FabSwingers.com forum: Occupation deal breaker ?

By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Hi guys..

Do you find people in vanilla social events judgemental on others occupation?

Has once found out occupation of potential meet put you off?

Should it really matter ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well prostitute would be off-putting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt matter to me what someone does for a living.

What I do doesnt define me - I have a job that pays my bills.

I'd be more likely to judge someone long term unemployed.

But then everyone has their reasons - being lazy and thinking the world owes you something is something I would judge.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

The only occupations I can think of that would immediately put me off would be religious or political.

Journalists and lawyers would be given the benefit of the doubt until proven better or worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well prostitute would be off-putting!"

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally don't discuss occupation. I don't need to know their life story and they certainly aren't going to get mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the only occupation that would put me off would be Brexit MEP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally don't discuss occupation. I don't need to know their life story and they certainly aren't going to get mine. "

I'm not sure the OP meant just Fab meets.

Dont you talk with your vanilla friends about your life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally don't discuss occupation. I don't need to know their life story and they certainly aren't going to get mine.

I'm not sure the OP meant just Fab meets.

Dont you talk with your vanilla friends about your life?"

I was answering the second part of the question. In real life social situations I've never experienced people being judgemental. But then it's hard to be given the job I do.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

It shouldn't matter I fail to see why anyone would mention it I know I don't. I do find though some in uniform peddle it as a badge of honour thinking it will open doors and people who use it in that way totally turn me off.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

No traffic wardens

(Unless they are really fit)

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

Occupation should not matter. I have slept with a dentist and she was well filled, a hairdresser who did a great blow & go and a blind waitress (I had to hand it to her).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met people who judged me. But to be quite Frank I had already taken a dislike and it meant nothing.

Anybody looking down on you, be it vanilla or fab meet, has done you a favour by revealing their true selves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occupation doesn’t put me off, but it might put people off me. I’m a wannabe nerd but not quite bright enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Celebrity would probably put me on my guard, but don't think I have ever asked someone for their CV before sex.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

No it wouldnt put us off unless they were the leader of the EDL or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very occasionally get a negative reaction to what I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I very occasionally get a negative reaction to what I do. "

Hardly surprising when you sing Christmas songs in November

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any love for butchers/driller?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the hell is a butchers/driller?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What the hell is a butchers/driller? "

Occupation/profession/job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I very occasionally get a negative reaction to what I do.

Hardly surprising when you sing Christmas songs in November

Some find that endearing.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Well prostitute would be off-putting!

Why?"
exactly ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys..

Do you find people in vanilla social events judgemental on others occupation?

Has once found out occupation of potential meet put you off?

Should it really matter ?"

We base any meeting or any communication on the people or individuals, not what they do or don't do.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I generally don't discuss occupation. I don't need to know their life story and they certainly aren't going to get mine.

I'm not sure the OP meant just Fab meets.

Dont you talk with your vanilla friends about your life?"
hs ha ha ... " i,d love to tell them ,but if i did i,d then have to kill em .." boom boom ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It did this weekend. Found out last minute another couple was joining our group and when the male half of the couple asked what we both did, got an 'oh' a look away and end of conversation.

I think it's safe to say we didnt hit it off and hopefully will never see them again.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"No traffic wardens

(Unless they are really fit) "
ah but your missing the obvious.... Just think about the ANGRY sex !@@

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By *eilde HoarWoman
over a year ago

In a wax coated bubble

I instantly deleted and blocked a undertaker when he offered me a ride in his limo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I instantly deleted and blocked a undertaker when he offered me a ride in his limo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys..

Do you find people in vanilla social events judgemental on others occupation?

Has once found out occupation of potential meet put you off?

Should it really matter ?"

Yes

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I used to work in a mortuary.

Went for a job in a funeral directors, turned down because of my stupid grin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Occupation should not matter. I have slept with a dentist and she was well filled, a hairdresser who did a great blow & go and a blind waitress (I had to hand it to her)."

Brilliant lol.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

What people do for a living isn't really any concern of ours. As long as people earn an honest days living and aren't thieving scumbags, but then again would anyone admit they were a thief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What people do for a living isn't really any concern of ours. As long as people earn an honest days living and aren't thieving scumbags, but then again would anyone admit they were a thief

That's not an occupation ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to a woman on here one night and the chat was going really well. She asked me what I did for a living and as soon as I told her, end of convo, deleted. I guess truck drivers didn't do it for her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys..

Do you find people in vanilla social events judgemental on others occupation?

Has once found out occupation of potential meet put you off?

Should it really matter ?"
yes a barrister or a magistrate would put me off I'd always think they were judging me

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By *ong_John2333Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Hi guys..

Do you find people in vanilla social events judgemental on others occupation?

Has once found out occupation of potential meet put you off?

Should it really matter ?"

I'm not sure it should matter, unless you've got access to some uniforms, some tend to like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the ahem vanilla world, if there actually is one, I’ve been for numerous dates over the last few years (nothing sexual, just dinner and an evening out) and n my limited experience that it does matter.... some ppl want to have a certain lifestyle and know that there potential half can accommodate that... some don’t like one travelling a lot for work or even working in different countries from time to time.

But personally what ppl do is there choice and I respect that choice

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

In the mainstream world it would matter a little. There are some working for right-wing think tanks and other organisations I would find it difficult to align with for a relationship.

On here it matters less than that they are respectful, clean and can engage my brain.

I haven't had a dentist or a vet on here. Any dentists or vets wanting to meet me? You have 6 weeks left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate cops so never prod a bobby

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