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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a scruffy sod these days but would quite like to wear a nice suit etc like an old man I knew who always looked smart.

What other qualities maketh the gent of today?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the attire, it's how you behave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners....to me it doesn't matter what a man wears its how he treats people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not the attire, it's how you behave."

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"It's not the attire, it's how you behave."

This

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay


"It's not the attire, it's how you behave."

This. I dress like Motorheads roadie but I like to think Im one of the nicest and polite guys you could meet. Its never about whats on the surface

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"It's not the attire, it's how you behave."

Respect, integrity, politeness, kindness. All of the basic good person traits.

I think a few men on here think that it's solely how they act when they want to get in someone's vagina. It's more than that.

Being a decent human will get you some way to being one OP.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

It's the man inside that makes the gentleman.

A guy doesn't have to wear a suit to be nice.

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By *modDMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

It's all very sweet this 'manners maketh the man' stuff but it's mostly bullshit of course.

If you rock up in a pair of pale blue Matalan jeans, a t-shirt due a wash and a pair of Adidas 4 stripes, you're most probably not going to get chance to show just how well-mannered you are.

It's still about the cloth too.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Just a man in a suit, take that away and what is he?

"Genius, playboy, billionaire, philanthropist."

- Tony Stark

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am gentleman. Was thinking of looking the part. Not a spiv or bank manager and of course developing the well mannered qualities of a gentleman of society.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners and respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting that in the past to be a gentleman you only needed to have wealth and could still be a shit-bag. Now to be a gentleman you can be poor and you are measured by what you do and how you treat people not what you have. A change for the good ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all very sweet this 'manners maketh the man' stuff but it's mostly bullshit of course.

If you rock up in a pair of pale blue Matalan jeans, a t-shirt due a wash and a pair of Adidas 4 stripes, you're most probably not going to get chance to show just how well-mannered you are.

It's still about the cloth too."

To a certain extent, yes. Making an effort for someone shows you care for their opinion of you after all, which isn't a bad impression to give.

The key is to do it effortlessly or "just know" and still be comfortable in what you're wearing, rather than looking like a Borstal Boy with his Dad's suit chucked on for a court hearing.

B

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

To me it how you treat people allways be respectfull and polite no matter what

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Respect, confidence and clothes. It doesn't have to be a suit necessarily and a gent can wear a vest and jogging pants and still be a gent but I like my gifts nicely wrapped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good manners and clean shoes

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By *modDMan
over a year ago

Lichfield


"Respect, confidence and clothes. It doesn't have to be a suit necessarily and a gent can wear a vest and jogging pants and still be a gent but I like my gifts nicely wrapped "

Nimby?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners and respect "

A monkey in a suit is still a monkey.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Respect, confidence and clothes. It doesn't have to be a suit necessarily and a gent can wear a vest and jogging pants and still be a gent but I like my gifts nicely wrapped

Nimby? "

Nimby? Not in my back yard? If a no felt wrapped gent wants to land in my back yard who am I to comp!ain?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*nicely wrapped.! This darn auto correct

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Manners and respect

A monkey in a suit is still a monkey."

What is this recent trend of monkey bashing (erm .. well you know what I mean)

I wear a suit to work and I'm a bloody nice chap don't you know

But yes … it is attitude above all things .. you can't polish a turd … even rolled in glitter .. it is still a turd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners maketh man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners maketh man "

And the ability to give piggy backs whilst running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners maketh man

And the ability to give piggy backs whilst running "

Just hold my hair out my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kindness

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Manners maketh man

And the ability to give piggy backs whilst running "

One lady on each arm - a true gentleman. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Respect, confidence and clothes. It doesn't have to be a suit necessarily and a gent can wear a vest and jogging pants and still be a gent but I like my gifts nicely wrapped

Nimby? "

It's nippy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holding the door open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here are a few things gentlemen do.

They protect the faragile and weak. They give the seats in buses for old people, the give their places in the queue for pregnant women etc etc.

They are considerate to others, for example they would help a waiter who dropped a fork from a pile of dishes when his hands were full.

Gentlemen are courteous to everyone at all levels of society from the highest of the high to the lowest of the low.

While the occasional expletive is allowed for effect. A gentle does not use the F word to replace every adverb and adjective in a sentence. Never swears in front of women or children.

He walks on the traffic side of the sidewalk when escorting a lady, opens the door for her or any other lady. Stands aside to let her pass. He does not follow a lady up a flight if stairs and stare at her bottom.

He takes a ladies chair out for her, stands when she stands and will never be seated in any area such as airport lounge when pregnant women, old people or the disabled are standing.

He may not be wealthy and dressed in the finest threads. But he is always clean. Smells fresh (but not bathed in cologne) and maintains personal hygiene.

A gentleman is quick to praise and give credit where it is due but are sincere not obsequious. They are slow to anger and are confident in who they are without a need to brag or prove themselves.

Gentlemen do not lie. Their honour and reputation are more important to them than gain of any kind.

Sounds terribly boring doesn't it? But I know a few gentlemen, some on this site who meet all these criteria and they are fun personified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here are a few things gentlemen do.

They protect the faragile and weak. They give the seats in buses for old people, the give their places in the queue for pregnant women etc etc.

They are considerate to others, for example they would help a waiter who dropped a fork from a pile of dishes when his hands were full.

Gentlemen are courteous to everyone at all levels of society from the highest of the high to the lowest of the low.

While the occasional expletive is allowed for effect. A gentle does not use the F word to replace every adverb and adjective in a sentence. Never swears in front of women or children.

He walks on the traffic side of the sidewalk when escorting a lady, opens the door for her or any other lady. Stands aside to let her pass. He does not follow a lady up a flight if stairs and stare at her bottom.

He takes a ladies chair out for her, stands when she stands and will never be seated in any area such as airport lounge when pregnant women, old people or the disabled are standing.

He may not be wealthy and dressed in the finest threads. But he is always clean. Smells fresh (but not bathed in cologne) and maintains personal hygiene.

A gentleman is quick to praise and give credit where it is due but are sincere not obsequious. They are slow to anger and are confident in who they are without a need to brag or prove themselves.

Gentlemen do not lie. Their honour and reputation are more important to them than gain of any kind.

Sounds terribly boring doesn't it? But I know a few gentlemen, some on this site who meet all these criteria and they are fun personified."

I agree with all apart from swearing infrom of women, those fuckers can dish it out hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be more inclined to say being a gentleman is more a state of mind than a list of do's and don'ts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners maketh man

And the ability to give piggy backs whilst running "

P can give piggy-backs... But she doesn't usually run whilst she does so! Phew!

B

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

There's many things that make a man a gentleman, but basically it's just a case of not being a 'twat'

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"There's many things that make a man a gentleman, but basically it's just a case of not being a 'twat' "

succinct wisdom!

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

You can dress mutton up as lamb mate but mutton will never be Lamb

There a lot more than being a gent than how you dress,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can dress mutton up as lamb mate but mutton will never be Lamb

There a lot more than being a gent than how you dress, "

Gentlemen are not boys sonny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners maketh man

And the ability to give piggy backs whilst running

P can give piggy-backs... But she doesn't usually run whilst she does so! Phew!

B"

It doesn't count if the carried persons feet are still on the ground..

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"It's not the attire, it's how you behave."

this. Any fella can wear a suit. It’s what’s on the inside of the person that decides if he’s a gent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here are a few things gentlemen do.

They protect the faragile and weak. They give the seats in buses for old people, the give their places in the queue for pregnant women etc etc.

They are considerate to others, for example they would help a waiter who dropped a fork from a pile of dishes when his hands were full.

Gentlemen are courteous to everyone at all levels of society from the highest of the high to the lowest of the low.

While the occasional expletive is allowed for effect. A gentle does not use the F word to replace every adverb and adjective in a sentence. Never swears in front of women or children.

He walks on the traffic side of the sidewalk when escorting a lady, opens the door for her or any other lady. Stands aside to let her pass. He does not follow a lady up a flight if stairs and stare at her bottom.

He takes a ladies chair out for her, stands when she stands and will never be seated in any area such as airport lounge when pregnant women, old people or the disabled are standing.

He may not be wealthy and dressed in the finest threads. But he is always clean. Smells fresh (but not bathed in cologne) and maintains personal hygiene.

A gentleman is quick to praise and give credit where it is due but are sincere not obsequious. They are slow to anger and are confident in who they are without a need to brag or prove themselves.

Gentlemen do not lie. Their honour and reputation are more important to them than gain of any kind.

Sounds terribly boring doesn't it? But I know a few gentlemen, some on this site who meet all these criteria and they are fun personified."

I was doing so well until you got to the following up the stairs bit....

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I can be a scruffy sod too

At home - rural village living - I often rough it in a Ralph, Barbour, and Hunter apparel...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here are a few things gentlemen do.

They protect the faragile and weak. They give the seats in buses for old people, the give their places in the queue for pregnant women etc etc.

They are considerate to others, for example they would help a waiter who dropped a fork from a pile of dishes when his hands were full.

Gentlemen are courteous to everyone at all levels of society from the highest of the high to the lowest of the low.

While the occasional expletive is allowed for effect. A gentle does not use the F word to replace every adverb and adjective in a sentence. Never swears in front of women or children.

He walks on the traffic side of the sidewalk when escorting a lady, opens the door for her or any other lady. Stands aside to let her pass. He does not follow a lady up a flight if stairs and stare at her bottom.

He takes a ladies chair out for her, stands when she stands and will never be seated in any area such as airport lounge when pregnant women, old people or the disabled are standing.

He may not be wealthy and dressed in the finest threads. But he is always clean. Smells fresh (but not bathed in cologne) and maintains personal hygiene.

A gentleman is quick to praise and give credit where it is due but are sincere not obsequious. They are slow to anger and are confident in who they are without a need to brag or prove themselves.

Gentlemen do not lie. Their honour and reputation are more important to them than gain of any kind.

Sounds terribly boring doesn't it? But I know a few gentlemen, some on this site who meet all these criteria and they are fun personified.

I was doing so well until you got to the following up the stairs bit...."

If you sing along to yourself it covers the fact that your head is bobbing from side to side in rhythm with her butt cheeks....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A suit does not make a man his actions make him

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Here are a few things gentlemen do.

They protect the faragile and weak. They give the seats in buses for old people, the give their places in the queue for pregnant women etc etc.

They are considerate to others, for example they would help a waiter who dropped a fork from a pile of dishes when his hands were full.

Gentlemen are courteous to everyone at all levels of society from the highest of the high to the lowest of the low.

While the occasional expletive is allowed for effect. A gentle does not use the F word to replace every adverb and adjective in a sentence. Never swears in front of women or children.

He walks on the traffic side of the sidewalk when escorting a lady, opens the door for her or any other lady. Stands aside to let her pass. He does not follow a lady up a flight if stairs and stare at her bottom.

He takes a ladies chair out for her, stands when she stands and will never be seated in any area such as airport lounge when pregnant women, old people or the disabled are standing.

He may not be wealthy and dressed in the finest threads. But he is always clean. Smells fresh (but not bathed in cologne) and maintains personal hygiene.

A gentleman is quick to praise and give credit where it is due but are sincere not obsequious. They are slow to anger and are confident in who they are without a need to brag or prove themselves.

Gentlemen do not lie. Their honour and reputation are more important to them than gain of any kind.

Sounds terribly boring doesn't it? But I know a few gentlemen, some on this site who meet all these criteria and they are fun personified."

Absolutely!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"There's many things that make a man a gentleman, but basically it's just a case of not being a 'twat' "

Bingo!

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