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By *elonsplums OP   Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

I'm not writing this to cause any arguements or to make anyone feel bad

But........

What is the ideal size men think women are sexiest (I think men like an 8-10 but my other half says no is about size 16 with curves)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone’s different however, I’m with your other half on the curves - dress size don’t matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies from person to person for me. Usually the whole package and not just a body type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep lots of different women are sexy for lots of different reasons xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the shape more than size for me.

I'm a sucker for curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never asked a woman what size she is. It’s not that important really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every type, it's not necessarily a size ( why are we all obsessed with size) it's more aesthetics, well shaped features or characterful individuality. There are beautiful curves and also not so beautiful "curves", also zero curves can be very attractive on the right frame. You can't ask us this shit, we're ONLY men ffs.....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every type, it's not necessarily a size ( why are we all obsessed with size) it's more aesthetics, well shaped features or characterful individuality. There are beautiful curves and also not so beautiful "curves", also zero curves can be very attractive on the right frame. You can't ask us this shit, we're ONLY men ffs.....! "

My cock is normal btw.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no ideal size. Some men like very slim, small breasted women. Some men like very slim, large breasted women. Some men like very large women. Some men like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no ideal size. Some men like very slim, small breasted women. Some men like very slim, large breasted women. Some men like very large women. Some men like "

.....men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One size does not fit all - i have never asked a lady what size she is and never would.

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By *immyhatz211Man
over a year ago

South East, London

It’s all about vibes and attitude rather than a size. If there is no chemistry, whatever shape people are then forget about it!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"One size does not fit all - i have never asked a lady what size she is and never would."

Would you know her size by looking though? OP seems very specific about dress sizes or does he whip out a tape measure during a social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a strange world if all men only liked one size....thankfully not all men are the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One size does not fit all - i have never asked a lady what size she is and never would.

Would you know her size by looking though? OP seems very specific about dress sizes or does he whip out a tape measure during a social? "

I carry a lazer measure on my dates......

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Curves every time for me

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"There is no ideal size. Some men like very slim, small breasted women. Some men like very slim, large breasted women. Some men like very large women. Some men like

.....men?"

But yes, everyone's different.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

I have it in my head that men prefer slim women (we are influenced that we should all be slim). However, people have never complained about my curves and I receive complimemts on my fuller figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no ideal size. Some men like very slim, small breasted women. Some men like very slim, large breasted women. Some men like very large women. Some men like

.....men?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about the woman's mind not size, woman's body's should be explored and pleasured,

Every inch of the body and mind

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

My experience has shown me that the majority of men pay more attention to slim pretty women (remember... just my experience and opinion - dont shoot!!!) Also curvy... what does that mean...? All the boob and bum bits in the right places with a smaller waist? Hour glass? Not apple shape! I think that's what curvy means - regardless of clothing size!

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"I have it in my head that men prefer slim women (we are influenced that we should all be slim). However, people have never complained about my curves and I receive complimemts on my fuller figure."

Well if my fuller figure looked ANYTHING like your fuller figure... I would be over the moon! X

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"One size does not fit all - i have never asked a lady what size she is and never would.

Would you know her size by looking though? OP seems very specific about dress sizes or does he whip out a tape measure during a social?

I carry a lazer measure on my dates...... "

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have a ‘fuller figure’ - hate that term.

I’ve had no complaints.

We are what we are! All shapes are sexy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy isn't a shape. It's not a dress size or an age. It's an attitude. It's the combination of personality, glint in the eye and that "Je ne sais qoui"

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I like sexy women, but that has nothing to do with size or shape, its about if they are sexy or not

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy isn't a shape. It's not a dress size or an age. It's an attitude. It's the combination of personality, glint in the eye and that "Je ne sais qoui"

"

Exactly what I was going to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy isn't a shape. It's not a dress size or an age. It's an attitude. It's the combination of personality, glint in the eye and that "Je ne sais qoui"

"

This

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I think there's a template somewhere I'll try and dig it out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there's a template somewhere I'll try and dig it out..."

Have you looked next to the perfect profile template? That's with the "body shape women prefer" handbook.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I could give you 6 women with different body shapes but all a size 16. Dress size is irrelevant. I think it's more about how many bumps and curves in the road there are. Dome like an easier ride, less bumpy, some people want to feel like their brains being rattled with bumps and curves everywhere.

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By *duk70Man
over a year ago

langley

I was brought up that all women are gorgeous no matter what size or shape and it is still my belief.

It’s what’s inside that’s beautiful, I have met some gorgeous looking ladies over the years who are truly ugly inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy isn't a shape. It's not a dress size or an age. It's an attitude. It's the combination of personality, glint in the eye and that "Je ne sais qoui"

This "

Really? So there isn't such a thing a a great shaped set of boobs on a woman or a wonderfully pert man's bum that you want to just grab....? I'm not saying character and personality isn't the key, but we're always overlooking visual beauty on this site to please the less fortunate and be popular - it still exists though doesn't it? Beauty, IQ, funniness, we're all in different places on the scale, not all equal just because of a glint in the eye surely? Maybe the glint in the eye trump's great tits, but still they ARE great tits, no? I do get how this comment was meant though and it's well intended...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We (us women) come with heads and brains.

Regardless of size

Beauty is more than a number.

Glad us women can see beyond shallowness

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I’m not just saying this to be a crowd pleaser but size really doesn’t come into it for my it’s more about how she carries herself as a person and if we click mentally so for me it’s more about the ideal personality and mindset not size.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People like what they like. Somewhere there will be people who like what you are.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

My favourite size for a woman is 14-16 with 12 and 18 being still attractive for me (Luke). Below is a bit small for me. There are some women higher than 18 I find attractive. There is one Fabber who I think says she's a 22 and I think she looks lovely.

Hannah has a wider range of likes (she's much less shallow than me!) but the phwoars come with curvy women too generally. We have fairly similar tastes. There are a couple of women on this thread we have both seen and gone phwoar!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I think there's a template somewhere I'll try and dig it out...

Have you looked next to the perfect profile template? That's with the "body shape women prefer" handbook. "

I knew there was somewhere I hadn't looked,ta...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy isn't a shape. It's not a dress size or an age. It's an attitude. It's the combination of personality, glint in the eye and that "Je ne sais qoui"

This

Really? So there isn't such a thing a a great shaped set of boobs on a woman or a wonderfully pert man's bum that you want to just grab....? I'm not saying character and personality isn't the key, but we're always overlooking visual beauty on this site to please the less fortunate and be popular - it still exists though doesn't it? Beauty, IQ, funniness, we're all in different places on the scale, not all equal just because of a glint in the eye surely? Maybe the glint in the eye trump's great tits, but still they ARE great tits, no? I do get how this comment was meant though and it's well intended...

"

Of course there are many attributes that can make me think "ooft"

There's certainly some men on here with photos that genuinely turn me on . However they are all different. There's not a theme. I suppose much depends on my mood at the time of looking at their photos .

I also know as a bigger woman I struggle to see how anyone could find my naked form sexy. However by the time we get to that stage my glint in the eye and personality is hopefully helping my cause!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's ever size THEY feel comfortable with size isnt a clear representation of beauty its keen in the eye but needs to have something more for attraction for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy isn't a shape. It's not a dress size or an age. It's an attitude. It's the combination of personality, glint in the eye and that "Je ne sais qoui"

This

Really? So there isn't such a thing a a great shaped set of boobs on a woman or a wonderfully pert man's bum that you want to just grab....? I'm not saying character and personality isn't the key, but we're always overlooking visual beauty on this site to please the less fortunate and be popular - it still exists though doesn't it? Beauty, IQ, funniness, we're all in different places on the scale, not all equal just because of a glint in the eye surely? Maybe the glint in the eye trump's great tits, but still they ARE great tits, no? I do get how this comment was meant though and it's well intended...

Of course there are many attributes that can make me think "ooft"

There's certainly some men on here with photos that genuinely turn me on . However they are all different. There's not a theme. I suppose much depends on my mood at the time of looking at their photos .

I also know as a bigger woman I struggle to see how anyone could find my naked form sexy. However by the time we get to that stage my glint in the eye and personality is hopefully helping my cause! "

Exactly, the point I made earlier about visual beauty being more about aesthetics and not size specific...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy isn't a shape. It's not a dress size or an age. It's an attitude. It's the combination of personality, glint in the eye and that "Je ne sais qoui"

This

Really? So there isn't such a thing a a great shaped set of boobs on a woman or a wonderfully pert man's bum that you want to just grab....? I'm not saying character and personality isn't the key, but we're always overlooking visual beauty on this site to please the less fortunate and be popular - it still exists though doesn't it? Beauty, IQ, funniness, we're all in different places on the scale, not all equal just because of a glint in the eye surely? Maybe the glint in the eye trump's great tits, but still they ARE great tits, no? I do get how this comment was meant though and it's well intended...

Of course there are many attributes that can make me think "ooft"

There's certainly some men on here with photos that genuinely turn me on . However they are all different. There's not a theme. I suppose much depends on my mood at the time of looking at their photos .

I also know as a bigger woman I struggle to see how anyone could find my naked form sexy. However by the time we get to that stage my glint in the eye and personality is hopefully helping my cause! "

Oh, and you're gorgeous...!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Lass


"People like what they like. Somewhere there will be people who like what you are.

"

This. And personally, i have never found a fella attractive based on what his body looks like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size 10-12 for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy isn't a shape. It's not a dress size or an age. It's an attitude. It's the combination of personality, glint in the eye and that "Je ne sais qoui"

This

Really? So there isn't such a thing a a great shaped set of boobs on a woman or a wonderfully pert man's bum that you want to just grab....? I'm not saying character and personality isn't the key, but we're always overlooking visual beauty on this site to please the less fortunate and be popular - it still exists though doesn't it? Beauty, IQ, funniness, we're all in different places on the scale, not all equal just because of a glint in the eye surely? Maybe the glint in the eye trump's great tits, but still they ARE great tits, no? I do get how this comment was meant though and it's well intended...

"

Yes really - I’m not going to say that I don’t look at some tits and think ‘that’s a great pair of tits’ but if it’s someone I’m meeting then there is so much more than that. They can have the best tits in the world but if they are an arsehole, I’m not interested.

‘Sexy’ is not just physical for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy isn't a shape. It's not a dress size or an age. It's an attitude. It's the combination of personality, glint in the eye and that "Je ne sais qoui"

This

Really? So there isn't such a thing a a great shaped set of boobs on a woman or a wonderfully pert man's bum that you want to just grab....? I'm not saying character and personality isn't the key, but we're always overlooking visual beauty on this site to please the less fortunate and be popular - it still exists though doesn't it? Beauty, IQ, funniness, we're all in different places on the scale, not all equal just because of a glint in the eye surely? Maybe the glint in the eye trump's great tits, but still they ARE great tits, no? I do get how this comment was meant though and it's well intended...

Yes really - I’m not going to say that I don’t look at some tits and think ‘that’s a great pair of tits’ but if it’s someone I’m meeting then there is so much more than that. They can have the best tits in the world but if they are an arsehole, I’m not interested.

‘Sexy’ is not just physical for me "

Agreed, but they've still got attractive tits buddy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy isn't a shape. It's not a dress size or an age. It's an attitude. It's the combination of personality, glint in the eye and that "Je ne sais qoui"

This

Really? So there isn't such a thing a a great shaped set of boobs on a woman or a wonderfully pert man's bum that you want to just grab....? I'm not saying character and personality isn't the key, but we're always overlooking visual beauty on this site to please the less fortunate and be popular - it still exists though doesn't it? Beauty, IQ, funniness, we're all in different places on the scale, not all equal just because of a glint in the eye surely? Maybe the glint in the eye trump's great tits, but still they ARE great tits, no? I do get how this comment was meant though and it's well intended...

Yes really - I’m not going to say that I don’t look at some tits and think ‘that’s a great pair of tits’ but if it’s someone I’m meeting then there is so much more than that. They can have the best tits in the world but if they are an arsehole, I’m not interested.

‘Sexy’ is not just physical for me

Agreed, but they've still got attractive tits buddy... "

It's like the OP has asked what type of fruit you like best and you've replied that fruit doesn't make up a great part of your diet but you do like roast chicken. Ppl are always doing this, it frustrates me. What's your favourite fruit though???? Grrr.... Rant over....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy isn't a shape. It's not a dress size or an age. It's an attitude. It's the combination of personality, glint in the eye and that "Je ne sais qoui"

This

Really? So there isn't such a thing a a great shaped set of boobs on a woman or a wonderfully pert man's bum that you want to just grab....? I'm not saying character and personality isn't the key, but we're always overlooking visual beauty on this site to please the less fortunate and be popular - it still exists though doesn't it? Beauty, IQ, funniness, we're all in different places on the scale, not all equal just because of a glint in the eye surely? Maybe the glint in the eye trump's great tits, but still they ARE great tits, no? I do get how this comment was meant though and it's well intended...

Yes really - I’m not going to say that I don’t look at some tits and think ‘that’s a great pair of tits’ but if it’s someone I’m meeting then there is so much more than that. They can have the best tits in the world but if they are an arsehole, I’m not interested.

‘Sexy’ is not just physical for me

Agreed, but they've still got attractive tits buddy... "

Agreed but we aren’t talking about ideal size - great tits are great tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy isn't a shape. It's not a dress size or an age. It's an attitude. It's the combination of personality, glint in the eye and that "Je ne sais qoui"

This

Really? So there isn't such a thing a a great shaped set of boobs on a woman or a wonderfully pert man's bum that you want to just grab....? I'm not saying character and personality isn't the key, but we're always overlooking visual beauty on this site to please the less fortunate and be popular - it still exists though doesn't it? Beauty, IQ, funniness, we're all in different places on the scale, not all equal just because of a glint in the eye surely? Maybe the glint in the eye trump's great tits, but still they ARE great tits, no? I do get how this comment was meant though and it's well intended...

Yes really - I’m not going to say that I don’t look at some tits and think ‘that’s a great pair of tits’ but if it’s someone I’m meeting then there is so much more than that. They can have the best tits in the world but if they are an arsehole, I’m not interested.

‘Sexy’ is not just physical for me

Agreed, but they've still got attractive tits buddy...

Agreed but we aren’t talking about ideal size - great tits are great tits "

Read the OP.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like pears

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Small for me every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was reading about this the other day actually. Anthropologists suggest female "attractiveness" is linked to hip to waist ratio as this is an indicator of fertility and overall health. So actual size is less important for most...so they say.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I don't have an ideal or a range or anything like that.

I like any particular person for what they are, be that physically, emotionally, intellectually - as long as there is that attraction.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

All the meets we've had have been because they've found attractive to look at. The reason they contact us in the first place is due to our pictures. We do get messages saying they like what we've said in the forum and complimenting us on how we come across but they're not meet requests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the thread may have helped if worded differently.. As we all interpret in different ways.

For me rugby male build heightens my passion.. But I have friends with many shapes sizes colours desires fetishes as its the person that means more

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

They are all sexy no matter what there size.

If you ask me what my view on the perfect lady it’s around 5f4 slim gym fit with some muscle on her and abs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is so much more to 'sexy' than just physical size of a person, but I always find myself drawn to curvier women.. No idea about dress sizes being a bloke. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy isn't a shape. It's not a dress size or an age. It's an attitude. It's the combination of personality, glint in the eye and that "Je ne sais qoui"

"

This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How on earth can you go on dress size!? Someone who’s 6ft and a size 16 will have a totally different shape to someone who’s 5ft and a size 16. If I’m ever a size 8 it means I’m probably dying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think going by size is useless. I know many women who are a size

8-10 and no two of them look the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think going by size is useless. I know many women who are a size

8-10 and no two of them look the same "

I think all women should look just like you LBC....

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I'm not writing this to cause any arguements or to make anyone feel bad

But........

What is the ideal size men think women are sexiest (I think men like an 8-10 but my other half says no is about size 16 with curves) "

Attitude makes a massive difference to "sexiness". Two people can be identical in size and shape but move differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We (us women) come with heads and brains.

Regardless of size

Beauty is more than a number.

Glad us women can see beyond shallowness "

This is the best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think going by size is useless. I know many women who are a size

8-10 and no two of them look the same

I think all women should look just like you LBC.... "

Well if they did then that would be one very boring world! It's nice to have variety!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think going by size is useless. I know many women who are a size

8-10 and no two of them look the same

I think all women should look just like you LBC....

Well if they did then that would be one very boring world! It's nice to have variety! "

It's be a pretty one though! They'd all have to dress in different outfits though, otherwise I'd get in so much trouble

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

It's impossible to say, dress sizes are no way to judge. One person can be the same dress size as another but be a completely different shape.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"It varies from person to person for me. Usually the whole package and not just a body type"

I think that’s the same for us women about men too

The whole package can just tick a box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be huge

I then went less huge

I’m now less huge than that

Size is subjective ... people have preferences

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I read some research that found the male "mating gene" is drawn to a woman whose body shape is two-thirds leg and one-third torso, hence why high heels elongate the appearance of legs.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

10 - 12 pert bum, slim waist, big tits!

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