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By *ackinabox19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Intrigue to know if couples look for friendship or just sex with potential meets ??

Personally I want more of a mental connection and a greater understanding of each other ( all 3 )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intrigue to know if couples look for friendship or just sex with potential meets ??

Personally I want more of a mental connection and a greater understanding of each other ( all 3 ) "

Just sex if we're playing as a couple. We're friendly and welcoming but we don't want a connection.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We look for both and still see two guys that we first met 4 and 6 years ago but due to some folks not understanding how swinging really works (and even more important to us, how swinging couples work) most don't get invited back for round two never mind a long term friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We look for both and still see two guys that we first met 4 and 6 years ago but due to some folks not understanding how swinging really works (and even more important to us, how swinging couples work) most don't get invited back for round two never mind a long term friendship."

Do you mind my asking what problems you've had? It's totally cool if you'd rather not say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intrigue to know if couples look for friendship or just sex with potential meets ??

Personally I want more of a mental connection and a greater understanding of each other ( all 3 ) "

To be honest as a couple it's just sex but if we were single then probably more of a mental connection

Ms D

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


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Do you mind my asking what problems you've had? It's totally cool if you'd rather not say. "

We've met some couples that weren't singing from the same hymn sheet and a few guys that could talk the talk when messaging but when it came to play showed a different side to their nature. Nowhere to hide when you're naked I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Do you mind my asking what problems you've had? It's totally cool if you'd rather not say.

We've met some couples that weren't singing from the same hymn sheet and a few guys that could talk the talk when messaging but when it came to play showed a different side to their nature. Nowhere to hide when you're naked I guess."

We've found meeting couples problematic. Other than a few where nerves got the better of them we've mostly been fine with single guys, certainly never had one play up. But he's 6ft 2 and pretty big and scary looking.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"We look for both and still see two guys that we first met 4 and 6 years ago but due to some folks not understanding how swinging really works (and even more important to us, how swinging couples work) most don't get invited back for round two never mind a long term friendship."

Yeh I know what you mean....shame really.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If a friendship developed naturally we'd go with it. So far it hasn't happened

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We're looking for friends and we're open to having a sexual relationship with them. We don't really want to have sex with people we wouldn't want to see socially.

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

I only do friends with benefits. Casual sex isn't for me. I recently re-joined and was lucky enough to find someone I have connected with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on here as a couple we became good friends with a couple we met originally just for sex. Wasn’t planned that way, was just supposed to be a couple we had fun with. We see them socially now, it’s just sort of evolved into a platonic friendship.

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By *hite SnakeMan
over a year ago

leeds

Bit of both had some great one off meetings and also met and become good friends with some too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We look for both and still see two guys that we first met 4 and 6 years ago but due to some folks not understanding how swinging really works (and even more important to us, how swinging couples work) most don't get invited back for round two never mind a long term friendship."

How does swinging really work?

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By *ackinabox19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Thanks for all the comments and getting involved, it’s really interesting and I guess it’s gives me hope that I’m not looking for something that doesn’t exist on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely the best of both. Preferably regulars. With only the ones who respect boundaries & one another's relationship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not both

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Sex is always better when you have a mental connection. Just saying

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

If I'm meeting alone I look for a connection if I'm meeting a couple with my fwb its just sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet for either , always good to make new friends , aleays good to make friends that you can have sex with, happy either way

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Just sex..dont want or need any more friends, keep vanilla life and Swinging separate

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"Just sex..dont want or need any more friends, keep vanilla life and Swinging separate "

I've many friends from the swinging life we do lots together normal stuff I wdnt keep them separate

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By *ackinabox19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I always need a mental connection just as much as being psychically attracted to my potential meet. I

Understand not everyone is the same but I’d not change my mindset on this under any circumstances. In reference to chatting and meeting a couple having a good rapport with mr is a must. I understand that I’d be the extra in the fun if things progressed

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