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Thoughts on wheelchair users?

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By *amesnite11 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Hi everyone! It's quite difficult to meet as a single male, and being a wheelchair user (I think) makes it a little bit harder so I wondered if people could give me their honest opinions about their thoughts on having meets with wheelchair users.

E.g. whether you think it would be a bit of an obstacle, whether it's a turn off, a turn on, if you wouldn't know what to expect, if it's a logistical issue, if it seems fun, if you'd be worried about an uneven dynamic etc.

Would love to get a gauge on what people think. I lost the use of my legs when I was 18 after an accident, but feel free to ask any question at all, no matter how personal. Thanks for reading!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt meet a wheelchair user i need a certain level of athleticism as i pill drive vagina

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Nothing wrong with them as long as everything works you can still have lots of fun.

A lot won't accommodate though not all houses/flats are that accessible so you need to take that into account.

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Hi everyone! It's quite difficult to meet as a single male, and being a wheelchair user (I think) makes it a little bit harder so I wondered if people could give me their honest opinions about their thoughts on having meets with wheelchair users.

E.g. whether you think it would be a bit of an obstacle, whether it's a turn off, a turn on, if you wouldn't know what to expect, if it's a logistical issue, if it seems fun, if you'd be worried about an uneven dynamic etc.

Would love to get a gauge on what people think. I lost the use of my legs when I was 18 after an accident, but feel free to ask any question at all, no matter how personal. Thanks for reading!"

I don't think it would be an issue. I would wonder what obstacles we would face bit thats part of the fun right?! You have a great physique

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) can't speak for my other half, but I can certainly see myself being attracted to somebody who happens to be in a wheelchair. It has happene. It wouldn't stop me from being interested in them sexually.

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By *amesnite11 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"Nothing wrong with them as long as everything works you can still have lots of fun.

A lot won't accommodate though not all houses/flats are that accessible so you need to take that into account. "

Yeah I can definitely see that being a problem, stairs are not my friend!

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By *amesnite11 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"Hi everyone! It's quite difficult to meet as a single male, and being a wheelchair user (I think) makes it a little bit harder so I wondered if people could give me their honest opinions about their thoughts on having meets with wheelchair users.

E.g. whether you think it would be a bit of an obstacle, whether it's a turn off, a turn on, if you wouldn't know what to expect, if it's a logistical issue, if it seems fun, if you'd be worried about an uneven dynamic etc.

Would love to get a gauge on what people think. I lost the use of my legs when I was 18 after an accident, but feel free to ask any question at all, no matter how personal. Thanks for reading!

I don't think it would be an issue. I would wonder what obstacles we would face bit thats part of the fun right?! You have a great physique "

Thank you, as do you!

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By *amesnite11 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"I wouldnt meet a wheelchair user i need a certain level of athleticism as i pill drive vagina "

Fair enough!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

There’s been plenty of stunning women in wheelchairs on here

Never an issue as long as I’m interested in the person

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By *amesnite11 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"I (Luke) can't speak for my other half, but I can certainly see myself being attracted to somebody who happens to be in a wheelchair. It has happene. It wouldn't stop me from being interested in them sexually. "

Thanks for your response Luke

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By *ust_A_Tease_To_PleaseWoman
over a year ago

South Wales: Newport, Chepstow

Like any disability (of which I have several non-visable ones) there are ofc going to be additional challenges, which will put some people off.

It's nothing personal. Just as I don't meet smokers or those who don't have their own transport - I'm compatible with some people and not others.

I'm sure there will be people out there who won't have an issue, and others who will.

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By *ay4realstr8TV/TS
over a year ago

hoyland


"Hi everyone! It's quite difficult to meet as a single male, and being a wheelchair user (I think) makes it a little bit harder so I wondered if people could give me their honest opinions about their thoughts on having meets with wheelchair users.

E.g. whether you think it would be a bit of an obstacle, whether it's a turn off, a turn on, if you wouldn't know what to expect, if it's a logistical issue, if it seems fun, if you'd be worried about an uneven dynamic etc.

Would love to get a gauge on what people think. I lost the use of my legs when I was 18 after an accident, but feel free to ask any question at all, no matter how personal. Thanks for reading!"

Well all I can say is I have read your profile and you make me laugh so instant browny points and to top it off you have a gorgeous body and a lovely looking cock so... it wouldn’t be an issue for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a meeting, away from this site, a while back, with a wheelchair user.

It was because he was a guy that I found attractive and sexy. Simple as that really. The fact he was in a wheelchair made no difference to me.

We could laugh together and communicate well so we just discussed the logistics !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was interested in the guy then him being in a wheelchair wouldn't be an issue

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By *tsonlysexCouple
over a year ago

bedford

My partner ended up in a wheelchair luckily only for a while. But she was still as sexy as fuck

As has been verified

None of us know what is around the corner life can throw some really bad things

Luckily we were fortunate. Not sure what would of happened but I certainly would not have jumped ship if wheelchair

So in answer to OP you need to find right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t be an issue for me one bit. Your profile made me chuckle

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By *amesnite11 OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Thanks guys, really nice to hear all your opinions on the matter! I think it's easier to ask these things online than in person :D

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've spent time in a wheelchair myself when I was younger, as well as now caring for a disabled son.

It gives you a different perspective when you have personal experience of a situation.

So, if I liked someone, was attracted to them as a person, the chair wouldn't put me off, would just mean figuring out ways around some things.

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By *ay4realstr8TV/TS
over a year ago

hoyland


"Thanks guys, really nice to hear all your opinions on the matter! I think it's easier to ask these things online than in person :D "

As previously said your fit as fuck! And hung! Who wouldn’t wanna talk too you...

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

I guess it depends on the person's attitude for me (brat).

Disabilities don't bother me at all but you have to have the right attitude about it. You need to have more awkward moments talking about positions and do's/don'ts. If I can be at ease and we can all just be playful about it then there's no issue.

I wouldn't want to meet someone who couldn't handle those awkward situations. Hope that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me - meeting a woman in a wheelchair wouldn’t really bother me.

Just means more control & more fun for myself?... everyone gotta get loving

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

James. We used to meet a couple where the guy was a wheelchair user, he was paralysed from the chest down. His positive attitude and fun personality won me over, we had lots of fun over several years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't t be or treat a wheelchair user any different to anyone else...they re still people and it wouldn't make a difference to me if I found them attractive to me

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I liked the girl in Freddy got fingered.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

no problem for me, just the accessibility issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no problem for me, just the accessibility issue"
hey sue barker

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By *mmoMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

I suppose not having to walk far to the shops would be a bonus.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

One of my not so secret fab crushes used a chair periodically.

No issues whatsoever it wasn’t even a thing for me.

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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not an issue, hosting may create slight issues as there are steps into the front door, but other than that, game on. I have had contact with para athletes...now thats sooo sexy.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We were chatting to someone back along who was a wheelchair user due to MS. We would've met him.

It was the fact he turned out to be a manipulative asshole that we didnt meet him not his wheelchair.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

You come across as funny and a nice guy on your profile and hot of course. I'd meet you. If you weren't so far away!

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire


"Nothing wrong with them as long as everything works you can still have lots of fun.

A lot won't accommodate though not all houses/flats are that accessible so you need to take that into account.

A lot of clubs don't have disabled access too. K

Yeah I can definitely see that being a problem, stairs are not my friend!"

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
over a year ago

essex


"Hi everyone! It's quite difficult to meet as a single male, and being a wheelchair user (I think) makes it a little bit harder so I wondered if people could give me their honest opinions about their thoughts on having meets with wheelchair users.

E.g. whether you think it would be a bit of an obstacle, whether it's a turn off, a turn on, if you wouldn't know what to expect, if it's a logistical issue, if it seems fun, if you'd be worried about an uneven dynamic etc.

Would love to get a gauge on what people think. I lost the use of my legs when I was 18 after an accident, but feel free to ask any question at all, no matter how personal. Thanks for reading!

I don't think it would be an issue. I would wonder what obstacles we would face bit thats part of the fun right?! You have a great physique "

New abilities x

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
over a year ago

essex


"My partner ended up in a wheelchair luckily only for a while. But she was still as sexy as fuck

As has been verified

None of us know what is around the corner life can throw some really bad things

Luckily we were fortunate. Not sure what would of happened but I certainly would not have jumped ship if wheelchair

So in answer to OP you need to find right person. "

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
over a year ago

essex


"My partner ended up in a wheelchair luckily only for a while. But she was still as sexy as fuck

As has been verified

None of us know what is around the corner life can throw some really bad things

Luckily we were fortunate. Not sure what would of happened but I certainly would not have jumped ship if wheelchair

So in answer to OP you need to find right person. "

Nice couple hope your lady is better now

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I have been chatting with a female from here . She is not in a wheelchair , but has a major disability , she told me after chatting a couple of days, we are still chatting . May meet ? . So as long as all happy , are happy to go forward etc. Then should not be a problem?

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