FabSwingers.com forum: Obvious hints and oblivious guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I’ve been told more than once that I’ve missed obvious hints from women, and they’ve assumed I’ve been uninterested.

What is the most obvious hint that any of you have given someone that was completely missed?

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"So you are up for a fuck?" and he missed the point totally. It did make me giggle though.

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Well there was that once when I looked you right in the eye and gave you that look AND played with my hair and you STILL didn’t get it. ......So you didn’t get it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh gord... so many... worste was being invited to a party with my girlfriend and her 2 other bi girlfriends... stupidly I left early cause I had no idea why I was there... I was a little naive!

I have other missed opportunities as bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont so much miss signals, i wonder if i am interpreting them correctly.

For example a lady i met through work seemed like she was flirting. Lots of smiles, eye contact, glances, some raunchy banter and to top it off bending over right in front of me with her arse wiggling about. It seemed very suggestive however she may have just been going in her bag and totally oblivious to it appearing that way. Was she giving me a signal or would she think i am a sex pest for passing comment on the beautiful bottom on display? Of course i said nothing and maybe she thinks I'm an idiot.

Another consideration is that it has been known for ladies to flutter their eyelashes simply to get what they want and as a overweight, balding middle aged guy i tend to view any female attention/advances with suspicion. Lol

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Nowadays i would nearly want it in writing since i have experienced too many times been flirted with a led up the garden path and then get dropped to the ground like a man out of a aeroplane without a parachute.

She could be standing naked, flashing her eyes, licking her lips and then put her hand between my legs and rub her arse up against me when walking past even though there is plenty of room and i wouldnt take her on the first time.

I have to thank all those lovely ladies who got a buzz out of flirting and leading me on for making me the man i am today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nowadays i would nearly want it in writing since i have experienced too many times been flirted with a led up the garden path and then get dropped to the ground like a man out of a aeroplane without a parachute.

I have to thank all those lovely ladies who got a buzz out of flirting and leading me on for making me the man i am today."

Dude... Take a deep breath

Hints? Try telling someone in clear, simple language that you're not interested and have them come back the next day, week, month even year and ask again. I don't do hints. If I fancy someone I say so. And if I'm not interested I say so. How people choose to respond is on them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like to be told straight - 'let's have sex'.

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