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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Hi guys ,

Help us out here...

So I fully understand that suspicion reigns supreme should you not have any verifications.

Even then being a single guy it's hard on fab.

Seems to be a "catch 22" , then how do you get a veri to confirm your not a member of the weird brigade if no one meets you nor replies .

Perplexed here...... hhhellp..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on cam and get a very off there it's how I got my first one

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Social, cam, club.

Some people meet unverified people.

It's not always the lack of verification that's the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A verification doesn’t really prove anything. They can easily be faked. Plenty of people will reply to men/meet men who don’t have verifications. Don’t focus on those who don’t

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Hi guys ,

Help us out here...

So I fully understand that suspicion reigns supreme should you not have any verifications.

Even then being a single guy it's hard on fab.

Seems to be a "catch 22" , then how do you get a veri to confirm your not a member of the weird brigade if no one meets you nor replies .

Perplexed here...... hhhellp..

"

Go to a social in your area?

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Hi guys ,

Help us out here...

So I fully understand that suspicion reigns supreme should you not have any verifications.

Even then being a single guy it's hard on fab.

Seems to be a "catch 22" , then how do you get a veri to confirm your not a member of the weird brigade if no one meets you nor replies .

Perplexed here...... hhhellp..

"
I only posted 1 verify as to play the game on here,( ie show you are legit) after that the other 3 meets I had I never asked or give a veri,

I suggest spend some time on the forums, be polite, get to know a few people and it won't be long before your verified,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cam it is then..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club is your best bet. At least the barman or barmaid should give you a veri.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

As said above socials are a great way to go, and work, as even I have found out

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Attend an organised social vlub or go to a club.

People will verify you if you ask politely.

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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"A verification doesn’t really prove anything. They can easily be faked. Plenty of people will reply to men/meet men who don’t have verifications. Don’t focus on those who don’t "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was never on mark to begin with i dont fuck dudes

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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"Hi guys ,

Help us out here...

So I fully understand that suspicion reigns supreme should you not have any verifications.

Even then being a single guy it's hard on fab.

Seems to be a "catch 22" , then how do you get a veri to confirm your not a member of the weird brigade if no one meets you nor replies .

Perplexed here...... hhhellp..

Go to a social in your area?"
Good suggestion thanks, though would be conscious of being there on my own ... feel that being a single guy others less likely to say..hi if Visa versa I may viewed as pushy or worse desperate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cam it is then.. "

Socials are easier.... will boost your confidence and opportunity to meet people in the future x

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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"Cam it is then.. "

Oddly enough I would but bit of a dinosaur about caming . Have tried in past , really don,t get it,nor does anything for me.

Am I alone here?

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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"Go to a club is your best bet. At least the barman or barmaid should give you a veri."
ha ha

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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"Cam it is then..

Socials are easier.... will boost your confidence and opportunity to meet people in the future x"
thankyou.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Hi guys ,

Help us out here...

So I fully understand that suspicion reigns supreme should you not have any verifications.

Even then being a single guy it's hard on fab.

Seems to be a "catch 22" , then how do you get a veri to confirm your not a member of the weird brigade if no one meets you nor replies .

Perplexed here...... hhhellp..

Go to a social in your area? Good suggestion thanks, though would be conscious of being there on my own ... feel that being a single guy others less likely to say..hi if Visa versa I may viewed as pushy or worse desperate...

"

Plenty of single guys do. It's not desperate. Just be friendly and normal like at anything else.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"

Plenty of single guys do. It's not desperate. Just be friendly and normal like at anything else. "

Either that or wear Hot Pants

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Cam it is then..

Oddly enough I would but bit of a dinosaur about caming . Have tried in past , really don,t get it,nor does anything for me.

Am I alone here?"

You have to try something, it won't come to you. Go to a social and treat it like going into your local pub, make conversation...

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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"Cam it is then..

Oddly enough I would but bit of a dinosaur about caming . Have tried in past , really don,t get it,nor does anything for me.

Am I alone here?

You have to try something, it won't come to you. Go to a social and treat it like going into your local pub, make conversation..."

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