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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you have any key words that make you block a profile?

For us it’s Dom/bull.

It’s not what we’re looking for so would rather not waste folks time.

Just interested that’s all.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Hi miss/babe/hunni

First one makes me feel like a prison guard second and third like I'm in a porn film.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Block for all sorts but Bull/ Dom Photographer and BBC all good for a start..

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Do you have any key words that make you block a profile?

For us it’s Dom/bull.

It’s not what we’re looking for so would rather not waste folks time.

Just interested that’s all."

We block those who clearly haven't bothered to read the profile or are disrespectful

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Generic MSG's.....copy n paste, how lazy can some people be .........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Generic MSG's.....copy n paste, how lazy can some people be ......... "

How do you know if it’s copied/pasted?

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

when my wifes first name was used in the subject title.. that was not fun

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"when my wifes first name was used in the subject title.. that was not fun "

Wow not good.....

Bet they thought it showed how cool they were but.....

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Generic MSG's.....copy n paste, how lazy can some people be .........

How do you know if it’s copied/pasted?"

I don't I'm assuming the lazy buggers do.....please let me have my moment, thanku....

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"when my wifes first name was used in the subject title.. that was not fun "

Eeessshhh horrid...

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By *oonloverWoman
over a year ago

bognor regis

Babe gets a response of I am not a fucking talking pig before the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breed

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

it was really horible! 2 of us froze!!! but they didnt mention it in the message part then just carried on as normal!!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Certain words will put me off, like "owned", but I don't block them, it just means we're not compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dom, bull, c*nt, breed, but most of all Daddy. That shit is just weird.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Generic MSG's.....copy n paste, how lazy can some people be .........

How do you know if it’s copied/pasted?

I don't I'm assuming the lazy buggers do.....please let me have my moment, thanku.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

"

Exactly people are not mind readers. Educate and see where things go, if you think there's a chance.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Do you have any key words that make you block a profile?

For us it’s Dom/bull.

It’s not what we’re looking for so would rather not waste folks time.

Just interested that’s all.

We block those who clearly haven't bothered to read the profile or are disrespectful"

That's 98% of fab then

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By *taceyDoesAllMissusWontTV/TS
over a year ago

Worcester Park

What are you into?

That drives me mental.

But the deal cert is asking for kik or whattsapp when theyve have just got in touch. I'm not on here to watch things on a screen! I want real cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of them having sex with other women, using text speak or slang, name calling, telling me how they will dominate me all get blocked

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Those who give me their address or phone number in a first message. They're fortunate I don't do anything with that.

Have some self preservation, people.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

Exactly people are not mind readers. Educate and see where things go, if you think there's a chance. "

Why should I educate people? Not my job. If they can't approach a stranger in a half decent polite manner, which I would have thought that any adult with half a brain would be able to do, why should I bother?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

Exactly people are not mind readers. Educate and see where things go, if you think there's a chance.

Why should I educate people? Not my job. If they can't approach a stranger in a half decent polite manner, which I would have thought that any adult with half a brain would be able to do, why should I bother? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback is an instant block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i just block randomly and dispassionately like a successful breakfast killer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daddy

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Bareback is an instant block"

I block people who mention preferring bareback on sight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm rude I block loads that start off the conversation with no effort, weird shit or inferring me money or I have a peek of their profile then block purely because some don't get the hint and send message after message even if I don't respond. I don't even have a profile pic I could look like shreks wife!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

If they just seem a bitch I block, simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're actually a couple but my wife isn't playing at the moment so it's just the male...

For some reason they usually refer to themselves as "the male" as if they are being described in a David Attenborough documentary.

Block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm rude I block loads that start off the conversation with no effort, weird shit or inferring me money or I have a peek of their profile then block purely because some don't get the hint and send message after message even if I don't respond. I don't even have a profile pic I could look like shreks wife! "

You look like Cameron Diaz? Wow!

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

hotel in teeside once a month

wanna fuck? anything under a line when your first saying hello to somone

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We're actually a couple but my wife isn't playing at the moment so it's just the male...

For some reason they usually refer to themselves as "the male" as if they are being described in a David Attenborough documentary.

Block "

Yeah, any indication that the profile is deliberately wrong.

Couple just a man, woman bringing partner along, "profile says I'm 35 I'm actually 22"... Go away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me boring and tell me I don’t belong here (I’m used to that) but anything sexual in a first message is a goodbye from me.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Celery.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

Exactly people are not mind readers. Educate and see where things go, if you think there's a chance.

Why should I educate people? Not my job. If they can't approach a stranger in a half decent polite manner, which I would have thought that any adult with half a brain would be able to do, why should I bother? "

Just because a word offends you, doesn't mean that it offends everyone else and the person who said it, would have no idea that it offended you without even knowing you.

I find what you said offensive to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

Exactly people are not mind readers. Educate and see where things go, if you think there's a chance.

Why should I educate people? Not my job. If they can't approach a stranger in a half decent polite manner, which I would have thought that any adult with half a brain would be able to do, why should I bother?

Just because a word offends you, doesn't mean that it offends everyone else and the person who said it, would have no idea that it offended you without even knowing you.

I find what you said offensive to be honest. "

Nah I agree with her. Certain things people say make me know it’s not going anywhere. So what’s the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

Exactly people are not mind readers. Educate and see where things go, if you think there's a chance.

Why should I educate people? Not my job. If they can't approach a stranger in a half decent polite manner, which I would have thought that any adult with half a brain would be able to do, why should I bother?

Just because a word offends you, doesn't mean that it offends everyone else and the person who said it, would have no idea that it offended you without even knowing you.

I find what you said offensive to be honest.

Nah I agree with her. Certain things people say make me know it’s not going anywhere. So what’s the point?"

Well I don't judge a book by the words on the cover

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By *mileTogether69Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Hhhhmmm reading your replies are fascinating.

I agree anything sexual in first message is a little ill judged.

Though to instantly block ? considering this is supposedly a naughty site..

Unless you specifically stated in profile as such ....

Maybe a tad harsh?

Gawd think I,m going to regret post this ...but here goes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

Exactly people are not mind readers. Educate and see where things go, if you think there's a chance.

Why should I educate people? Not my job. If they can't approach a stranger in a half decent polite manner, which I would have thought that any adult with half a brain would be able to do, why should I bother?

Just because a word offends you, doesn't mean that it offends everyone else and the person who said it, would have no idea that it offended you without even knowing you.

I find what you said offensive to be honest.

Nah I agree with her. Certain things people say make me know it’s not going anywhere. So what’s the point?

Well I don't judge a book by the words on the cover "

That’s good. I’m sure we all have our own way or doing things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

Exactly people are not mind readers. Educate and see where things go, if you think there's a chance.

Why should I educate people? Not my job. If they can't approach a stranger in a half decent polite manner, which I would have thought that any adult with half a brain would be able to do, why should I bother?

Just because a word offends you, doesn't mean that it offends everyone else and the person who said it, would have no idea that it offended you without even knowing you.

I find what you said offensive to be honest. "

I'm offended by you being offended that the person you were replying to was offended.

Tag. You're it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback sex or anything that indicates that they do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hhhhmmm reading your replies are fascinating.

I agree anything sexual in first message is a little ill judged.

Though to instantly block ? considering this is supposedly a naughty site..

Unless you specifically stated in profile as such ....

Maybe a tad harsh?

Gawd think I,m going to regret post this ...but here goes.."

Like we said, for us it’s the words Dom or bull as we’ve learnt that generally people who write that want to be just that, and that’s not what we like.

Therefore we block them then they can’t contact us. Saves them starting a thread asking why couples never respond

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

Exactly people are not mind readers. Educate and see where things go, if you think there's a chance.

Why should I educate people? Not my job. If they can't approach a stranger in a half decent polite manner, which I would have thought that any adult with half a brain would be able to do, why should I bother?

Just because a word offends you, doesn't mean that it offends everyone else and the person who said it, would have no idea that it offended you without even knowing you.

I find what you said offensive to be honest. "

You're entitled to your feelings and I'm entitled to mine. And so we carry on.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

[Removed by poster at 23/11/19 22:48:42]

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Do you have any key words that make you block a profile?

For us it’s Dom/bull.

It’s not what we’re looking for so would rather not waste folks time.

Just interested that’s all."

With you on that along with repeater and heavy cummer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have any key words that make you block a profile?

For us it’s Dom/bull.

It’s not what we’re looking for so would rather not waste folks time.

Just interested that’s all.

With you on that along with repeated and heavy summer "

Love a heavy summer I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two words in my profile I ask to be used as the subject and if not used I don’t bother to read

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

"

Think you wrong and it personal preference is King here ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

Exactly people are not mind readers. Educate and see where things go, if you think there's a chance.

Why should I educate people? Not my job. If they can't approach a stranger in a half decent polite manner, which I would have thought that any adult with half a brain would be able to do, why should I bother?

Just because a word offends you, doesn't mean that it offends everyone else and the person who said it, would have no idea that it offended you without even knowing you.

I find what you said offensive to be honest.

You're entitled to your feelings and I'm entitled to mine. And so we carry on. "

I'm offended that you're not offended that he was offended by you being offended.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

Exactly people are not mind readers. Educate and see where things go, if you think there's a chance.

Why should I educate people? Not my job. If they can't approach a stranger in a half decent polite manner, which I would have thought that any adult with half a brain would be able to do, why should I bother?

Just because a word offends you, doesn't mean that it offends everyone else and the person who said it, would have no idea that it offended you without even knowing you.

I find what you said offensive to be honest.

You're entitled to your feelings and I'm entitled to mine. And so we carry on.

I'm offended that you're not offended that he was offended by you being offended. "

It's Saturday night. Mental gymnastics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block is for wimps.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have two words in my profile I ask to be used as the subject and if not used I don’t bother to read "

You have a novel profile lol.

I used to read all profiles before sending a message, but now I look at a long profile and think meh I can't be arsed to read all that only to be ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback......

Each to their own, but this is not for me!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

Exactly people are not mind readers. Educate and see where things go, if you think there's a chance.

Why should I educate people? Not my job. If they can't approach a stranger in a half decent polite manner, which I would have thought that any adult with half a brain would be able to do, why should I bother?

Just because a word offends you, doesn't mean that it offends everyone else and the person who said it, would have no idea that it offended you without even knowing you.

I find what you said offensive to be honest.

Nah I agree with her. Certain things people say make me know it’s not going anywhere. So what’s the point?

Well I don't judge a book by the words on the cover "

Come on people some words have meaning here dom/bull it a way of playing as well of daddy if that's not you preference just block save everybody's time.

Some words like slut or whore can be used at some point if agreed on by all party's but not in first message and in some people opinion show's a lack of respect..

Word have far more mean here so it all good to block for uesing word's that are inappropriate at that time.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

Think you wrong and it personal preference is King here ...."

I can't be wrong. The question was ..... Is there any word for which i'd give an instant block...... I said NO..

You might think differently.... but either way it doesn't make me wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

Exactly people are not mind readers. Educate and see where things go, if you think there's a chance.

Why should I educate people? Not my job. If they can't approach a stranger in a half decent polite manner, which I would have thought that any adult with half a brain would be able to do, why should I bother?

Just because a word offends you, doesn't mean that it offends everyone else and the person who said it, would have no idea that it offended you without even knowing you.

I find what you said offensive to be honest.

You're entitled to your feelings and I'm entitled to mine. And so we carry on.

I'm offended that you're not offended that he was offended by you being offended.

It's Saturday night. Mental gymnastics? "

No just having a laugh at the latest social skill. The ability to be offended. A skill that requires no skill at all. Hilarious.

And yes I'm bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ffs..... people are more than a word they didn't know I didn't like.

Think you wrong and it personal preference is King here ....

I can't be wrong. The question was ..... Is there any word for which i'd give an instant block...... I said NO..

You might think differently.... but either way it doesn't make me wrong. "

Why do you give an instant block to the word NO?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate loathe and detest the usual babe, hunny and sweetheart type of stuff. So I give a mild warning of

It's dawn not babe

They do it again, I block

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By *imidWoman
over a year ago

Stoke/Cheshire


"Generic MSG's.....copy n paste, how lazy can some people be .........

How do you know if it’s copied/pasted?"

You get the same message every couple of days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback......

Each to their own, but this is not for me!"

That's one thing which puts me right off someone.. But instead of instantly blocking I would like to get to know why they want bareback sex so much? It intrigues me why some people do it. But now matter how hot they look, I would never meet someone who is into that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate loathe and detest the usual babe, hunny and sweetheart type of stuff. So I give a mild warning of

It's dawn not babe

They do it again, I block"

I always address women by their given name.

But it usually goes...

"Hi Heather.... no? Jane? ...Mary?...what letter does your name start with again? Sorry I have bad hearing. That's right Felicity! I always get the two names muddled up!"

That's how to sweep a girl off her feet.

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