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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

....is such a naff, unimaginative and puerile comment to make. A block would send the same message. Hurrah forThursday rant!

Ever had a nasty comment? Don't say what they were. How if you deal with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cry sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked the person after calling them a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I eat ice cream and wish I could grow my hair again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had any on here but on Kik I rip them a new one no need to be cunts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of nasty comments. It hurts, especially when my depression is in a bad patch, but I've been dealing with people like that since my first day of school.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Depends on how bad it is.

Tell them off and block or if it's really bad we report it.

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

On a previous profile a long time ago, I gave a 'thank you for asking, but I would not be looking to meet you'. I got something along the lines of....I wouldn't have shagged you anyway you fat old cow, I bet a slapper like you has loads of illegitimate kids and grandkids scattered across the country....Admin did remove him from the site immediately.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Lots of nasty comments. It used to bother me when I first joined. I really couldn't fathom how people could be so nasty to someone they didn't know. My skin has gotten thicker since then. Now I block and sometimes have a rant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a previous profile a long time ago, I gave a 'thank you for asking, but I would not be looking to meet you'. I got something along the lines of....I wouldn't have shagged you anyway you fat old cow, I bet a slapper like you has loads of illegitimate kids and grandkids scattered across the country....Admin did remove him from the site immediately. "

There's no need for it some people need to get a life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get loads of them being too ugly fat etc when I say no thanks or ask did they read the first lines of my profile. Tend not to reply much these days to the ones I’m not interested in, get really frustrated at how difficult it is for people to understand that I’m not interested in people who do not live locally and bearded men? At least 90% of my messages are from people who are one or both of these. Have people message me asking why I deleted their message!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of nasty comments. It used to bother me when I first joined. I really couldn't fathom how people could be so nasty to someone they didn't know. My skin has gotten thicker since then. Now I block and sometimes have a rant x"

Let em have it back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get loads of them being too ugly fat etc when I say no thanks or ask did they read the first lines of my profile. Tend not to reply much these days to the ones I’m not interested in, get really frustrated at how difficult it is for people to understand that I’m not interested in people who do not live locally and bearded men? At least 90% of my messages are from people who are one or both of these. Have people message me asking why I deleted their message!!"

I bet that's the problem on here blokes don't read and think it's a given for a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once upon a time this really bothered me but I then realised what sad, pathetic little creatures (both male and female) take to bullying behind the veil of the internet and I don't give a flying fuck anymore.

They're just inconvenient, immature little people who really need to go out and gather themselves a life away from Fab (and the rest of the internet perhaps)

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'd just agree with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I really am too ugly to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many pyjama keyboard warriors on here and everywhere else on the internet.

Take no notice - it's not about you it's about something they're lacking in their own lives.

I have had plenty of nasty comments on and off of here - it started from a very young age.

I was unfortunate- I'm mixed race, chubby, frizzy hair - I wasn't popular with the boys.

I got insulted by adults too.

Racism was a thing in the 80's.

Then I was from a single parent family so we were broke = more insults.

I could go on but you might need to get your violin

On here it's mainly insults about my weight.

It stings sometimes but I try not to take it to heart.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'd just agree with them "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I laugh i think then take my vengeance by destroying them in every way mess with the bull get the horns up the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But its normaly a coward hiding behind other people to them i say as my kids do

Come at me bro

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I just dont understand why anyone would belittle or bully anyone else.

Are they so out of touch with reality that a no thanks offends them so much?

Mind you I do like the give as good as you get then block option.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"But its normaly a coward hiding behind other people to them i say as my kids do

Come at me bro "

Sounds like fighting talk from the hood count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But its normaly a coward hiding behind other people to them i say as my kids do

Come at me bro

Sounds like fighting talk from the hood count "
lord of the people not just orgasms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I get it about my weight too. X

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"But its normaly a coward hiding behind other people to them i say as my kids do

Come at me bro

Sounds like fighting talk from the hood count lord of the people not just orgasms"

*tips flatcap*

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Yeah I get it about my weight too. X"

Fuck em, if you're happy then they can go swivel

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"I have had plenty of nasty comments on and off of here … It stings sometimes but I try not to take it to heart."

Anyone insulting you from pictures and profile alone is completely off their rocker. You’re bloody gorgeous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have feelings too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often they leave you a bit gutted. Just because it's online it doesn't mean it's not hurtful. Ppl can say stuff with no base or truth to it and you can't do anything about it or to correct them and then that shit becomes "fact" online....

It usually says more about the person making the nasty comment than who it's directed at....

Much love

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Just words from someone I don’t know.... slope of the shoulders is the best way

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I have feelings too "

You look lovely in your suit

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Often they leave you a bit gutted. Just because it's online it doesn't mean it's not hurtful. Ppl can say stuff with no base or truth to it and you can't do anything about it or to correct them and then that shit becomes "fact" online....

It usually says more about the person making the nasty comment than who it's directed at....

Much love "

Online insults have never left me feeling gutted tbh but then I can be quite a strong character, other people cannot handle it though, you just don’t know the circumstances of the person you are abusing, not everyone is quite as mindful as some of us

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It’s never happened to me but if you did I would just say. look sweetheart you’re no Joan Collins yourself good luck to you and bye-bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't usually get to respond as the "insult followed by block" is a favourite move of men here. So do I need to say anything? Haven't they just proved that they're a spineless, useless cockwomble? No need for me to tell them.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"I don't usually get to respond as the "insult followed by block" is a favourite move of men here. So do I need to say anything? Haven't they just proved that they're a spineless, useless cockwomble? No need for me to tell them.

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But need to let others know they are too

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It does make me laugh when people message you purely just to insult you. I usually just laugh, show it to my friends then delete it.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Males you wonder what people are like in real life who message just to insult someone.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Don't say what is in the mails as it is against rules. The question is how you deal with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Males you wonder what people are like in real life who message just to insult someone."

Discontented, frustrated, riddled with self loathing, loneliness and defeat. Its hard not to feel angry but mostly it just makes me sad and thankful that I'm not so wretched and miserable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did many years ago have a period of random abusive messages. I blocked.

But to be honest, whilst I shrug it off, it does still play on your mind a little.

Sometimes Fab is a little retreat from the real world, so having that equilibrium upset can make you lose mojo?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I have a fair few, mostly along the lines of fat slag, I don't really care, it makes me laugh now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She trying to put her insecurities on to you boss she's obv not comfortable in her own skin

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

What people may think or say about me doesn't bother me in the slightest. On the odd occasion I received a less than pleasant message, I chuckle to myself and carry on

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

All the damn time. I laugh, feel pity for them and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do u know what nemesis means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocked the person after calling them a cunt "

Been blocked before having the chance to

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Don't say what is in the mails as it is against rules. The question is how you deal with them."
I did request not to quote from messages

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Lass

I’ve only ever had two nasty messages. I told one of them off and got an apology. The other i just blocked.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Don't say what is in the mails as it is against rules. The question is how you deal with them. I did request not to quote from messages "

Obviously some people ignored you

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Don't say what is in the mails as it is against rules. The question is how you deal with them. I did request not to quote from messages

Obviously some people ignored you"
they often do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fair few. Mostly when politely declining, but have had a couple apropos of nothing.

It can sting, but then realised blocking was a very real option.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Don't say what is in the mails as it is against rules. The question is how you deal with them. I did request not to quote from messages

Obviously some people ignored you they often do! "

Welcome to my world

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

normally an outburst of names when i turn someone down, yet minutes before singing me out of the trees! BLOCK!!

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"....is such a naff, unimaginative and puerile comment to make. A block would send the same message. Hurrah forThursday rant!

Ever had a nasty comment? Don't say what they were. How if you deal with it?"
Yeah plenty ,not really nasty more rude implying that your not worthy to enquire about me or us. Does,nt bother me much just pure ignorance ,unfortunately these people exist. Fuck they think I,m ugly " so what" fuck if we all fancied the same life would be pretty dull would,nt it....!!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I find them funny - it's a stranger on the internet, therefor their opinion means absolutely diddly squat to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find them funny - it's a stranger on the internet, therefor their opinion means absolutely diddly squat to me."

I do have to keep telling myself that.

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By *ants cockWoman
over a year ago

lincoln


"....is such a naff, unimaginative and puerile comment to make. A block would send the same message. Hurrah forThursday rant!

Ever had a nasty comment? Don't say what they were. How if you deal with it?"

Sadly had loads of nasty first messages I sometimes give it back sometimes just block. I just wonder , why send a message to someone you’re not attracted to an then be vile

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Occasionally I'll get one, usually out of the blue. I leave it unread and ignore it, it seems to piss them off more when they think their "witty" put down wasn't even noticed. It bothers me not.

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Occasionally I'll get one, usually out of the blue. I leave it unread and ignore it, it seems to piss them off more when they think their "witty" put down wasn't even noticed. It bothers me not. "
they'd be daft to send you such a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Occasionally I'll get one, usually out of the blue. I leave it unread and ignore it, it seems to piss them off more when they think their "witty" put down wasn't even noticed. It bothers me not. "

I just got one of these, said I was too ugly and I would never find someone who would fuck me, left it unread and deleted it wS so hard not to have a rant but I'm blocked so wouldn't have happened. How harsh of people though!! Think I'll cry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sence ive join fab all i get its abuse and women call me ugly and after block me..i know the feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's terrible that's just people when karma catches up with them.... there fucked.... assholes.... I've checked ur profile sorry as a woman I dont know y they wud say that at all.....hope ur ok x

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Maybe it's that I survived the 80,s as a ginger AKA dragon skin, but no nasty ffker( and there has been a few on here) has ever brought me down,

And why you may ask,,

Well it's simple and it's something we all have in common on here, ...

There far more, Way More cool , nice , respectful people here than arseholes, so let the haters hate , stick out the chest and walk on,

Fffk em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't remember ever having a nasty comment.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Occasionally I'll get one, usually out of the blue. I leave it unread and ignore it, it seems to piss them off more when they think their "witty" put down wasn't even noticed. It bothers me not.

I just got one of these, said I was too ugly and I would never find someone who would fuck me, left it unread and deleted it wS so hard not to have a rant but I'm blocked so wouldn't have happened. How harsh of people though!! Think I'll cry "

Hateful fuckers, they're to be pitied if that's their idea of entertainment. How shitty must their lives be that this is how they choose to spend an evening.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"But I really am too ugly to fuck. "

Definitely not...I like what I see..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do t know wy i get nasty comments and called ugly..im honest and alwais send my face picture..its been a wile im not called ugly

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

It says more about them than you.

Don't waste your energy on the undeserving, save it for lovely people and yourself

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Block and obliterate from your mind

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I've never been called ugly after sending a face pic

I would instantly not want to meet anybody who would say that so wouldn't worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here yes occasionally but after about 5 minutes I get over it.

In normal life occasionally too, today walking down the road with Ash we got absolute foul abuse from a complete stranger. No idea what sparked that but 30 minutes later we saw him being arrested so I guess he was just being hateful to a lot of people. That took a little longer to get over but we did.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Ignore and move on.

Those people who put you down are already lower than you anyway.

They aren't worth a second thought.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Some guy on here called me 'jabba the hutt' once. Ffs.

Apparently I'm fat.

No shit sherlock.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"Some guy on here called me 'jabba the hutt' once. Ffs.

Apparently I'm fat.

No shit sherlock. "

That's not even imaginative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd do you if you want to

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"I'd do you if you want to "

You just stick to those water melons

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"....is such a naff, unimaginative and puerile comment to make. A block would send the same message. Hurrah forThursday rant!

Ever had a nasty comment? Don't say what they were. How if you deal with it?"

I would reply I'm happy to double bag you and let's make it doggy just to be sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd do you if you want to

You just stick to those water melons "

I can't find any during winter

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't get as many these days, but then I don't get many messages at all these days.

They used to make me angry, particularly the ones from lurkers posting something hateful as a response to something I had posted on the forum and then blocking me. Or, the ones that were/are about my ethnicity and/or weight.

Now I just ignore, have a little shimmy shake and come onto the forum to be mean to someone else. Paying it forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, I know my worst qualities so it's water off a duck's back.

You've just got to remind yourself that the kind of person to say such things to a stranger over the Internet aren't worth the negative energy - it's a waste on you and them.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Keyboard warriors... that’s what the delete button is for..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pump says. I am waay too ugly to fuck! Seriously, I would not go there, no barge pole is long enough! Ugh!

Thankfully taste is relative and not everyone in the world thinks the same way. Phew! Dodged a bullet there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Occasionally I'll get one, usually out of the blue. I leave it unread and ignore it, it seems to piss them off more when they think their "witty" put down wasn't even noticed. It bothers me not.

I just got one of these, said I was too ugly and I would never find someone who would fuck me, left it unread and deleted it wS so hard not to have a rant but I'm blocked so wouldn't have happened. How harsh of people though!! Think I'll cry "

I'm not seeing anything except a woman in very good shape, with enviable legs and very tasteful lingerie. Am I missing something? It's not just ignorant and rude, it doesn't even make any sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Occasionally I'll get one, usually out of the blue. I leave it unread and ignore it, it seems to piss them off more when they think their "witty" put down wasn't even noticed. It bothers me not.

I just got one of these, said I was too ugly and I would never find someone who would fuck me, left it unread and deleted it wS so hard not to have a rant but I'm blocked so wouldn't have happened. How harsh of people though!! Think I'll cry

Hateful fuckers, they're to be pitied if that's their idea of entertainment. How shitty must their lives be that this is how they choose to spend an evening."

Haters gotta hate. And potatoes gotta potate

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey

No body is too ugly, beauty in everyone x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Tbh I’ve been very fortunate - possibly because my profiles have always been friendly and positive (I hope!)

I do remember posting a pic one Christmas of me in a mrs santa outfit though - and a rather gorgeous, much younger lady posted a pic in the same outfit!

One chap - who later admitted he was a little d*unk - messaged me just to point out how much hotter the other lady looked in the outfit than me!

Instead of getting cross or blocking him, I asked if I’d done or said something to hurt him before, agreed that the lady in question looked amazing - and pointed out that it was totally unnecessary and perhaps a little hurtful to contact me just to insult me!

He apologised unreservedly! Hopefully he thought twice before contacting someone else just to be unkind! Hopefully!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate nasty people. No need to be unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've had a few some people just can't help themselves,I block and just thank the Lord I'm normal

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