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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I’ve done it and applied for my decree absolute today. After over 12 months of first applying and the court losing my paperwork. I shall be so glad to finally get it official but also so sad that I was betrayed by the person I trusted the most.

Now looking forward to the rest of my life and repairing the damage done to myself and the children. So what should I do to celebrate? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spa day with pals then dolled up and out in town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So glad you can look forward now... slap up meal with cocktails?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Lass


"Spa day with pals then dolled up and out in town "

this. Spoil yourself

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I posted Good Riddance by Green Day on my facebook to be a reminder but my one friend actually threw a party mimicking a hen night, sash and tiara the lot

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Treat yourself. Have a night out, buy something nice and have a night making new memories. Congratulations btw x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Spa day with pals then dolled up and out in town "

Nice idea, might have to be home spa day x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So glad you can look forward now... slap up meal with cocktails?"

That sounds good x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I posted Good Riddance by Green Day on my facebook to be a reminder but my one friend actually threw a party mimicking a hen night, sash and tiara the lot"

Fantastic. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Treat yourself. Have a night out, buy something nice and have a night making new memories. Congratulations btw x"

Thanks, I will definitely do something nice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I’ve done it and applied for my decree absolute today. After over 12 months of first applying and the court losing my paperwork. I shall be so glad to finally get it official but also so sad that I was betrayed by the person I trusted the most.

Now looking forward to the rest of my life and repairing the damage done to myself and the children. So what should I do to celebrate? X "

Do something special that you will remember, wing walking! or spa day or something special to you, and contemplate a bucket list of new memories to create for you and your future ...

And most importantly congratulations and good fortune for your future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congrats OP!!!!!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I thought this would be a dolly Parton thread lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I’ve done it and applied for my decree absolute today. After over 12 months of first applying and the court losing my paperwork. I shall be so glad to finally get it official but also so sad that I was betrayed by the person I trusted the most.

Now looking forward to the rest of my life and repairing the damage done to myself and the children. So what should I do to celebrate? X

Do something special that you will remember, wing walking! or spa day or something special to you, and contemplate a bucket list of new memories to create for you and your future ...

And most importantly congratulations and good fortune for your future"
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Thanks x

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish

Wooo Hooo. Well done Angie.

Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Congrats OP!!!!! "

Thanks x

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Book a band for some live music.

Most bands local to me have cornered the birthdays and weddings parties, so my band are aiming for the divorce and funerals market, but if you book us for your funeral, we want cash payment up front!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I just heaved a massive sigh of relief, reflected on where I'd gone wrong eg bad decisions, allowing poor behaviour to pass unchallenged etc (not putting any blame on the op here) and felt glad I was in a new and better relationship. I didn’t mark the occasion in any way or do anything special.

I suggest you get together with your closest friends who understand what this truly means to you and really let your hair down.

Here's to your bright and shiny future

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Book a band for some live music.

Most bands local to me have cornered the birthdays and weddings parties, so my band are aiming for the divorce and funerals market, but if you book us for your funeral, we want cash payment up front! "

I’m hoping my funeral is a long way off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you

I always celebrate with food

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"Book a band for some live music.

Most bands local to me have cornered the birthdays and weddings parties, so my band are aiming for the divorce and funerals market, but if you book us for your funeral, we want cash payment up front!

I’m hoping my funeral is a long way off x "

Yeah, but might as well enjoy it whilst you are still alive

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Congratulations OP great to have a fresh start x I always celebrate with food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done lass i suggest paint balling release the remaining frustrations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just heaved a massive sigh of relief, reflected on where I'd gone wrong eg bad decisions, allowing poor behaviour to pass unchallenged etc (not putting any blame on the op here) and felt glad I was in a new and better relationship. I didn’t mark the occasion in any way or do anything special.

I suggest you get together with your closest friends who understand what this truly means to you and really let your hair down.

Here's to your bright and shiny future "

Yes, some reflection is warranted. I will not be celebrating today as I’ve got my sons to be looked after but will definitely chat about it to my friends. And yes bring on the rest of my life x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well done you

I always celebrate with food "

Thanks, I think the baileys will be out tonight x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pleased for you lovely and really hope you're life gets better and things settle. Big hugs to you. x

I opened champagne and partied with my besties on my divorce. It was a bit sad the way my marriage ended as we were childhood sweethearts and he's actually dead now. But you just gotta move on with your life and make the most of every day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well done lass i suggest paint balling release the remaining frustrations"

Only if he’s strapped up to a target and naked so I can use his balls for target practice

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I posted Good Riddance by Green Day on my facebook to be a reminder but my one friend actually threw a party mimicking a hen night, sash and tiara the lot"

I had a night out with my girls, we recreated my hen night

Only this time I was given a "Just Divorced" sash

It was a bloody good night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine threw Divorce Party.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A friend of mine threw Divorce Party.

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Might be an idea for when it becomes official x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bought my ex wife flowers and I wrote her a thank you card for the good years we had and for the wonderful kids she gave me. Hand delivered them on the day we got the absolute through, gave her a hug and a kiss and wished her good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I’ve done it and applied for my decree absolute today. After over 12 months of first applying and the court losing my paperwork. I shall be so glad to finally get it official but also so sad that I was betrayed by the person I trusted the most.

Now looking forward to the rest of my life and repairing the damage done to myself and the children. So what should I do to celebrate? X "

A gangbang!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend of mine threw Divorce Party.

Might be an idea for when it becomes official x "

She said it was better than her wedding one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I bought my ex wife flowers and I wrote her a thank you card for the good years we had and for the wonderful kids she gave me. Hand delivered them on the day we got the absolute through, gave her a hug and a kiss and wished her good luck. "

That’s lovely, unfortunately that’s not something I will want to do. For safeguarding issues he can’t come near the kids and I’d want to stab him as soon as I saw him. I wish things were different but he wasn’t a good man x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I’ve done it and applied for my decree absolute today. After over 12 months of first applying and the court losing my paperwork. I shall be so glad to finally get it official but also so sad that I was betrayed by the person I trusted the most.

Now looking forward to the rest of my life and repairing the damage done to myself and the children. So what should I do to celebrate? X

A gangbang!! "

Ha ha, I think just a night with mr will be enough x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A friend of mine threw Divorce Party.

Might be an idea for when it becomes official x

She said it was better than her wedding one "

That wouldn’t take much to beat mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything you want to do that makes your heart happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anything you want to do that makes your heart happy "

Cuddles with the new mr it is x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bought my ex wife flowers and I wrote her a thank you card for the good years we had and for the wonderful kids she gave me. Hand delivered them on the day we got the absolute through, gave her a hug and a kiss and wished her good luck.

That’s lovely, unfortunately that’s not something I will want to do. For safeguarding issues he can’t come near the kids and I’d want to stab him as soon as I saw him. I wish things were different but he wasn’t a good man x "

Oh dear, sounds like a rotter. I’m quite lucky really, no drama with mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I bought my ex wife flowers and I wrote her a thank you card for the good years we had and for the wonderful kids she gave me. Hand delivered them on the day we got the absolute through, gave her a hug and a kiss and wished her good luck.

That’s lovely, unfortunately that’s not something I will want to do. For safeguarding issues he can’t come near the kids and I’d want to stab him as soon as I saw him. I wish things were different but he wasn’t a good man x

Oh dear, sounds like a rotter. I’m quite lucky really, no drama with mine."

Yes he is. But yes you were, and I think that’s great especially for the children. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything you want to do that makes your heart happy

Cuddles with the new mr it is x "

I’m so glad you found love again xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anything you want to do that makes your heart happy

Cuddles with the new mr it is x

I’m so glad you found love again xx "

Thanks, so am I x

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