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"I was a trouble maker, always up to mischief of some sort. I met my old secondary school principal the other day at an event, she referred to me as ‘spirited’ " Why doesn't this surprise me? Lol I was a cheeky git!! | |||
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"I was good in school, but on the hockey field I was an absolute terror " Why doesn't this surprise me?? | |||
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"Precocious, gifted, constantly asking questions, massive book nerd, really a bit of a condescending twat towards other children I didn't feel measured up academically. I'd like to say I've changed but I really haven't. " Quelle surprise | |||
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"I was a loner for most of it. I always seemed to struggle to make good friends. Academically I was top set for almost everything." Similarly, until 3rd year in big school I had no friends. It took me to knock the school bully out before I was able grow in confidence and show my personality without fear. Brains wise, I passed most of my GCSE's but was no scholar. | |||
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"I was a loner for most of it. I always seemed to struggle to make good friends. Academically I was top set for almost everything. Similarly, until 3rd year in big school I had no friends. It took me to knock the school bully out before I was able grow in confidence and show my personality without fear. Brains wise, I passed most of my GCSE's but was no scholar." I'm a natural born coward so none of that confidence for me lol. School was horrific, let's just say that. | |||
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"Precocious, gifted, constantly asking questions, massive book nerd, really a bit of a condescending twat towards other children I didn't feel measured up academically. I'd like to say I've changed but I really haven't. " We *so* would have been mates at school, you and I | |||
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"Precocious, gifted, constantly asking questions, massive book nerd, really a bit of a condescending twat towards other children I didn't feel measured up academically. I'd like to say I've changed but I really haven't. " This | |||
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"Precocious, gifted, constantly asking questions, massive book nerd, really a bit of a condescending twat towards other children I didn't feel measured up academically. I'd like to say I've changed but I really haven't. This " Oh good there’s a few of us then | |||
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"I was very shy and quiet. I was easily influenced and a very easy target for bullies. I couldn't focus on my education because the bullying was horrific. I never did well in school as I'd always be at the back with my head down or sat in the toilets all day. I am still quite timid these days but I've changed so much. I'd bloody love to go back in time and redo school with the mindset I have now. " This makes me feel so sad. I despise bullying!! Sending your school self a big hug x | |||
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"Yep, hiding from my bullies. " Yes me too, it caused untold issues giving me depression and anxiety issues as an adult I was described as an abused child by the one to one mental health assessment which shocked me, all down to being bullied as a child, Aged about 9 I started to fight back. At 13 I was regarded as someone not to push as I had a temper. But inside always hated violence But in general hated school | |||
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"I was very shy and quiet. I was easily influenced and a very easy target for bullies. I couldn't focus on my education because the bullying was horrific. I never did well in school as I'd always be at the back with my head down or sat in the toilets all day. I am still quite timid these days but I've changed so much. I'd bloody love to go back in time and redo school with the mindset I have now. This makes me feel so sad. I despise bullying!! Sending your school self a big hug x" Aw thank you Lucie! I'll teach my daughter to be kind and treat people with respect. I hate the thought of kids going through bullying. It's so needless and cruel and when you're so young it feels like the worst thing in the world! | |||
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"School protector and unofficial sheriff defending from attacks of other schools" That takes me back...school on school ruckass. | |||
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"I was very shy and quiet. I was easily influenced and a very easy target for bullies. I couldn't focus on my education because the bullying was horrific. I never did well in school as I'd always be at the back with my head down or sat in the toilets all day. I am still quite timid these days but I've changed so much. I'd bloody love to go back in time and redo school with the mindset I have now. This makes me feel so sad. I despise bullying!! Sending your school self a big hug x Aw thank you Lucie! I'll teach my daughter to be kind and treat people with respect. I hate the thought of kids going through bullying. It's so needless and cruel and when you're so young it feels like the worst thing in the world! " It really does feel like the worst thing when you’re that age. So damaging. I suffered it slightly but not to the extent I hid in toilets all day. No one should feel that way. You seem like a lovely soul anyway and I bet they are still nasty bullies. So who’s the winner | |||
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"Precocious, gifted, constantly asking questions, massive book nerd, really a bit of a condescending twat towards other children I didn't feel measured up academically. I'd like to say I've changed but I really haven't. This Oh good there’s a few of us then " Nerds Unite! | |||
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"I’m remembered as the little one you didn’t mess with ! Not because of bad behaviour, although I was no angel, but because I took no nonsense from anyone and I’d step in and stick up for those I thought were being treated unfairly. No one told me who I could or couldn’t talk to, I didn’t recognise set groups and mixed with everyone. The lessons I loved I excelled in, those I didn’t the teachers and I bashed heads a few times. Boarding school you can’t go home and forget the day, you have to stand up to it and deal. I loved school and have very fond memories of it " Me too. I loved it. I was like that. I’ve never “conformed” and even back then I couldn’t abide bullies. I always stuck up for the bullied kids. Never been a crowd follower or a people pleaser. Never touched a drug in my life, even when everyone was doing it. Never tried any. Fags and booze. Different story | |||
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"I’m remembered as the little one you didn’t mess with ! Not because of bad behaviour, although I was no angel, but because I took no nonsense from anyone and I’d step in and stick up for those I thought were being treated unfairly. No one told me who I could or couldn’t talk to, I didn’t recognise set groups and mixed with everyone. The lessons I loved I excelled in, those I didn’t the teachers and I bashed heads a few times. Boarding school you can’t go home and forget the day, you have to stand up to it and deal. I loved school and have very fond memories of it Me too. I loved it. I was like that. I’ve never “conformed” and even back then I couldn’t abide bullies. I always stuck up for the bullied kids. Never been a crowd follower or a people pleaser. Never touched a drug in my life, even when everyone was doing it. Never tried any. Fags and booze. Different story " Sister from another mother ! I could have written those words and especially this sentence ‘ Never been a crowd follower or a people pleaser. Never touched a drug in my life, even when everyone was doing it. never tried any. Fags and booze. Different story’ | |||
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"I’m remembered as the little one you didn’t mess with ! Not because of bad behaviour, although I was no angel, but because I took no nonsense from anyone and I’d step in and stick up for those I thought were being treated unfairly. No one told me who I could or couldn’t talk to, I didn’t recognise set groups and mixed with everyone. The lessons I loved I excelled in, those I didn’t the teachers and I bashed heads a few times. Boarding school you can’t go home and forget the day, you have to stand up to it and deal. I loved school and have very fond memories of it Me too. I loved it. I was like that. I’ve never “conformed” and even back then I couldn’t abide bullies. I always stuck up for the bullied kids. Never been a crowd follower or a people pleaser. Never touched a drug in my life, even when everyone was doing it. Never tried any. Fags and booze. Different story Sister from another mother ! I could have written those words and especially this sentence ‘ Never been a crowd follower or a people pleaser. Never touched a drug in my life, even when everyone was doing it. never tried any. Fags and booze. Different story’ " | |||
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"Precocious, gifted, constantly asking questions, massive book nerd, really a bit of a condescending twat towards other children I didn't feel measured up academically. I'd like to say I've changed but I really haven't. " Snappity snap! Mrs TMN x | |||
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"Precocious, gifted, constantly asking questions, massive book nerd, really a bit of a condescending twat towards other children I didn't feel measured up academically. I'd like to say I've changed but I really haven't. This Oh good there’s a few of us then Nerds Unite! " I'm liking the company I am in, though we would probably bicker terribly | |||
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"Precocious, gifted, constantly asking questions, massive book nerd, really a bit of a condescending twat towards other children I didn't feel measured up academically. I'd like to say I've changed but I really haven't. This Oh good there’s a few of us then Nerds Unite! I'm liking the company I am in, though we would probably bicker terribly " And each narcissisticly think we’re the brightest | |||
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"Precocious, gifted, constantly asking questions, massive book nerd, really a bit of a condescending twat towards other children I didn't feel measured up academically. I'd like to say I've changed but I really haven't. This Oh good there’s a few of us then Nerds Unite! I'm liking the company I am in, though we would probably bicker terribly And each narcissisticly think we’re the brightest " You may be thinking it, but I would be knowing it | |||
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"Bright yet lacked confidence in my own abilities. Bit of a clown but serious when expected of me and appropriate. I would hang out with the lads and outcasts more than the "popular" girls. Those girls were bitchy twats who would throw another under the bus, lie and gang up like hyenas to crush their enemies (enemies being those who didn't agree or conform with their way of thinking, or bow down to their wonderfulness or designer shoes) I was the one who called them out on their behaviour when bullying others, especially the "weak" and had the focus directed at me. I took it to protect others. I could only take it for so long tho, and barely attended my final year. In the end it felt like I was being fed to lions, they'd wait for me after school, I'd have things pelted at me in lessons, get followed into the toilet and have the door thumped and kicked, wet toilet roll thrown over the cubicle at me, names shouted at me whilst I was trying to escape and have a piss ffs. My mum worked in the primary school next door and I was "bringing shame on her by bunking school" all she cared about was "how do you think it looks that my own daughter skips school when I work in a school myself?" "You're an embarrassment" "Those girls are the least of your worries compared to what I'll do to ya unless you get your arse there" You know, bullied at school and at home. I distanced myself from home and school and found peace on the ice, where I could just "be" and people liked me for me. I'm still that kid who stands up for what she believes in, calls people out on bullshit, lacks confidence in abilities but now.... I like me. P" Glad it worked out in the end so that you like yourself, as that's probably the most important thing in life | |||
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"I hated school, was bullied really bad as my parents was very poor so all the posh kids used to beat the crap out me most days, not one on one but in gangs, the bitchy stuck up girls and I struggled to make friends.. From the age of 13 I decided enough was enough and never went back, left school didn't even do my gcse's, which I regret now as I'm as I'm stuck in a dead end job and would of loved to have worked with anamils. X" Sad to hear that. Thought about adult learning courses? Can gain GCSE equivalents I believe, and never give up on your dream of working with animals. | |||
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