FabSwingers.com forum: How do you like it?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you prefer to take control or be submissive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both really and depending on partner.

How about you?

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Take control....not tried being submissive but never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 100% sub. Don't have a trace of dominance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you prefer to take control or be submissive?"

The more my life unravels the more submissive im becoming, wont long now until i'm begging to be kept as a pet and put in a cage in the kitchen at night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Control is my reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the mood and partner...

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Both, but the more turned on I am, the more I like to take control x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Lass

I like assertive men. I like to push against their assertiveness. I’m not sure what that makes me? Difficult?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I switch... Like to be bossed around when I've had a crazy day at work. And other times, like to take control and do a bit of teasing...but got to be in the mood for it..

x Niki

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be in control, but I also like my ass played with by a woman and I feel I'm giving up control when I do that. I would also like to try pegging at some point which would make my role entirely submissive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the mood totally, i love to dominate but sometimes im just in the mood to be... used

Love it when a woman wants to take the lead when i am doing so..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends both nice to be dominated sometimes

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Definitely got to switch it up.

I think I’m (Mr) naturally more dominant in the bedroom and I think more often than not, me being more in control and the Mrs being more submissive is what works for us.

But there are definitely days when I want Mrs to jump on me and abuse me!

Thankfully, she’s happy to switch it up from time to time too!

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By *eilde HoarWoman
over a year ago

In a wax coated bubble

"I like assertive men. I like to push against their assertiveness. I’m not sure what that makes me? Difficult?

I am the same, but was given the description of being a omega in a discussion on this topic

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

Maybe slightly submissive because the most important thing for me is that my partner is enjoying it.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Both extremes with the right person..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be bossy but not Dom so I prefer the guy to take the lead !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to create mental orgasms building them slowly and only letting her release it on my command

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to create mental orgasms building them slowly and only letting her release it on my command "
i then like to stack multiples until i think she will pass out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Submissive I let the missus do all the housework/cooking/cleaning

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I like it firm and fruity and I like the taste of a woman's tonsils.

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By *elshyXOMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Always happy to switch it to whatever dynamic works best & is the most fun! I find pleasure in either!

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By *antrelWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham/Cardiff

"I like assertive men. I like to push against their assertiveness. I’m not sure what that makes me? Difficult?

Me too, I think maybe I’m a brat?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I pretty much go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a bratty, bossy sub!

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Take control of the mind and then have the body fully responsive and at my mercy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have yet to find someone who can control me, I wriggle a lot

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I used to be 100% sub but in the past 6 months have found that I also enjoy dominating too. Quite enjoy being Cruel Mistress Lisa with her whip lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. I like equal sex. To me the use of the terms control and submissive etc suggests that there's some kind of power to be had. That doesn't sound like fun to me. Yet it does seem to be all the rage among many on here. Maybe I'm odd. *shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to be 100% sub but in the past 6 months have found that I also enjoy dominating too. Quite enjoy being Cruel Mistress Lisa with her whip lol x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like to control... x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bit of both really and depending on partner.

How about you?"

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a woman take control - I only know one thing... to provide maximum pleasure under my control

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

Can't beat switching.

Though with the ladies, I do tend to naturally be more dom.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of both"

A lot of men on Fab are like that.

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By *raven400Man
over a year ago

Denton

I like to see in the moment. Inherently i tend to favour dominant but never say never

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By *raven400Man
over a year ago

Denton

"Bit of both

A lot of men on Fab are like that."

I see what you did there hahaha

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I prefer to be in control 99 percent of the time.

That odd 1 percent?

You really do need to know what you're doing

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By *entleRMan
over a year ago

Telford

"Do you prefer to take control or be submissive?"

Not over controlling, but not submissive either

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By *arooned64Man
over a year ago

dudley

Definitely submissive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am and have been a Dominant for many years....but I have switched a few times for the right person of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bit of both

A lot of men on Fab are like that.

I see what you did there hahaha

Gave me a good giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Submissive here.

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"I like assertive men. I like to push against their assertiveness. I’m not sure what that makes me? Difficult?

A bit of a brat

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By *reyjatransgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Cullercoats

I can be a switch but I like a man to have his way with me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood. Different women bring the Dom side out in me and then I just want to use her.

I love the thought of being someone's sub too and following orders. Like I can imagine a dominant lady saying..

"get done there and eat me"

Yes ma'am

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on my mood. Different women bring the Dom side out in me and then I just want to use her.

I love the thought of being someone's sub too and following orders. Like I can imagine a dominant lady saying..

"get done there and eat me"

Yes ma'am

You've gave that some thought.

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