FabSwingers.com forum: When the wife catches you out

By *inkerbell67 OP Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

Had a phone call yesterday witch i thought was from a very close fab friend who ive known for a long time ,so i answered it a female spoke and was polite at first ,then she asked "why have i got her husband's number " i blocked the number then a call from another number, it was her again asking why her husband was texting me about having sex ,i blocked that number as well ... anybody had a wife call them or husband,,...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouch! No, thankfully. Sounds awful... hope it pans out ok...

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

A wife, years ago. Told her it was their problem to sort out.... I didnt know he was married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, looks like you have some talent. He has good taste. Was that him in your video?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a phone call yesterday witch i thought was from a very close fab friend who ive known for a long time ,so i answered it a female spoke and was polite at first ,then she asked "why have i got her husband's number " i blocked the number then a call from another number, it was her again asking why her husband was texting me about having sex ,i blocked that number as well ... anybody had a wife call them or husband,,...

Did you not know that he was married?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, it's not fun or nice, but sadly part of the course and a risk we take when people choose to be dishonest. Sorry you had to go through this, I hope you're ok.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I had a wife message me asking if a certain profile had been in contact with me. He had, we were chatting about meeting. Turns out he was her husband and they used to have a joint profile, but he was back with a secret single one. She was lovely, he got blocked.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I had something similar. Had a wee kiss on a night out and exchanged numbers. My friends and I went on somewhere else (he was working at the first place) and some gentle texting continues through the evening. Next day I start getting calls and texts from the wife. He’d told me he was single. It was awful, and I felt horrific.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, it's not fun or nice, but sadly part of the course and a risk we take when people choose to be dishonest. Sorry you had to go through this, I hope you're ok."

She's not gone through anything apart from been caught out, not exactly something to feel sorry for her about

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Yeah, it's not fun or nice, but sadly part of the course and a risk we take when people choose to be dishonest. Sorry you had to go through this, I hope you're ok.

She's not gone through anything apart from been caught out, not exactly something to feel sorry for her about "

We don't know if she was aware he was married or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, it's not fun or nice, but sadly part of the course and a risk we take when people choose to be dishonest. Sorry you had to go through this, I hope you're ok.

She's not gone through anything apart from been caught out, not exactly something to feel sorry for her about "

Depends if she already knew there was a wife. If she didn’t, she’s been lied to as much as his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I hung up on them and blocked the number... and the person I'd been chatting to. Not my problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, it's not fun or nice, but sadly part of the course and a risk we take when people choose to be dishonest. Sorry you had to go through this, I hope you're ok.

She's not gone through anything apart from been caught out, not exactly something to feel sorry for her about

We don't know if she was aware he was married or not. "

True enough.

OP, did you know he was married or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s really bad and shouldn’t happen! Why cannot people just be honest and do things the right way.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Years ago... He told me he was single,she phoned me and told me he is not and she was leaving with their baby.

I was very upset but admitted nothing.

He even tried to get in touch again and said he was/is single and the woman who phoned me is a fantasist.

I didn't believe him.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Yes...had a raging wife call me at 3am... luckily, I could genuinely say I'd never met him.. just chatted, and he was the one advertising himself as single and able to accommodate... when she was nightshift...

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By *inkerbell67 OP Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

He didnt even have a girlfriend when we met ,he was my first fab meet ,we became good friends ,its his problem now he should have deleted my number when he got married ..if you play away you get your fingers burnt ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats the trouble on fab. I admit in my profile that im married. If people wont meet married men then so so. I cant blame them. But i also make sure nobody else on fab will get hurt

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

ya I had a wife call, it was odd as I told her no affair just casual sex etc. we ended up friends

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We have a fab phone that we use "if" we give a number (rare). Its turned off unless we're on our way to meet the person we've given it to. If there's a problem we could chuck the sim away and get a new one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He didnt even have a girlfriend when we met ,he was my first fab meet ,we became good friends ,its his problem now he should have deleted my number when he got married ..if you play away you get your fingers burnt .."

I would say that if you behave inappropriately with another woman's husband (without her knowing) then you also risk to get your finger burnt.

I don't think you can really complain that the furious wife contacted you. You also had the power to cut him off and did not choose to.

In the place where I grew up, it is the mistress that is stripped naked and beaten and has her hair cut off when the affair is discovered..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that if you behave inappropriately with another woman's husband (without her knowing) then you also risk to get your finger burnt.

I don't think you can really complain that the furious wife contacted you. You also had the power to cut him off and did not choose to.

In the place where I grew up, it is the mistress that is stripped naked and beaten and has her hair cut off when the affair is discovered.. "

Ahh that's ok then!!??

Of course it takes 2 to tango. But in fairness to the OP she just posed the question?

In a world where you can punch someone in the face and face relatively little punishment, I dont think we should explore the notion that such actions are worth referring to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that if you behave inappropriately with another woman's husband (without her knowing) then you also risk to get your finger burnt.

I don't think you can really complain that the furious wife contacted you. You also had the power to cut him off and did not choose to.

In the place where I grew up, it is the mistress that is stripped naked and beaten and has her hair cut off when the affair is discovered..

Ahh that's ok then!!??

Of course it takes 2 to tango. But in fairness to the OP she just posed the question?

In a world where you can punch someone in the face and face relatively little punishment, I dont think we should explore the notion that such actions are worth referring to."

I don't think we should explore the notion that they aren't.

It was just an example. I was not suggesting that it be practiced here.

The op is free to do whatever she likes but she should accept that the wife concerned may have a different view as to her blame in the matter.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I would die, that's the main reason I can never quite get round to meeting even the hottest guys who turn out to be attached.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"That’s really bad and shouldn’t happen! Why cannot people just be honest and do things the right way. "

Some assume they won’t be caught!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Get a fuck phone.

Sometimes the men tell the wife for the fun of it.

Sometimes the wife wants to be told for the fun of it.

That's their kink....

They are not always unaware..... that's one way they get your number. It's given.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Sometimes the bloke asks a woman friend to pretend to be a wife ........

Don't worry about it. You broke no laws.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s really bad and shouldn’t happen! Why cannot people just be honest and do things the right way.

Some assume they won’t be caught!

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Yes the stupidity of not realising what means most until it’s gone, that is why we have a couples profile so it’s in the open and talked about.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I would say that if you behave inappropriately with another woman's husband (without her knowing) then you also risk to get your finger burnt.

I don't think you can really complain that the furious wife contacted you. You also had the power to cut him off and did not choose to.

In the place where I grew up, it is the mistress that is stripped naked and beaten and has her hair cut off when the affair is discovered.. "

Do there still be witches there paid below the national minimum ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you thought it was from a very close friend, wouldn't you have her number saved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if you cheat or enable cheaters what do you expect, hope it works out for you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Get a fuck phone.

Sometimes the men tell the wife for the fun of it.

Sometimes the wife wants to be told for the fun of it.

That's their kink....

They are not always unaware..... that's one way they get your number. It's given.

Troof.

There's more than one way of skinning a cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also angry husband's make check up calls.

To saynowt about bi folk, who can get calls from either or both in a jealous fact finding mission.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I had someone do that (he lied about being separated), she found all our conversations on multiple apps and asked me all about them. My womans code told me to co-operate with her but honestly it was awful and i would block next time coz when i found out he was a liar i was really upset also and trying to be helpful and tell her what she wanted to know just made me go through it all again and i coulda done without that, so i would block if it happneed again.

He pretty much got off scot free coz he's loaded and she didn't wanna leave that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have single profiles too, we are totally open about our adventures with each other. That said we always ask any singleton what their status is and if they admit to playing away, we don’t play.

If they lie to us that’s not really our fault, other than doing a personal check what else can you do???

Wife/hubby phoning you raging isn’t your fault if you’ve asked up front.

Hope it pans out for you.

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