FabSwingers.com forum: Timewasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tis a pity we can’t name and shame eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been given a opportunity

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I don’t understand the thing about time wasters on here and I think men should do what they say and appreciate appreciate the opportunity to meet because they come few and far between for us men on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s terrible. Time and fuel costs wasted.

Happens way more than it should do.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"It’s terrible. Time and fuel costs wasted.

Happens way more than it should do. "

I hope you have reported the profile.

That's all we can do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s terrible. Time and fuel costs wasted.

Happens way more than it should do.

I hope you have reported the profile.

That's all we can do."

You can do that for timewasters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s terrible. Time and fuel costs wasted.

Happens way more than it should do. "

Maybe you need to rethink how you go about things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its happened to me three times in the past week, getting annoying now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s terrible. Time and fuel costs wasted.

Happens way more than it should do.

I hope you have reported the profile.

That's all we can do.

You can do that for timewasters?"

Only no shows. Everybody's definition of a timewaster seems to be different though.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"It’s terrible. Time and fuel costs wasted.

Happens way more than it should do.

I hope you have reported the profile.

That's all we can do.

You can do that for timewasters?"

Oh yes.

Go to his/her profile.

Click "report user" on the left corner.

Choose "arranged meet but did not turn up"

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By *udewhennudeMan
over a year ago

newport

"I don’t understand the thing about time wasters on here and I think men should do what they say and appreciate appreciate the opportunity to meet because they come few and far between for us men on here "

Why do you think it’s only men who are time wasters?

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

It’s hard enough for men to get a meet so I’ve no idea why they would bottle it and not show.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s terrible. Time and fuel costs wasted.

Happens way more than it should do.

Maybe you need to rethink how you go about things "

I did. Messaged them. Spoke to them. Went to their house. No one home. No response to messages. Did everything I could do.

Didn’t just turn up blind without no prior contact.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It’s terrible. Time and fuel costs wasted.

Happens way more than it should do.

I hope you have reported the profile.

That's all we can do.

You can do that for timewasters?

Oh yes.

Go to his/her profile.

Click "report user" on the left corner.

Choose "arranged meet but did not turn up""

And that is the only reason you can report them for, not stopping a chat or going quiet before meeting etc.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

You can do that for timewasters?

Only no shows. Everybody's definition of a timewaster seems to be different though. "

My definition of a timewaster:

Someone who arranged and confirmed a meet, but didn't turn up, without informing the other party. (up to the agreed time)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s terrible. Time and fuel costs wasted.

Happens way more than it should do.

I hope you have reported the profile.

That's all we can do.

You can do that for timewasters?

Oh yes.

Go to his/her profile.

Click "report user" on the left corner.

Choose "arranged meet but did not turn up""

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes life on fab harder for the genuine guys who actually are reliable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I go to meet a new man I think "Is this the one who is going to be a no show, or has sent me on a wild goose chase".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s terrible. Time and fuel costs wasted.

Happens way more than it should do.

Maybe you need to rethink how you go about things

I did. Messaged them. Spoke to them. Went to their house. No one home. No response to messages. Did everything I could do.

Didn’t just turn up blind without no prior contact. "

I meant if it's happening to you often

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s terrible. Time and fuel costs wasted.

Happens way more than it should do.

Maybe you need to rethink how you go about things

I did. Messaged them. Spoke to them. Went to their house. No one home. No response to messages. Did everything I could do.

Didn’t just turn up blind without no prior contact.

I meant if it's happening to you often "

Not often as I can’t meet often, but it just seems to be happening more times than not. Oh well. Think I might just meet at clubs instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Makes life on fab harder for the genuine guys who actually are reliable. "

I agree!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Every time I go to meet a new man I think "Is this the one who is going to be a no show, or has sent me on a wild goose chase"."

It’s frustrating ain’t it. Fair pisses me off

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Tis a pity we can’t name and shame eh!"

We’ve said the same.... same for people that have misrepresented themselves too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s terrible. Time and fuel costs wasted.

Happens way more than it should do.

I hope you have reported the profile.

That's all we can do.

You can do that for timewasters?

Oh yes.

Go to his/her profile.

Click "report user" on the left corner.

Choose "arranged meet but did not turn up"

And that is the only reason you can report them for, not stopping a chat or going quiet before meeting etc. "

What happens when you report them? Do they get a message from admin?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tis a pity we can’t name and shame eh!

We’ve said the same.... same for people that have misrepresented themselves too!"

I’ve reported that in the past. Clearly not used their own photos when FaceTimed to confirm who they are. Or my fave, really old photos of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes life on fab harder for the genuine guys who actually are reliable. "
never made life hard for me didnt affect me ever

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

"Makes life on fab harder for the genuine guys who actually are reliable.

never made life hard for me didnt affect me ever"

Same, guys on this site love to find excuses for not gettin meets lol

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We get a lot of havent read the profile type time wasters

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Tis a pity we can’t name and shame eh!

We’ve said the same.... same for people that have misrepresented themselves too!

I’ve reported that in the past. Clearly not used their own photos when FaceTimed to confirm who they are. Or my fave, really old photos of them. "

We turned up at a pub once and we’re stood next to who we were meeting and didn’t recognise them! Lol I asked how old they were (profile stated 45 & 47) and when they said 55 &57 (and obviously had had hard paper rounds) I pointed out that’s not what’s on fab and their reply was ‘well everyone lies on Fab’ I do wonder how successful people are when they lie about something so basic....

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By *udewhennudeMan
over a year ago

newport

"Makes life on fab harder for the genuine guys who actually are reliable. never made life hard for me didnt affect me ever"

Nor me, if it’s having an adverse effect on me, then I can’t say I’ve noticed.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I only believe people are going to turn up when they are stood in front of me. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes life on fab harder for the genuine guys who actually are reliable. "

No, they make it harder for themselves and make the decent ones stand out more if anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tis a pity we can’t name and shame eh!

We’ve said the same.... same for people that have misrepresented themselves too!

I’ve reported that in the past. Clearly not used their own photos when FaceTimed to confirm who they are. Or my fave, really old photos of them.

It is simple really ain’t it. But I know folks lower the age or up the age to get into age brackets.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Tis a pity we can’t name and shame eh!"

I can see that point of view, but it is fraught with danger for us all.

Report and block is the best way, I was reported for being a time waster by a couple I had been chatting to who invited me to a party …. In Plymouth starting three hours after the invite (I am at least 7 hours drive away on a good day) and when I declined reported me for timewasting !

it would be easy to name and shame when needed but just as easy to lie !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can report it. Not sure how seriously those are taken though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes life on fab harder for the genuine guys who actually are reliable. never made life hard for me didnt affect me ever

Nor me, if it’s having an adverse effect on me, then I can’t say I’ve noticed."

I think those that have read my post have taken this in totally the wrong way so I'll clarify.

Due to the amount of time wasters, dreamers and fakes that tend to be men, makes the single guy profile one to be viewed with suspension, I know this as I'm on here with my wife as a couple and the amount of unreliable men that have wasted our time leave you with a bad taste in your mouth and very wary of the next contact you get.

Just because you've not felt any adverse effect from this doesn't meant it doesn't happen. If people were more realistic and honest then the whole experience for everyone would be better. I hope this clarifies it for those that took my post as just moaning. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be honest. I'm surprised they exist.

It's difficult to get that click and meet so when getting the opportunity why pass it up?

Madness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Makes life on fab harder for the genuine guys who actually are reliable. "

No they make it harder for themselves and make the decent ones stand out more.

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Tis a pity we can’t name and shame eh!"
you can on your profile txt,

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Why do you think it’s only men who are time wasters?"

Well obviously it go’s both ways

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"It’s terrible. Time and fuel costs wasted.

Happens way more than it should do.

Maybe you need to rethink how you go about things

I did. Messaged them. Spoke to them. Went to their house. No one home. No response to messages. Did everything I could do.

Didn’t just turn up blind without no prior contact.

I meant if it's happening to you often

Not often as I can’t meet often, but it just seems to be happening more times than not. Oh well. Think I might just meet at clubs instead. "

Don’t let him put you off OP. There is always good ones and bad ones. Otherwise the world would not have a balance

And just to add I would not waste time with you

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Tis a pity we can’t name and shame eh! you can on your profile txt,

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You can't

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Report is the best option

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