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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

As a swinger since entering into the lifestyle do you feel raining has contributed positively to you life in surprising ways such as to increase or decrease your sense of morality or justice or loyalty or any others you would like to share?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I use an umbrella so it doesn't really affect me.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Everything's the same but with a more varied sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use an umbrella so it doesn't really affect me. "

I've got a rather fetching cagoule too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have high sense of standards regardless of lifesytle..

Nothing rains on my parade

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't see how swinging would effect what somebody finds moral. Can you explain what you mean?

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

By being in the lifestyle, it's pretty much agreed that on sex, the thought of non monogamy is relaxed about it, doesn't make any difference elsewhere in our lives and how we live them within our moral code.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huh...?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As a swinger since entering into the lifestyle do you feel raining has contributed positively to you life in surprising ways such as to increase or decrease your sense of morality or justice or loyalty or any others you would like to share?"

I think it can change the way you think about certain things but I'm not sure if can affect your basic moral code.

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

lmao well done of course where as I had said RAINING which was a typo (my phone changed it from...) I was meaning to say SWINGING! lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've always been non standard and I'm pretty much the same before and since swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider swinging to be a sign of emotional intelligence in many cases. It shows that a couple is able to discuss their wishes and desires with one another and live said fantasies out together; which is what a relationship is all about.

If a couple decide that they wish to engage in some fun as a couple, or separately, then having the discussion and doing so shows that neither is being held back in anyway from that in which they wish to desire in life.

I do feel that it is a much more moral decision than going behind the back of said partner (not that I am judging of course, it just saves inflicting harm on one that is blissfully unawares, and possibly wishing to do the very same thing, though not).

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I consider swinging to be a sign of emotional intelligence in many cases. It shows that a couple is able to discuss their wishes and desires with one another and live said fantasies out together; which is what a relationship is all about.

If a couple decide that they wish to engage in some fun as a couple, or separately, then having the discussion and doing so shows that neither is being held back in anyway from that in which they wish to desire in life.

I do feel that it is a much more moral decision than going behind the back of said partner (not that I am judging of course, it just saves inflicting harm on one that is blissfully unawares, and possibly wishing to do the very same thing, though not)."

This is how I see it too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I consider swinging to be a sign of emotional intelligence in many cases. It shows that a couple is able to discuss their wishes and desires with one another and live said fantasies out together; which is what a relationship is all about.

If a couple decide that they wish to engage in some fun as a couple, or separately, then having the discussion and doing so shows that neither is being held back in anyway from that in which they wish to desire in life.

I do feel that it is a much more moral decision than going behind the back of said partner (not that I am judging of course, it just saves inflicting harm on one that is blissfully unawares, and possibly wishing to do the very same thing, though not).

This is how I see it too."

It's possible to be emotionally intelligent and monogamous. Swinging relationships aren't better, people who don't swing aren't being held back and not everybody wants to have sex with other people. There are p!entry of swinging couples where one of them is cheating.

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By *sianManc OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I consider swinging to be a sign of emotional intelligence in many cases. It shows that a couple is able to discuss their wishes and desires with one another and live said fantasies out together; which is what a relationship is all about.

If a couple decide that they wish to engage in some fun as a couple, or separately, then having the discussion and doing so shows that neither is being held back in anyway from that in which they wish to desire in life.

I do feel that it is a much more moral decision than going behind the back of said partner (not that I am judging of course, it just saves inflicting harm on one that is blissfully unawares, and possibly wishing to do the very same thing, though not).

This is how I see it too.

It's possible to be emotionally intelligent and monogamous. Swinging relationships aren't better, people who don't swing aren't being held back and not everybody wants to have sex with other people. There are p!entry of swinging couples where one of them is cheating."

That's a valid point too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I consider swinging to be a sign of emotional intelligence in many cases. It shows that a couple is able to discuss their wishes and desires with one another and live said fantasies out together; which is what a relationship is all about.

If a couple decide that they wish to engage in some fun as a couple, or separately, then having the discussion and doing so shows that neither is being held back in anyway from that in which they wish to desire in life.

I do feel that it is a much more moral decision than going behind the back of said partner (not that I am judging of course, it just saves inflicting harm on one that is blissfully unawares, and possibly wishing to do the very same thing, though not).

This is how I see it too.

It's possible to be emotionally intelligent and monogamous. Swinging relationships aren't better, people who don't swing aren't being held back and not everybody wants to have sex with other people. There are p!entry of swinging couples where one of them is cheating.

That's a valid point too."

I think it's a mistake to think that people swing to avoid cheating. That is the opposite to emotional intelligence in my opinion

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