FabSwingers.com forum: Do you come across the way you are

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality? "

Nope, I'm the same here as I am in real life, a dickhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m crap at this whole internet sell yourself crap. In person I can hold a conversation with everyone and anyone, but I feel like its too forced online.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality?

Nope, I'm the same here as I am in real life, a dickhead

That was, word for word, what I just typed in three other threads of varying contexts before I got here.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality?

Nope, I'm the same here as I am in real life, a dickhead

That was, word for word, what I just typed in three other threads of varying contexts before I got here.

More people need to embrace their inner dickhead, it's so much fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality? "

In real life I'm actually quite shy and wouldn't say boo to a goose

That's what's so good about fan

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

When communicating i find it better to read facial expressions, make eye contact and listen to the tone of a voice. Impossible to do when texting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way to come across as genuine is to turn up to a social meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only way to come across as genuine is to turn up to a social meet. "

Legit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably come across confident in forums and socail meets and then clam up for a more intimate encounter (I blame the PTSD)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the forums there is the suspicion that I am completely unhinged and too far out on the spectrum to ever come back safely. Whereas in real life there is no doubt whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality? "

I don't come across well at all! Have a dry sense of humour which doesn't translate too well over text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality?

I don't come across well at all! Have a dry sense of humour which doesn't translate too well over text. "

Text is so bad for conveying tone isn't it. Even with emoticons things can come across the opposite to what you intended. So amazing how the same thing can have opposite meaning depending on how it is said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality?

I don't come across well at all! Have a dry sense of humour which doesn't translate too well over text.

Absolutely! But I think people can be easily offended a wee bit too maybe? They aren't to know I'm actually really nice and dont mean to be an asshole!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality?

I don't come across well at all! Have a dry sense of humour which doesn't translate too well over text.

Absolutely! But I think people can be easily offended a wee bit too maybe? They aren't to know I'm actually really nice and dont mean to be an asshole! "

There's that too. I think there are one or two people here who feed off the drama of being offended rather than give you the benefit of the doubt.

I'm a true believer in Hanlon's Razor.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I think I do. Maybe I'm not quite as chatty on the forum as I am in real life, but some of that is laziness because I can't be bothered typing huge long posts.

The essence is still the same though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no idea. I'm just me, and anyone who knows me would tell you that. How I come across on this site is up to the individual. I'm either someone's cuppa tea or I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel I come across the same way. People take me way too seriously on the forums. Although I will post something tongue in cheek and people will take it seriously, but I guess that’s just written word for ya - can be interpreted in many different ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wayyyy too lazy to pretend to be someone else. Plus my memory is shot to fuck so if I lie or bullshit I'll forget what I've said and end up busted. I have to tell the truth cos its all I can remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say on here what I'd say in person. Unfortunately I have no control over how my words are interpreted because I can't back them up with facial expressions, body language etc.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Nope.. I'm a totally annoying cunt in real life too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say on here what I'd say in person. Unfortunately I have no control over how my words are interpreted because I can't back them up with facial expressions, body language etc. "

I think I sometimes have this problem. I call it Jim Jeffries syndrome. A journo quoted his act in an article and as he says "if you READ my act... Its a bad read!!" But I genuinely am never trying to deliberately offend. Offending strangers is a dumb, nasty thing to do and I'm not perfect but I'm not dumb or nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say on here what I'd say in person. Unfortunately I have no control over how my words are interpreted because I can't back them up with facial expressions, body language etc. "

On the flip side to that if you ever spoke to me in person I'd be so mesmerized by your amazing body that I probably wouldn't be able to concentrate 100% on what you're saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d lime to think I do as I don’t seem to have a filter sometime but I can hold a conversation dirty or not xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say on here what I'd say in person. Unfortunately I have no control over how my words are interpreted because I can't back them up with facial expressions, body language etc.

On the flip side to that if you ever spoke to me in person I'd be so mesmerized by your amazing body that I probably wouldn't be able to concentrate 100% on what you're saying

I have this problem too. My bf knows that there's every chance I'm not listening to anything he's saying and just looking at his arms and my brain has turned to candy floss

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By *eilde HoarWoman
over a year ago

In a wax coated bubble

I am just as blunt on here as I am in reality, I do use emojis on here to convey my point across though to avoid misunderstanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say on here what I'd say in person. Unfortunately I have no control over how my words are interpreted because I can't back them up with facial expressions, body language etc.

On the flip side to that if you ever spoke to me in person I'd be so mesmerized by your amazing body that I probably wouldn't be able to concentrate 100% on what you're saying

I have this problem too. My bf knows that there's every chance I'm not listening to anything he's saying and just looking at his arms and my brain has turned to candy floss

The secret is to watch the lips. When they stop moving, nod your head.

I talk the biggest load of crap at the best of times but something about a really sexy woman makes me say the stupidest things. I can't help myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just the same person in real life I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say on here what I'd say in person. Unfortunately I have no control over how my words are interpreted because I can't back them up with facial expressions, body language etc.

On the flip side to that if you ever spoke to me in person I'd be so mesmerized by your amazing body that I probably wouldn't be able to concentrate 100% on what you're saying

I have this problem too. My bf knows that there's every chance I'm not listening to anything he's saying and just looking at his arms and my brain has turned to candy floss

The secret is to watch the lips. When they stop moving, nod your head.

I talk the biggest load of crap at the best of times but something about a really sexy woman makes me say the stupidest things. I can't help myself!"

I think he's got his own filtering system where he doesn't hear most of what I say but will respond to key words: sandwich, blow job, touchdown etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much apart from im naked more often here

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality? "

I come across the way I am in my profile if anyone reads it.

On forums I come across the way I would answer but life isn't simply a forum where people hurl 1 question and we answer...it's about back and forth communication so I don't think anybody can say they come across on the forums they would irl more that they have answered something as best they could using type rather than voice which is more than words but tonality and a deeper expression.

So for me personally I judge based on profile words used and how they are expressed if at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea.

None of us come across the way we think we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say on here what I'd say in person. Unfortunately I have no control over how my words are interpreted because I can't back them up with facial expressions, body language etc.

On the flip side to that if you ever spoke to me in person I'd be so mesmerized by your amazing body that I probably wouldn't be able to concentrate 100% on what you're saying

I have this problem too. My bf knows that there's every chance I'm not listening to anything he's saying and just looking at his arms and my brain has turned to candy floss

The secret is to watch the lips. When they stop moving, nod your head.

I talk the biggest load of crap at the best of times but something about a really sexy woman makes me say the stupidest things. I can't help myself!

I think he's got his own filtering system where he doesn't hear most of what I say but will respond to key words: sandwich, blow job, touchdown etc... "

All men have it. It's called selective hearing.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Well I’m just me, how people interpret that is down to them.

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say on here what I'd say in person. Unfortunately I have no control over how my words are interpreted because I can't back them up with facial expressions, body language etc.

On the flip side to that if you ever spoke to me in person I'd be so mesmerized by your amazing body that I probably wouldn't be able to concentrate 100% on what you're saying

I have this problem too. My bf knows that there's every chance I'm not listening to anything he's saying and just looking at his arms and my brain has turned to candy floss

The secret is to watch the lips. When they stop moving, nod your head.

I talk the biggest load of crap at the best of times but something about a really sexy woman makes me say the stupidest things. I can't help myself!

I think he's got his own filtering system where he doesn't hear most of what I say but will respond to key words: sandwich, blow job, touchdown etc...

All men have it. It's called selective hearing. "

I think it's massively helpful in maintaining harmonious relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say on here what I'd say in person. Unfortunately I have no control over how my words are interpreted because I can't back them up with facial expressions, body language etc.

On the flip side to that if you ever spoke to me in person I'd be so mesmerized by your amazing body that I probably wouldn't be able to concentrate 100% on what you're saying

I have this problem too. My bf knows that there's every chance I'm not listening to anything he's saying and just looking at his arms and my brain has turned to candy floss

The secret is to watch the lips. When they stop moving, nod your head.

I talk the biggest load of crap at the best of times but something about a really sexy woman makes me say the stupidest things. I can't help myself!

I think he's got his own filtering system where he doesn't hear most of what I say but will respond to key words: sandwich, blow job, touchdown etc...

All men have it. It's called selective hearing.

I think it's massively helpful in maintaining harmonious relationships

It took me two marriages but I cottoned on eventually....

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By *nto My ArmsMan
over a year ago

Herts/London

I think I boost different frequencies from the graphic equaliser of personality here.

Dial up the bottom end; roll off some treble...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only way to come across as genuine is to turn up to a social meet. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At times I let the mask slip....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think many people in the forums like me but I think they'd like me In person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly the same online as I am in real life, cannot be anything other than who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say on here what I'd say in person. Unfortunately I have no control over how my words are interpreted because I can't back them up with facial expressions, body language etc.

I like this!

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality? "

Yep. That is possibly due to the vacuum between transmit and receive... and the fact that one can sometimes run the risk of getting shot down on flames or hauled over verbal hot coals for voicing their own opinion....especially if it goes against the flow.

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality? "

We are real and ourselves on here. Outside of here we just are private people

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I'm quite subdued on the forums. Away from here, I talk a lot. My job involves talking to lots of people, as does my hobby, and in my band I tend to be the one who engages with the audience between songs.

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

For the main part I think I come across as me. I'm a man who marches to his own drumbeat, a tad eccentric, a hornball and could talk the leg off a table

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality? "

Yes differently.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Lass

Different probably. I’m warmer in person, and i’m a listener rather than a talker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crazier in person;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lot taller in real life but not by much.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

No, I'm myself on here. Not everyone will like me but that's not for me to worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's difficult to convey humour in the written form. You can say something and people find it funny, you can write the same thing and it just dies. In real life I am genuinely funny, I know this because many people tell me so but here it's rare when I receive any recognition at all. Am I different here? No. Am I received differently here? Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality?

Nope, I'm the same here as I am in real life, a dickhead

I can confirm this is true

True for me too. I'm a foul mouthed straight talking fucknugget, with a big ole caring heart.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality?

Nope, I'm the same here as I am in real life, a dickhead

I can confirm this is true

True for me too. I'm a foul mouthed straight talking fucknugget, with a big ole caring heart.

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess that's difficult to quantify, as I imagine not many of us truly know how others perceive us here?

I did a work exercise once, where everyone in the group had to write anonymously a word to describe another. The descriptions were reas out and boy were some people mystified.

I spend a lot of my time looking after people and their lives...no idea if I come across as caring in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea.

None of us come across the way we think we do.

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i can confirm im a god in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm better at chatting on line than in person as it gives me more time to think. I can be a bit slow on the uptake in person, I'm quite quiet and I think I can come across a little stand offish but that's because I don't particularly ooze confidence. I'm a serious person and deep thinker but my skin has become a little thicker since I joined the Forums.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’ve no idea how others perceive me.. but I pass the same opinions and thoughts in real life with my deadpan Manc face.. it’s for others to like or dislike

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

purposely feisty, grumpy, opinionated! completely different to 'me' in reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"purposely feisty, grumpy, opinionated! completely different to 'me' in reality"
your good on question of sport sue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I guess that's difficult to quantify, as I imagine not many of us truly know how others perceive us here?

I did a work exercise once, where everyone in the group had to write anonymously a word to describe another. The descriptions were reas out and boy were some people mystified.

I spend a lot of my time looking after people and their lives...no idea if I come across as caring in here."

Reas out?

That would be an interesting experiment.

I think you seem caring. Down to earth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"purposely feisty, grumpy, opinionated! completely different to 'me' in reality"

Why purposely grumpy?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I come across as a numpty, better than a cock wanking zombie in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't come across as me on here. Text is hard and can be misinterpreted so I would say no. I'm not the whole me on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the forums i overthink responses as i dont want misinterpretation/arguments

in person very bubbly, loud, sarcastic, bit daft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only way to come across as genuine is to turn up to a social meet. "

some forumites have met the real me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality? "

Not got a clue what people think ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the forums i overthink responses as i dont want misinterpretation/arguments

in person very bubbly, loud, sarcastic, bit daft

Don't forget compassionate and true.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

We are who we are....not changing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea..meet me and find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the song goes.. I am who I am and I don't give a damn.

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over a year ago

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

In as much as text can convey me, yes. I don't filter or curate my posts, I'm honest about my opinions and I speak my mind. I'm probably funnier in reality and less prone to deep thought but that's just the nature of the forums.

Those that know me and have met me (I would hope) will agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have more confidence online than when meeting face-to-face, so yes I am different but my personality does still show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although the internet supposedly offers us 'the world on view', the undertaking of it, is really more closely related to confinement. Studies thereof suggest that even if it's not actual imprisonment, the symptoms are similar to going stir crazy or cabin fever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so much more confident online. I'm very timid in real life if I don't know you, but once I'm comfortable you'll see I'm pretty much the same as you find me on here. I don't see the point in faking who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the forums i overthink responses as i dont want misinterpretation/arguments

in person very bubbly, loud, sarcastic, bit daft

Don't forget compassionate and true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't come across as me on here. Text is hard and can be misinterpreted so I would say no. I'm not the whole me on here. "

Completely agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so much more confident online. I'm very timid in real life if I don't know you, but once I'm comfortable you'll see I'm pretty much the same as you find me on here. I don't see the point in faking who you are. "

I totally agree with that, Cyberspace gives you the time to think as some people find difficult to do in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I boost different frequencies from the graphic equaliser of personality here.

Dial up the bottom end; roll off some treble... "

Ha, I really like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bit more confident in here, but my nature comes across the same I hope x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No idea, only someone who knows me could judge that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty dull on here, I don’t come across well in print, I’m bubbly and lively irl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know. I think so. I suppose people I’ve met could answer that better.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm not sure in all honesty. I think different people read me differently and think differently of me. I do type what I think but that's open to interpretation.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I don’t even know who I am really, so who the heck knows?! Shrugs.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality? "

I'm totally sincere in what I post, although I do like to crack a joke too. I am exactly the same in person.

Cal

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality? "

Yes and no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really! Typing has no depth, emotion or passion at all and I have all of those qualities! Without body language (makes over 80% of good communication) then would hope no one is entirely how they come across rather it's more a snap shot of personality via messages/typing

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s how individuals interpret your words, some see cold and blunt, others see honesty. To me I’m no different here than in real life, difference being I’ll have clothes on, the best to answer are those that have met me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd have to ask people who's met me to reply to that really. I try to come across as me, my profile is pretty blunt and maybe makes me sound like a mardy cow, but I'm a sweet little bunny in person really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I believe so. What you see is what you get with me in any situation not just in the fab world

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im much softer in real life

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

and i talk more

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'd like to think so.

I probably have more time to chat to people here.

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

hotel in teeside once a month

not at all, i cant spell, and my grammar is usually freaking awefull! i think over any text based medium you cant let all your personality though

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality? "

Some people despise what I say in the forums, and block me. Other people have met me because of what I say in here. I’m just me, no pretensions, no faking it, I say it as I see it, take me or leave me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure I come across as a miserable cunt, that seems accurate.

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne

I'm probably more naughty in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'm the same on here as in real life. Sassy, flirty with the right prrdon and a bit of a twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Person, oh these dodgy digits of mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am much more tolerant and easy to talk than on here. Its easier to open up and trust someone more when you can see their face

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Am just a easy going person but people can see me deferent than I really am

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Yes and no ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In these forums? Or do you feel that you come across differently to people than you are in reality? "

I am bit more well behaved in real life. I am probably on my worst behavior here and on my best behavior in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This brings out the naughty in me. This is my Fab persona, my vanilla self is slightly different.

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