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The thing with the mans pictures in couples.

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

Hey all,

1st up it’s not a whinge! Kitty’s pics gets most of the fabs. That’s fine, I’d rather look at a hot girl tbh and I’m a solid 3 on the Kinsey scale.

So I thought maybe we could post here if the Male half of the couple thinks he has some good pics that are under appreciated!

Probably won’t work if it’s 20 cock pics though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm under appreciated

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I think if you're a bi couple there should be a good mix of pics of both of you

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"I think if you're a bi couple there should be a good mix of pics of both of you "

We try, Kitty looks better in photos, the Boy is a little self conscious!

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"I think if you're a bi couple there should be a good mix of pics of both of you

We try, Kitty looks better in photos, the Boy is a little self conscious! "

You could keep an afternoon free and take the time to get some good ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we've made a fair stab at making sure people get a good idea of both of us.

I think I've taken some damn fine photos of E and wish they'd get a bit more love...I actually think his are way better than mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've just fabbed a few; at the end of the day, as a couple, there are two of you and so show that off. Just do it tastefully, and leave some things to the imagination (if people wish to imagine that)...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry -

I understand people like fabbing things, but to me it's like wanting "likes" on other well known social media.

I'm not coming down on you at all or anyone else, please please please do not take it that way as it is not my intention. I just can't find a reason in myself to place any emphasis on these things and would like to know why others do.

Can someone please explain to me the importance of wanting this kind of verification? I would really like to know.

You can respond here or in PM!

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"I'm sorry -

I understand people like fabbing things, but to me it's like wanting "likes" on other well known social media.

I'm not coming down on you at all or anyone else, please please please do not take it that way as it is not my intention. I just can't find a reason in myself to place any emphasis on these things and would like to know why others do.

Can someone please explain to me the importance of wanting this kind of verification? I would really like to know.

You can respond here or in PM! "

Oh it’s not a moan, or an attempt to make a major thing of.

Not sure if you’ve experienced life as a couples account. My point is that when we put a picture of Kitty up, it’ll get lots of likes immediately, anything of The Boy, not so much. We think it’s mostly due to the more visual nature of men. We just wondered if other couples would like to pop their hands up if they thought their pictures of then Male half deserved recognition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry -

I understand people like fabbing things, but to me it's like wanting "likes" on other well known social media.

I'm not coming down on you at all or anyone else, please please please do not take it that way as it is not my intention. I just can't find a reason in myself to place any emphasis on these things and would like to know why others do.

Can someone please explain to me the importance of wanting this kind of verification? I would really like to know.

You can respond here or in PM! "

When I fab photos it's almost always because I appreciate the aesthetic that's been created. Photography is one of my hobbies so I guess from my own personal perspective it's quite nice when other people appreciate an image you've created.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry -

I understand people like fabbing things, but to me it's like wanting "likes" on other well known social media.

I'm not coming down on you at all or anyone else, please please please do not take it that way as it is not my intention. I just can't find a reason in myself to place any emphasis on these things and would like to know why others do.

Can someone please explain to me the importance of wanting this kind of verification? I would really like to know.

You can respond here or in PM!

Oh it’s not a moan, or an attempt to make a major thing of.

Not sure if you’ve experienced life as a couples account. My point is that when we put a picture of Kitty up, it’ll get lots of likes immediately, anything of The Boy, not so much. We think it’s mostly due to the more visual nature of men. We just wondered if other couples would like to pop their hands up if they thought their pictures of then Male half deserved recognition. "

I didnt think it was a moan at all. Or a grumbling. Or anything I was just simply curious. Thank you for that response.

Can I ask which half of the couple is seeking more of this kind of validation? I am not judging btw, just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry -

I understand people like fabbing things, but to me it's like wanting "likes" on other well known social media.

I'm not coming down on you at all or anyone else, please please please do not take it that way as it is not my intention. I just can't find a reason in myself to place any emphasis on these things and would like to know why others do.

Can someone please explain to me the importance of wanting this kind of verification? I would really like to know.

You can respond here or in PM!

When I fab photos it's almost always because I appreciate the aesthetic that's been created. Photography is one of my hobbies so I guess from my own personal perspective it's quite nice when other people appreciate an image you've created."

I can get the photography, I do it myself. Takes talent patience and fucking lighting lol.

Wouldnt you want a better place to showcase that then? Bevause the pictures on here are such crap no matter how hard you work at it.

Thank you for that response as well!

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"I'm sorry -

I understand people like fabbing things, but to me it's like wanting "likes" on other well known social media.

I'm not coming down on you at all or anyone else, please please please do not take it that way as it is not my intention. I just can't find a reason in myself to place any emphasis on these things and would like to know why others do.

Can someone please explain to me the importance of wanting this kind of verification? I would really like to know.

You can respond here or in PM!

Oh it’s not a moan, or an attempt to make a major thing of.

Not sure if you’ve experienced life as a couples account. My point is that when we put a picture of Kitty up, it’ll get lots of likes immediately, anything of The Boy, not so much. We think it’s mostly due to the more visual nature of men. We just wondered if other couples would like to pop their hands up if they thought their pictures of then Male half deserved recognition.

I didnt think it was a moan at all. Or a grumbling. Or anything I was just simply curious. Thank you for that response.

Can I ask which half of the couple is seeking more of this kind of validation? I am not judging btw, just curious. "

Not seeking validation, just wanted to start a thread to appreciate the Male folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally find arty pics of couples together a lot better than just pics of each separately. There are so many tease fun pics you could do as a couple...

But those types of pics are few and far between on fab though.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I’m quite flattered by the amount of fabs my pics get no comparison to Jo’s of course

D.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) certainly don't feel under-appreciated and I'm not bothered about how many fabs our photos get. However, given what this thread is about, I'll just throw my hat in the ring and say there are at least as many photos of me on our profile as Hannah and I think they are good ones. Go right ahead if you fancy seeing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry -

I understand people like fabbing things, but to me it's like wanting "likes" on other well known social media.

I'm not coming down on you at all or anyone else, please please please do not take it that way as it is not my intention. I just can't find a reason in myself to place any emphasis on these things and would like to know why others do.

Can someone please explain to me the importance of wanting this kind of verification? I would really like to know.

You can respond here or in PM!

When I fab photos it's almost always because I appreciate the aesthetic that's been created. Photography is one of my hobbies so I guess from my own personal perspective it's quite nice when other people appreciate an image you've created.

I can get the photography, I do it myself. Takes talent patience and fucking lighting lol.

Wouldnt you want a better place to showcase that then? Bevause the pictures on here are such crap no matter how hard you work at it.

Thank you for that response as well! "

For photos of us, here is fine. It's just part of the playfulness. The more serious stuff I do gets to see the light of day in more appropriate fora

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I may get more then Alisha ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m quite flattered by the amount of fabs my pics get no comparison to Jo’s of course

D."

Happy to help out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all,

1st up it’s not a whinge! Kitty’s pics gets most of the fabs. That’s fine, I’d rather look at a hot girl tbh and I’m a solid 3 on the Kinsey scale.

So I thought maybe we could post here if the Male half of the couple thinks he has some good pics that are under appreciated!

Probably won’t work if it’s 20 cock pics though! "

Females do get more attention but with OH is simply have a couple of pics in privates to share when appropriate. But neither of us are that interested getting attention. Not looking (Mrs) for the attention of other males or (Mr) females. Public pic does get fab'ed quite a lot, do like the picture well the full pic and those that do thank you

OH prefers being behind camera and is very modest certainly doesn't crave attention

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Think we've made a fair stab at making sure people get a good idea of both of us.

I think I've taken some damn fine photos of E and wish they'd get a bit more love...I actually think his are way better than mine

"

I've just fabbed one

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I’m quite flattered by the amount of fabs my pics get no comparison to Jo’s of course

D.

Happy to help out "

I do enjoy your fingers

D.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I’m quite flattered by the amount of fabs my pics get no comparison to Jo’s of course

D."

You have great photos - both of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep on our profile nobody seems interested at al in our male.

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

We definitely do, SSS is hot but totally under appreciated on here.

Show him some love girls

TB

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I’m quite flattered by the amount of fabs my pics get no comparison to Jo’s of course

D.

You have great photos - both of you "

Thank you very much Babs

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love getting fabbed and to be fair didnt think I'd get any. The ones I do get are no where near to the amount luna receives, but then still take part credit as I'm usually the pose director and photographer.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Our pics together get far more interest than his pics alone, of which there are v few.

Maybe try some together?

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think we've made a fair stab at making sure people get a good idea of both of us.

I think I've taken some damn fine photos of E and wish they'd get a bit more love...I actually think his are way better than mine

I've just fabbed one "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it possibly because men look at couples profiles looking just at the woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possibly because men look at couples profiles looking just at the woman?"

Very true most are only interested in the woman anyway, sure most would like to say to the to the guy go down stairs to pub while I sort out your wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possibly because men look at couples profiles looking just at the woman?

Very true most are only interested in the woman anyway, sure most would like to say to the to the guy go down stairs to pub while I sort out your wife."

We get lots of messages just like that, usually with a dick pic.

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