FabSwingers.com forum: Stop or go

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop.... I'm a gentleman

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Continue.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Stop and exhibit the GMF charm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ever seen The Hitcher?

I'm getting the fuck out of there!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happening across a fox on a country road one dark night resulted in me writing off my car once!!!

Peddle to the metal!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?"

I’d probably stop regardless if they were hot or not. I helped a guy changed a his tyre at the side of the road about a month ago on my way home from a motorsports event. Was about 11pm. He was struggling and I had tools in my car that helped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would stop and see if all was ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stop.... I'm a gentleman

Would not be afraid there would be more hiding in the Bush somewhere.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Keep going. Heard about too much dodgy stuff that can happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

speed up and keep going - always been told never stop as it could be a hijack attempt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop.... I'm a gentleman

Would not be afraid there would be more hiding in the Bush somewhere."

It’s a risk you take but I’ve got a conscience and I’d feel bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You ever seen The Hitcher?

I'm getting the fuck out of there!!!"

This. No way would I stop ...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Stop.... I'm a gentleman

Would not be afraid there would be more hiding in the Bush somewhere."

Is this in Australia then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (her) wouldn't stop, but I would inform the police once I am in a safe zone.

Sorry it's not a very sexy response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can totally understand why people would just drive by and wouldn’t judge them. I’m confident enough that I’d be able to handle myself and I’d rather it was me than somebody else if something dodgy was going on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Keep going. Heard about too much dodgy stuff that can happen"

What would you do if you later found out that person was dead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can totally understand why people would just drive by and wouldn’t judge them. I’m confident enough that I’d be able to handle myself and I’d rather it was me than somebody else if something dodgy was going on. "

What if you come up against someone with a knife or gun?

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Stop, Last year an elderly guy who had obviously broken down in the middle of nowhere. I stopped and he gladly accept the offer of a lift home.

A couple of weeks ago I nearly ran into a kid cycling along a busy main road while it was dark. I stopped and after I calmed down I said to him if you don't want to die "you better put the bike in the back of my van and I'll take you home"

It could have been awkward but I wouldn't have forgiven myself if anything had happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you come up against someone with a knife or gun?"
well I’m in the shit but I’d still risk it. What if they don’t and somebody turns up who does?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

This seems like a bit of a random subject OP, have you had any bad experiences by picking up strangers that would cause you to post this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately situations like these could be used as bait for robbery and car theft.

I’ve come across similar situations in the past and never stop the first time passing. I’ll generally turn around and drive past again for a better look once I’ve had chance to see a bit further up the road.

If all else fails, ring the none emergency police and report it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What if you come up against someone with a knife or gun? well I’m in the shit but I’d still risk it. What if they don’t and somebody turns up who does? "

True

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?"

without thinking about it ...I say stop and help. I'd hope I'd not regret that decision

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Stop, Last year an elderly guy who had obviously broken down in the middle of nowhere. I stopped and he gladly accept the offer of a lift home.

It could have been awkward but I wouldn't have forgiven myself if anything had happened. "

Its good to be good. It means lot to someone if they are in trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?

without thinking about it ...I say stop and help. I'd hope I'd not regret that decision"

Same. It’s a calculated risk. Weigh up the risks and decide if you are prepared to act. Most times I would. It’s that simple for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely stop . Never see a damsel in distress

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've been known to stop and help people.

Even given lifts to hitchhikers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?"

Hot or not, I would offer them help. That is the right thing to do I guess. Humanity prevails!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop.... I'm a gentleman

Would not be afraid there would be more hiding in the Bush somewhere.

Is this in Australia then?

Penge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?"
i stop and ask if shes ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?i stop and ask if shes ok

And what if it is a him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p7Sl0wMz95w

Moby - Go - YouTube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?i stop and ask if shes ok

And what if it is a him

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if he's in trouble i help him, wouldn't we all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?i stop and ask if shes ok

And what if it is a him

if he's in trouble i help him, wouldn't we all?

And what is she is not in trouble? What if she went for a late night walk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?i stop and ask if shes ok

And what if it is a him

if he's in trouble i help him, wouldn't we all?

And what is she is not in trouble? What if she went for a late night walk

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ahhhh but she looked like she needed help, i would only be asking remember lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?i stop and ask if shes ok

And what if it is a him

if he's in trouble i help him, wouldn't we all?

And what is she is not in trouble? What if she went for a late night walk

ahhhh but she looked like she needed help, i would only be asking remember lol

Lol..And they say gender inequality still exists!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?i stop and ask if shes ok

And what if it is a him

if he's in trouble i help him, wouldn't we all?

And what is she is not in trouble? What if she went for a late night walk

ahhhh but she looked like she needed help, i would only be asking remember lol

Lol..And they say gender inequality still exists!

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hey if you met me you'd understand........ i chat to everyone lol but attractive women especially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?i stop and ask if shes ok

And what if it is a him

if he's in trouble i help him, wouldn't we all?

And what is she is not in trouble? What if she went for a late night walk

ahhhh but she looked like she needed help, i would only be asking remember lol

Lol..And they say gender inequality still exists!

hey if you met me you'd understand........ i chat to everyone lol but attractive women especially

I wouldn't think otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?i stop and ask if shes ok

And what if it is a him

if he's in trouble i help him, wouldn't we all?

And what is she is not in trouble? What if she went for a late night walk

ahhhh but she looked like she needed help, i would only be asking remember lol

Lol..And they say gender inequality still exists!

hey if you met me you'd understand........ i chat to everyone lol but attractive women especially

I wouldn't think otherwise

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I'm a serial flirt but never in a disrespectful way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough one this as this could be a car jacking does the person look distressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?i stop and ask if shes ok

And what if it is a him

if he's in trouble i help him, wouldn't we all?

And what is she is not in trouble? What if she went for a late night walk

ahhhh but she looked like she needed help, i would only be asking remember lol

Lol..And they say gender inequality still exists!

hey if you met me you'd understand........ i chat to everyone lol but attractive women especially

I wouldn't think otherwise

I'm a serial flirt but never in a disrespectful way

I just discovered the same about me after joining fab.lol.

Well, I did flirt with an Air New Zealand air hostess on my flight the other day. She was Welsh. That was my first flirting in the real world. She gave me her number and and email address while I was collecting my luggage. Fab helped me discover a skill that I didnt know existed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?i stop and ask if shes ok

And what if it is a him

if he's in trouble i help him, wouldn't we all?

And what is she is not in trouble? What if she went for a late night walk

ahhhh but she looked like she needed help, i would only be asking remember lol

Lol..And they say gender inequality still exists!

hey if you met me you'd understand........ i chat to everyone lol but attractive women especially

I wouldn't think otherwise

I'm a serial flirt but never in a disrespectful way

I just discovered the same about me after joining fab.lol.

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lol see its that easy and this is the real world all fab is is an internet domain that furthers a life choice style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?i stop and ask if shes ok

And what if it is a him

if he's in trouble i help him, wouldn't we all?

And what is she is not in trouble? What if she went for a late night walk

ahhhh but she looked like she needed help, i would only be asking remember lol

Lol..And they say gender inequality still exists!

hey if you met me you'd understand........ i chat to everyone lol but attractive women especially

I wouldn't think otherwise

I'm a serial flirt but never in a disrespectful way

I just discovered the same about me after joining fab.lol.

lol see its that easy and this is the real world all fab is is an internet domain that furthers a life choice style

Easy or not. Agree with you on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past I've done both, it really depend all the circumstances surrounding the event, if it feels legit then I'd stop Male or female, if anything at all feels wrong then I'd carry one and phone 101 to get them some professional help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it raining?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Is it raining? "

Don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s all about context with this one. “You’re driving alone on a country lane at night”... it’s the stuff of horror films innit? It never ends well.... (or maybe I’ve just watched too many .....)

If on the other hand it had said “you’re driving through a town in the daytime and someone needed help....” well, yeah. I’d stop to help anyone if I felt safe myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eyes are on the road not the speed bumps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it’s all about context with this one. “You’re driving alone on a country lane at night”... it’s the stuff of horror films innit? It never ends well.... (or maybe I’ve just watched too many .....)

If on the other hand it had said “you’re driving through a town in the daytime and someone needed help....” well, yeah. I’d stop to help anyone if I felt safe myself.

If it is anything like horror films, you stop or not, they will be sitting behind staring at you and you see them through your mirrors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t drive

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Run them over, nobody would know it was me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If on the other hand it had said “you’re driving through a town in the daytime and someone needed help....” well, yeah. I’d stop to help anyone if I felt safe myself.

If it is anything like horror films, you stop or not, they will be sitting behind staring at you and you see them through your mirrors

True!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If on the other hand it had said “you’re driving through a town in the daytime and someone needed help....” well, yeah. I’d stop to help anyone if I felt safe myself.

If it is anything like horror films, you stop or not, they will be sitting behind staring at you and you see them through your mirrors

True!

Sorry! Hope you sleep well tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go. And call police and say I think someone needs help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tough one this as this could be a car jacking does the person look distressed "

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I have stopped in the past in this situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?

Hot or not, I would offer them help. That is the right thing to do I guess. Humanity prevails!

Good way to be.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Go. And call police and say I think someone needs help "

This.

I have stopped & helped people before, but I'm far to wary nowadays x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go. And call police and say I think someone needs help

This.

I have stopped & helped people before, but I'm far to wary nowadays x"

Same

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Go. And call police and say I think someone needs help

This.

I have stopped & helped people before, but I'm far to wary nowadays x"

This

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've been in this situation (only with a random guy who wasn't particularly hot but was staggering around and was clearly confused) and I've stopped.

He wasn't making a huge amount of sense but was obviously quite distressed, it was on the Corwen road at 9 at night, pitch black, nobody else to help.

Turned out he'd crashed his car just round the next bend.

Ended up calling the emergency services and sitting with him until they arrived.

Yes he could've been a d*unk or it could've been a carjacking, but I don't think trouble happens as often as people needing help happens. Dumb or not I'm probably going to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would and have stopped many times over the years, regardless of age, gender or hotness.

Would I be weary more nowadays? Probably, but it wouldn't stop me from helping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been in this situation (only with a random guy who wasn't particularly hot but was staggering around and was clearly confused) and I've stopped.

He wasn't making a huge amount of sense but was obviously quite distressed, it was on the Corwen road at 9 at night, pitch black, nobody else to help.

Turned out he'd crashed his car just round the next bend.

Ended up calling the emergency services and sitting with him until they arrived.

Yes he could've been a d*unk or it could've been a carjacking, but I don't think trouble happens as often as people needing help happens. Dumb or not I'm probably going to stop."

So good!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?"

Well as I don't drive I'm probably the guy walking home in the dark from work after a late shift as I missed the last train/bus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot or not, man or woman, person clearly in trouble, I stop, even though I might take the precaution of a drive by first and even a quick call to Plod if it looks that dodgy....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Go. And call police and say I think someone needs help

This.

I have stopped & helped people before, but I'm far to wary nowadays x

Same

With the way things are today I think we all have to be wary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d stop and ask whoever it was. Not just if I fancied them but I would be wary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it looks like she's in need of a jump...

But i always stop regardless of hotness, that's just the kind of guy i am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go. And call police and say I think someone needs help

This.

I have stopped & helped people before, but I'm far to wary nowadays x

Same

With the way things are today I think we all have to be wary

I also think there’ll naturally be a difference in willingness between the sexes... i.e. a man by himself stopping for a woman would likely feel safer than a woman by herself stopping for a man...

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I don't mean to be sexist, but I'd hate to think any lady would stop and get out to help.

You hear so many bad stories.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Your driving alone on a country road in the middle of the night. You see a hot young women or guy. They look like the need help. Do you stop or stay going?"

Do you need help OP?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I’d stop of course. Offer him or her some warm coffee and something warm to wear from my special bag and then take him or her to her destination. I is a gentle person you know If he or she turns out to be a physco knife welding cunt I’d whip out my machete and say mines bigger than yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Go. And call police and say I think someone needs help

This.

I have stopped & helped people before, but I'm far to wary nowadays x

Same

With the way things are today I think we all have to be wary

I also think there’ll naturally be a difference in willingness between the sexes... i.e. a man by himself stopping for a woman would likely feel safer than a woman by herself stopping for a man... "

This is actually very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go. And call police and say I think someone needs help

This.

I have stopped & helped people before, but I'm far to wary nowadays x

Same

With the way things are today I think we all have to be wary

I also think there’ll naturally be a difference in willingness between the sexes... i.e. a man by himself stopping for a woman would likely feel safer than a woman by herself stopping for a man...

This is actually very true."

..and perfectly understandable. Just call Plod..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop I'm a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Go. And call police and say I think someone needs help

This.

I have stopped & helped people before, but I'm far to wary nowadays x

Same

With the way things are today I think we all have to be wary

I also think there’ll naturally be a difference in willingness between the sexes... i.e. a man by himself stopping for a woman would likely feel safer than a woman by herself stopping for a man...

This is actually very true.

..and perfectly understandable. Just call Plod.."

What's plod?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go. And call police and say I think someone needs help

This.

I have stopped & helped people before, but I'm far to wary nowadays x

Same

With the way things are today I think we all have to be wary

I also think there’ll naturally be a difference in willingness between the sexes... i.e. a man by himself stopping for a woman would likely feel safer than a woman by herself stopping for a man...

This is actually very true.

..and perfectly understandable. Just call Plod..

What's plod?"

The police

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Go. And call police and say I think someone needs help

This.

I have stopped & helped people before, but I'm far to wary nowadays x

Same

With the way things are today I think we all have to be wary

I also think there’ll naturally be a difference in willingness between the sexes... i.e. a man by himself stopping for a woman would likely feel safer than a woman by herself stopping for a man...

This is actually very true.

..and perfectly understandable. Just call Plod..

What's plod?

The police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often been tempted to stop and help if I see someone broken down but these days some people read so much into things, I'm afraid of being accused of something.

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By *dmundwilsonMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

as a hitch hiker myself i always stop. never had any trouble but never had any propositions either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've often been tempted to stop and help if I see someone broken down but these days some people read so much into things, I'm afraid of being accused of something."

I didn't think if this from this point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not a chance. It isn't worth the risk. I'd ring 101 and let them know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope, not a chance. It isn't worth the risk. I'd ring 101 and let them know.

Yah a good idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"as a hitch hiker myself i always stop. never had any trouble but never had any propositions either.

Lucky you.

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