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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

I've seen quite a lot of mentions of people being broken since I've been on the forum. And I'm not here to say how you should or shouldn't feel. God knows I've felt it enough.

But I had a piece of advice from a friend who was far wiser than I. And they compared it with a vase, yes you can smash a vase into pieces, but you can glue those pieces together. You may still see the cracks, and the amount you can depends on how much it was broken. But the vase still works, it'll still hold water and the beautiful flowers. You conquered a lot to survive whatever was sent to break you, that makes you strong not broken. Lots of love and hugs to all of you

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Beautiful. Think it's the Chinese that when something breaks they use a gold substance to glue it back together. To make a point that it is still beautiful x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good so is that why the oldrr you get the more wee wees you need leaky cracks?

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Failing this advice...

BeMoreGMF

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

"Very good so is that why the oldrr you get the more wee wees you need leaky cracks?

Well I would recommend adding more superglue to your urethral opening

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Thank you, Frida, that's a lovely sentiment

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

"Beautiful. Think it's the Chinese that when something breaks they use a gold substance to glue it back together. To make a point that it is still beautiful x"

Perhaps that's where they got the idea from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very good so is that why the oldrr you get the more wee wees you need leaky cracks?

Well I would recommend adding more superglue to your urethral opening

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oooo il try that when im old and do the cough fart wee trifectas

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

"Very good so is that why the oldrr you get the more wee wees you need leaky cracks?

Well I would recommend adding more superglue to your urethral opening

oooo il try that when im old and do the cough fart wee trifectas"

Let me know how that works for you, or maybe not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very good so is that why the oldrr you get the more wee wees you need leaky cracks?

Well I would recommend adding more superglue to your urethral opening

oooo il try that when im old and do the cough fart wee trifectas

Let me know how that works for you, or maybe not!"

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Failing this advice...

BeMoreGMF"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frida, you are such a wise and beautiful soul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kintsugi(or kintsukuroi)is a Japanese method for repairing broken ceramics with a special lacquer mixed with gold, silver, or platinum. The philosophy behind the technique is to recognize the history of the object and to visibly incorporate the repair into the new piece instead of disguising it. The process usually results in something more beautiful than the original."

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

""Kintsugi(or kintsukuroi)is a Japanese method for repairing broken ceramics with a special lacquer mixed with gold, silver, or platinum. The philosophy behind the technique is to recognize the history of the object and to visibly incorporate the repair into the new piece instead of disguising it. The process usually results in something more beautiful than the original.""

That's what I was thinking of x

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

That is lovely

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

"Frida, you are such a wise and beautiful soul

Thanks Hun, not my words but ones of an incredible lady I knew

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

"Awww love you

Awww cwtch

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

"Thank you, Frida, that's a lovely sentiment "

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

"Failing this advice...

BeMoreGMF"

And what would that entail?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Failing this advice...

BeMoreGMF

And what would that entail? "

Brave lady....

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

"Failing this advice...

BeMoreGMF

And what would that entail?

Brave lady....

Since when was I a lady!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice words.

In fact theres some fantastic cracks in here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And remember, you are unique, there is only one you in the whole world, so how can you not be perfect.

Beautiful frida. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Failing this advice...

BeMoreGMF

And what would that entail?

Brave lady....

Since when was I a lady!!!"

Always a woman to me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you, that’s lovely x

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

"Thank you, that’s lovely x "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A vase?! I'm an elegant objet d'art, slightly cracked....

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

"A vase?! I'm an elegant objet d'art, slightly cracked...."

Expensive Ming one maybe?

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Nice post OP

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

So true

weathered and resilient.. it’s not a weakness.

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

Strength to carry on when you think you are broken is never weakness in my eyes

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

It’s amazing who tries to shatter you. But it’s very true what they say....... what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strength to carry on when you think you are broken is never weakness in my eyes "

What if they give up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be water my friend.

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

"Strength to carry on when you think you are broken is never weakness in my eyes

What if they give up?"

Surviving and just getting your arse out of bed sone days takes some more strength than some can imagine. Depends what you define as giving up

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

"Be water my friend.

Wish I was that happy go lucky unfortunately I am not, but it's a trait I admire a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be water my friend.

I prefer Rum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the day I came to the conclusion I was perfectly imperfect and imperfectly perfect I became a lot happier with life. It took a lot of emotional clearing and catharsis to get to that point where I was able to accept myself as I am. Since then I’ve endeavoured to change the the things I might be able to change but been much more gentle with myself in the process.

Every day is another to discover a little more of who I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the day I came to the conclusion I was perfectly imperfect and imperfectly perfect I became a lot happier with life. It took a lot of emotional clearing and catharsis to get to that point where I was able to accept myself as I am. Since then I’ve endeavoured to change the the things I might be able to change but been much more gentle with myself in the process.

Every day is another to discover a little more of who I am.

I love this.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Every day is another to discover a little more of who I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....beautiful.....

.....to me.......

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By *emorefrida OP Couple
over a year ago

La la land

Every day is another to discover a little more of who I am.

Lovely words

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Weekend positivity.

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