off days and mistakes happen

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Depends on the degree of nastiness and whether there's any justification to such idiocy

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Define nasty. I like a bit of nasty sometimes.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I just ignore can't be doing with drama queens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, cannot be doing with drama in life let alone on Fab. The block stays

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Glad to see your pics back my love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just ignore can't be doing with drama queens"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't tend to hold a grudge. I used to but not anymore.

If I have an argument with someone I tend to forget about and move on now

Forgot about Swindon fo sho!

Look, for the last time, I haven't forgot about Swindon, I just don't see why I have to put all the effort in to making it happen!"

So there's no next time in Swindon then? Going out with a bang???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't tend to hold a grudge. I used to but not anymore.

If I have an argument with someone I tend to forget about and move on now

Forgot about Swindon fo sho!

Look, for the last time, I haven't forgot about Swindon, I just don't see why I have to put all the effort in to making it happen!

So there's no next time in Swindon then? Going out with a bang???"

Me, you and LucieJo are definitely having a bang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in the 10 years I’ve been on here I someone has said something nasty to me about 3 times. I’ve had I’ll informed criticism a few more times but still only a handful and one thing I could call a drama. I get blocked quite a bit but not because I’ve been nasty or horrible. I have said things that may have annoyed others. When I believe I have been wrong in things I’ve said I’ve apologised.where I could.

The nasty things that have been said have all come from men who felt rejected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't speak to 90% the forumites if that was the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, cannot be doing with drama in life let alone on Fab. The block stays

Glad to see your pics back my love "

Thank you

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By *ensualbicock OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

They're blocked Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone is nasty to you on here. Do you give them a second chance?"

It depends on what you define as nasty? People often have strong opinions which may differ or disagree with? People may mis-read a post to take things personally.

As in texts, emails or forum posts may be difficult to express the intent which leaves open for mis-interpretation. There are those who like being the centre of attention and don't like anything that detracts from that.

People just simply get impatient of the same old same old posts, sometimes that reflects.

Then you have those that are genuinely nasty usually cos they think the are under personal attack.

Only the individuals can decide and can't put and general rules on the reactions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't speak to 90% the forumites if that was the case "

90% of forum users have been nasty to you?

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

i havent come across anyone in the forums ive wanted to block. Anyone that has been nasty have been in messages after i declined them. straight on the block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't speak to 90% the forumites if that was the case

90% of forum users have been nasty to you?"

Yes roughly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i havent come across anyone in the forums ive wanted to block. Anyone that has been nasty have been in messages after i declined them. straight on the block list. "

Thats a lie. Why have you blocked me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the definition of nasty to be honest. I tend to brush off most things anyway.

But if a beautiful buxom lady who has been particularly nasty to me suddenly appears in my DMs asking for a meet then I'll make sure to bring along my reportoire of punishment toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't speak to 90% the forumites if that was the case

90% of forum users have been nasty to you?

Yes roughly"

I guess we have different definitions of nasty then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some times could have been a bad day but others just plane bug me so with them its unlikely but im sure i bug folks too iv butted heads with a few but most iv forgotten who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the person so can be arsed, I’ll attempt to get to the bottom of the comment. If it’s a random dick pic dude I block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't speak to 90% the forumites if that was the case

90% of forum users have been nasty to you?

Yes roughly

I guess we have different definitions of nasty then"

Must be

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"How nasty are we talking and no I don't.

Oh and by the way. Going to have a wank at about 8ish tonight, can you unhide your profile before then please?

Thanks

I'll go for the 8.30 slot if that's ok... ...wait that's like sloppy seconds, can I go first ...? "

Nothing wrong with sloppy seconds.

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Never. Damage done....

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"i havent come across anyone in the forums ive wanted to block. Anyone that has been nasty have been in messages after i declined them. straight on the block list.

Thats a lie. Why have you blocked me?"

Lol that's a lie.

Ur not blocked

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"If someone is nasty to you on here. Do you give them a second chance?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i havent come across anyone in the forums ive wanted to block. Anyone that has been nasty have been in messages after i declined them. straight on the block list.

Thats a lie. Why have you blocked me?

Lol that's a lie.

Ur not blocked "

Made you look though, did you like what you saw

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By *an from UncleMan
over a year ago

ml1


"If someone is nasty to you on here. Do you give them a second chance?"
i find the best solution is to track them down and kill them saves the block list getting out of hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone is nasty to you on here. Do you give them a second chance?

Yes. I usually tell them off and they apologise."

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"i havent come across anyone in the forums ive wanted to block. Anyone that has been nasty have been in messages after i declined them. straight on the block list.

Thats a lie. Why have you blocked me?

Lol that's a lie.

Ur not blocked

Made you look though, did you like what you saw "

I did. Thank you for asking xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked people who were previously on my hotlist just because of the attitudes they've shown. I'm sure it's probably happened to me too. C'est la vie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"If someone is nasty to you on here. Do you give them a second chance?"

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Maybe I'm lucky, no one is nasty to me

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By *he_massangerMan
over a year ago

Stornoway

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone is nasty to you on here. Do you give them a second chance?"
no if they can be that once they can be that again, its a nature thing........ in the workplace you have to forgive but you never trust that person

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

When I first joined many moons ago I received a vile message out of the blue from a local female. Blocked her but remembered her user name. Fast forward a few years and we bump into each other in a club. It was definitely her issue and a touch of the green eyed monster. Some people have real issues and this isn't a healthy place for them. Instant block now and feel sorry for their pathetic lives.

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

Nope, I have no interest in giving my time and patience to an unpleasant stranger. You say something needlessly nasty to me, I'm a-blockin' without hesitation.

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