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By *ackinabox19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Just interested in others thoughts around this subject as for me it has to be a mental connection as much or if not slightly more than a psychical one, it has to be about the mind before the body to really intrigue me, I understand we are all different and I know most will say both which is the obvious answer but I couldn’t meet somebody I thought was really attractive if we didn’t connect mentally but I could meet somebody that maybe the attraction wasn’t as strong but mentally we clicked.

I appreciate you taking part and sharing

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Lass

Have only met one man where it was lust at first sight. Generally I like to get inside a man’s head and know what makes him tick, sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im fucking mental if that counts

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By *ueen of sleezeWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I agree i have to have that connection before i could even contemplate anything physical

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By *ackinabox19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Harrogate


"Have only met one man where it was lust at first sight. Generally I like to get inside a man’s head and know what makes him tick, sexually."

The connection is what makes it everything is just so much more intense and interesting.

In my short experience to fab life I think people miss out by not reading profiles and sending totally irrelevant messages and that’s coming from me so I totally understand where the frustration comes from for couples and single ladies

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By *ackinabox19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Harrogate


"Im fucking mental if that counts"

Hahaha for some I’m sure it will

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I've tried both ways and the mental connection is, for me, vastly more satisfying.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Im fucking mental if that counts"

I hope mental has given consent for that.

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By *eilde HoarWoman
over a year ago

In a wax coated bubble

I like both tbh....

Lust connection for one off fantasy meets... there comes a time when you see a profile and say ooft come here

Mental connection for regular friends meets, who I speak to every day and maintain great experiences with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im fucking mental if that counts

I hope mental has given consent for that. "
oh shit mental cannot have my penis as you were

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’m a tit man personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without a mental connection im not even interested in sex.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like the right mix of both mental and physical. If one is wrong, it doesn't work

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