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"I've noticed a lot of the guys profiles on might as well be cut and paste of each other. And they complain about not getting meets. Make yourself stand out you out number us, don't just show a dick pic. There's gotta be more to you than that? " Apparently not. | |||
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"I see no problem with dick pics.
Whatever guys want to put on their profiles is their business "Oh, men aren't allowed to make decisions like that. We have to do exactly as we're told, and accept that by the time we've done it the rules wil have changed and we'll be in the wrong again.  | |||
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"I dont have dick pics neither do i have abs, what am i supposed to do "You have thighs though, so you're all good | |||
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"I dont have dick pics neither do i have abs, what am i supposed to do
You have thighs though, so you're all good "Just what I was thinking | |||
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"In that case - my profile should stand out a mile. No cock pics and my abs are covered by my fat belly. " | |||
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"The odd dick pic is ok But profiles showing nothing but there dick doesn't appeal to me,but each to there own" Ditto | |||
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"I see no problem with dick pics.
Whatever guys want to put on their profiles is their business "You are right, but with some guys, if it’s their best asset and they have only pictures of it, you can’t help but see it’s why they don’t get to meet anyone. It is their business, but they could do better if they tried a different approach. | |||
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"I've noticed a lot of the guys profiles on might as well be cut and paste of each other. And they complain about not getting meets. Make yourself stand out you out number us, don't just show a dick pic. There's gotta be more to you than that? " Not quite abs ......Would you rather more profile pics like this instead of dicks? | |||
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"Having it all hanging out so to speak isnt attractive or erotic to me. You need to be alittle more of a tease than that. However its your profile, your image so do whatever feels right for you. "Hi | |||
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"I see no problem with dick pics.
Whatever guys want to put on their profiles is their business "What a novel opinion | |||
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"I've noticed a lot of the guys profiles on might as well be cut and paste of each other. And they complain about not getting meets. Make yourself stand out you out number us, don't just show a dick pic. There's gotta be more to you than that? " I say - let them continue. It makes those guys who think with their cock, so much easier to out... Surely, you wouldn't want to be deceived into thinking that they actually have a personality as well  | |||
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"This ok?  "I'm sure you don't mind me having a little peek | |||
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"This ok?
I'm sure you don't mind me having a little peek
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"I see no problem with dick pics.
Whatever guys want to put on their profiles is their business
What a novel opinion "Looks like I’m in the minority | |||
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"Must say I rather like to see a nice large one  "More reasons to like you | |||
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"I dont have dick pics neither do i have abs, what am i supposed to do
You have thighs though, so you're all good
Just what I was thinking "Ah well, I'll delete all my penis pictures then | |||
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"You can never have too many dick pics "Perv. Lol | |||
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"I've noticed a lot of the guys profiles on might as well be cut and paste of each other. And they complain about not getting meets. Make yourself stand out you out number us, don't just show a dick pic. There's gotta be more to you than that? " I agree. Anythings better than a pic of a cock on its own! Doesn’t interest me at all. I always deleted without even reading the message if dick pics were in public pics, whoever it was. But like everything on here, put what you want on your profile and it people don’t like it they’ll move on | |||
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"Must say I rather like to see a nice large one
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"Must say I rather like to see a nice large one "Kind of why I have the one on display. Just in case that might be what folk are looking for. There are more in private, just not actual ‘dick pics’ | |||
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"Must say I rather like to see a nice large one "I'd only dissappoint you then | |||
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"I dont have dick pics neither do i have abs, what am i supposed to do "More ironing photos might work. | |||
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"Must say I rather like to see a nice large one
Kind of why I have the one on display. Just in case that might be what folk are looking for. There are more in private, just not actual ‘dick pics’"I’d say quite a nice looking one there fella | |||
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"I dont have dick pics neither do i have abs, what am i supposed to do
More ironing photos might work. "I have hoovering and cooking pictures | |||
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"Must say I rather like to see a nice large one
I'd only dissappoint you then "I’d be polite | |||
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"I was actually thinking of experimenting with a dick pic to see if it really does fuck things up. Just curious behind the whole psychology of it all. I'm getting uncomfortable with the lack of hate lately..... (appreciate saying dick pic, experimenting and curious all in the same reply might be taken the wrong way )"Is it ain't broken.... | |||
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"I dont have dick pics neither do i have abs, what am i supposed to do
More ironing photos might work.
I have hoovering and cooking pictures "Are you flashing your ass? #AskingForAFriend | |||
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"I dont have dick pics neither do i have abs, what am i supposed to do
More ironing photos might work.
I have hoovering and cooking pictures
Are you flashing your ass? #AskingForAFriend"Of course | |||
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"The odd dick pic is ok But profiles showing nothing but there dick doesn't appeal to me,but each to there own" This for me by all means have a dick pic but PLEASE not as your profile ,total delete or block from me .. | |||
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"The odd dick pic is ok But profiles showing nothing but there dick doesn't appeal to me,but each to there own" I know what you mean but the guys complaining about having no meets on their status, just have pictures of dick from different angles | |||
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"I dont have dick pics neither do i have abs, what am i supposed to do
More ironing photos might work.
I have hoovering and cooking pictures
Are you flashing your ass? #AskingForAFriend
Of course "I'll let my friend know to look out for them | |||
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"I see no problem with dick pics.
Whatever guys want to put on their profiles is their business
You are right, but with some guys, if it’s their best asset and they have only pictures of it, you can’t help but see it’s why they don’t get to meet anyone. It is their business, but they could do better if they tried a different approach. "That's exactly what I'm saying, I'll never meet a guy that only has pic of his dick on his profile | |||
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"Having it all hanging out so to speak isnt attractive or erotic to me. You need to be alittle more of a tease than that. However its your profile, your image so do whatever feels right for you.
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"I've noticed a lot of the guys profiles on might as well be cut and paste of each other. And they complain about not getting meets. Make yourself stand out you out number us, don't just show a dick pic. There's gotta be more to you than that? I say - let them continue. It makes those guys who think with their cock, so much easier to out... Surely, you wouldn't want to be deceived into thinking that they actually have a personality as well "Haha love it, I've also noticed some are very talented at working the camera angles on here as well, I'm sure it's classed as catfishing because some of them are smaller irl | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves " This is true, we don't know why people choose to do what they do. Our confidence is a fragile thing. Glad you got over that hurdle. It would be nice if we were all comfy with what we have. Your photos are great. | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves " Many women have body confidence issues myself included, and the purpose of this site is to meet someone if you aren't comfortable showing yourself on this site in order to achieve that how are you going to handle a meet? | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves " Good post, plenty of women's profiles that only show a close up of their boobs or a close up of their bum I would imagine for similar reasons. | |||
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"Just looked at the OP's profile and in terms of the wording it's not really pulling me in tbh....." Oh good because I'm not interested thanks | |||
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" Many women have body confidence issues myself included, and the purpose of this site is to meet someone if you aren't comfortable showing yourself on this site in order to achieve that how are you going to handle a meet? " I know someone who is hotter than the fires of hell! And really confident. But yet will not have any photos taken because he doesn't like them (I've tried many times to convince him otherwise) | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves Good post, plenty of women's profiles that only show a close up of their boobs or a close up of their bum I would imagine for similar reasons." True and fair enough point. Everyone thinks different. If I wasn’t body confident (and I’m not that confident really) the last thing I’d do is show a pic of my lady bits though. | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves Many women have body confidence issues myself included, and the purpose of this site is to meet someone if you aren't comfortable showing yourself on this site in order to achieve that how are you going to handle a meet? " There are literally thousands of verified women's profiles on here with no pics or pics of their hands or lips or shoes. You know that there are lots of people on here that show very little, people that actually meet without sharing so much as a brief conversation or maybe a hint of a face pic. Yes there is such a thing as shy swingers. | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves Good post, plenty of women's profiles that only show a close up of their boobs or a close up of their bum I would imagine for similar reasons. True and fair enough point. Everyone thinks different. If I wasn’t body confident (and I’m not that confident really) the last thing I’d do is show a pic of my lady bits though. " You should, they're stunning | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves Good post, plenty of women's profiles that only show a close up of their boobs or a close up of their bum I would imagine for similar reasons. True and fair enough point. Everyone thinks different. If I wasn’t body confident (and I’m not that confident really) the last thing I’d do is show a pic of my lady bits though. You should, they're stunning "Haha  . Who you been talking to!?? | |||
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" There are literally thousands of verified women's profiles on here with no pics or pics of their hands or lips or shoes. You know that there are lots of people on here that show very little, people that actually meet without sharing so much as a brief conversation or maybe a hint of a face pic. Yes there is such a thing as shy swingers." I'll be honest in my opinion men's hands, hips and teeth are their most attractive bits anyway. So that would work for me. | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves Good post, plenty of women's profiles that only show a close up of their boobs or a close up of their bum I would imagine for similar reasons. True and fair enough point. Everyone thinks different. If I wasn’t body confident (and I’m not that confident really) the last thing I’d do is show a pic of my lady bits though. You should, they're stunning
Haha . Who you been talking to!?? "Seriously though I get what you mean but I think the difference with men is often the penis can be seen as an entity of its own, it's not part of their body but a tool or "thing" in its own right. Posting a picture of it may not actually feel so personal or so intimate as a picture of their moobs or saggy bum which they feel insecure about. If nobody likes my penis well it's his problem, my self confidence hasn't taken the hit. | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves Good post, plenty of women's profiles that only show a close up of their boobs or a close up of their bum I would imagine for similar reasons. True and fair enough point. Everyone thinks different. If I wasn’t body confident (and I’m not that confident really) the last thing I’d do is show a pic of my lady bits though. You should, they're stunning
Haha . Who you been talking to!??
Seriously though I get what you mean but I think the difference with men is often the penis can be seen as an entity of its own, it's not part of their body but a tool or "thing" in its own right. Posting a picture of it may not actually feel so personal or so intimate as a picture of their moobs or saggy bum which they feel insecure about.
If nobody likes my penis well it's his problem, my self confidence hasn't taken the hit."Yeah. To be honest I never looked at it that way. But I see where you’re coming from. Still not a fan though but good point. | |||
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"I see no problem with dick pics.
Whatever guys want to put on their profiles is their business
You are right, but with some guys, if it’s their best asset and they have only pictures of it, you can’t help but see it’s why they don’t get to meet anyone. It is their business, but they could do better if they tried a different approach. "Entirely off topic - but I do like your user name! | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves Good post, plenty of women's profiles that only show a close up of their boobs or a close up of their bum I would imagine for similar reasons. True and fair enough point. Everyone thinks different. If I wasn’t body confident (and I’m not that confident really) the last thing I’d do is show a pic of my lady bits though. You should, they're stunning
Haha . Who you been talking to!??
Seriously though I get what you mean but I think the difference with men is often the penis can be seen as an entity of its own, it's not part of their body but a tool or "thing" in its own right. Posting a picture of it may not actually feel so personal or so intimate as a picture of their moobs or saggy bum which they feel insecure about.
If nobody likes my penis well it's his problem, my self confidence hasn't taken the hit."I think that is what i was trying to say and I didn't really say it. All dicks are ridiculed (I mean they look fucking ridiculous!), so if we are rejected on the basis of that, then its all okay, it's a silly little thing. Ego's are fragile, regardless of gender. It took me more effort to show my skinny torso than it did my dick, this much I know. Thank you MR M for articulating better than I | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves Good post, plenty of women's profiles that only show a close up of their boobs or a close up of their bum I would imagine for similar reasons. True and fair enough point. Everyone thinks different. If I wasn’t body confident (and I’m not that confident really) the last thing I’d do is show a pic of my lady bits though. You should, they're stunning
Haha . Who you been talking to!??
Seriously though I get what you mean but I think the difference with men is often the penis can be seen as an entity of its own, it's not part of their body but a tool or "thing" in its own right. Posting a picture of it may not actually feel so personal or so intimate as a picture of their moobs or saggy bum which they feel insecure about.
If nobody likes my penis well it's his problem, my self confidence hasn't taken the hit.
Yeah. To be honest I never looked at it that way. But I see where you’re coming from. Still not a fan though but good point. "That was my sensible post for 2019 and you're the lucky lady who was on the end of it. I might try a dick pic only profile for a while, see where it gets me. | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves Good post, plenty of women's profiles that only show a close up of their boobs or a close up of their bum I would imagine for similar reasons. True and fair enough point. Everyone thinks different. If I wasn’t body confident (and I’m not that confident really) the last thing I’d do is show a pic of my lady bits though. You should, they're stunning
Haha . Who you been talking to!??
Seriously though I get what you mean but I think the difference with men is often the penis can be seen as an entity of its own, it's not part of their body but a tool or "thing" in its own right. Posting a picture of it may not actually feel so personal or so intimate as a picture of their moobs or saggy bum which they feel insecure about.
If nobody likes my penis well it's his problem, my self confidence hasn't taken the hit.
Yeah. To be honest I never looked at it that way. But I see where you’re coming from. Still not a fan though but good point.
That was my sensible post for 2019 and you're the lucky lady who was on the end of it. I might try a dick pic only profile for a while, see where it gets me.". G’wan, g’wan g’wan. I may even have a sneaky peek | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves Good post, plenty of women's profiles that only show a close up of their boobs or a close up of their bum I would imagine for similar reasons. True and fair enough point. Everyone thinks different. If I wasn’t body confident (and I’m not that confident really) the last thing I’d do is show a pic of my lady bits though. You should, they're stunning
Haha . Who you been talking to!??
Seriously though I get what you mean but I think the difference with men is often the penis can be seen as an entity of its own, it's not part of their body but a tool or "thing" in its own right. Posting a picture of it may not actually feel so personal or so intimate as a picture of their moobs or saggy bum which they feel insecure about.
If nobody likes my penis well it's his problem, my self confidence hasn't taken the hit.
I think that is what i was trying to say and I didn't really say it. All dicks are ridiculed (I mean they look fucking ridiculous!), so if we are rejected on the basis of that, then its all okay, it's a silly little thing. Ego's are fragile, regardless of gender. It took me more effort to show my skinny torso than it did my dick, this much I know.
Thank you MR M for articulating better than I"No worries dude, I'll swap my love handles for your flat stomach if ya like. | |||
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"I was actually thinking of experimenting with a dick pic to see if it really does fuck things up. Just curious behind the whole psychology of it all. I'm getting uncomfortable with the lack of hate lately..... (appreciate saying dick pic, experimenting and curious all in the same reply might be taken the wrong way )"Add a straight guy, the above pay had gotten me curious about experimenting with...yeh, well not your dick but you are brave having all these words in same post | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves Many women have body confidence issues myself included, and the purpose of this site is to meet someone if you aren't comfortable showing yourself on this site in order to achieve that how are you going to handle a meet? There are literally thousands of verified women's profiles on here with no pics or pics of their hands or lips or shoes. You know that there are lots of people on here that show very little, people that actually meet without sharing so much as a brief conversation or maybe a hint of a face pic. Yes there is such a thing as shy swingers." Hmmm, shy? They don't seem shy when they are filling my inbox with pictures of their dick or of them having sex with other women. | |||
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"I have thought long and hard about why men post or send dick pics (myself included) and where there is a lack of balance in the offerings they present. I can only draw on my experience with this. There was a time when I only had dick pics and this was because I suffered self esteem issues and lacked body confidence. A dick is a dick is often said and so for many men, who perhaps like me, have confidence issues with the way they look, their weight, hairline, boney or dad bod it gets the message out there without shattering further a fragile confidence It took me a great deal of mental strength to post an image of my body, while I had no qualm about showing my dick. So perhaps when discussing these things, it would be nice if people thought about that. That actually quite a lot of the men that are only showing their dicks are doing so not because they think its the best thing since sliced bread, but because they are so dreadfully unhappy with the rest of themselves Many women have body confidence issues myself included, and the purpose of this site is to meet someone if you aren't comfortable showing yourself on this site in order to achieve that how are you going to handle a meet? There are literally thousands of verified women's profiles on here with no pics or pics of their hands or lips or shoes. You know that there are lots of people on here that show very little, people that actually meet without sharing so much as a brief conversation or maybe a hint of a face pic. Yes there is such a thing as shy swingers. Hmmm, shy? They don't seem shy when they are filling my inbox with pictures of their dick or of them having sex with other women. " He did say lots not all, the ones that send you those pics aren't likely the ones he's referring to. | |||
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" Hmmm, shy? They don't seem shy when they are filling my inbox with pictures of their dick or of them having sex with other women. " I think we are kinda done here, I understand you don't like dick pics in your post or on mens profiles and that you felt strongly enough to make a thread about it. I have tried to contribute in a constructive manner, explaining why maybe (note "maybe") the majority of men, unhappy with their other physical attributes might do this. I guess you could block men from messaging you and that way you wouldn't get the dicks in message pics, as for not seeing them on their profiles, I cannot give you a solution to that, other than systematically go through every male profile and block the ones with dick picks. I wish you well and happy swinging xx | |||
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" Hmmm, shy? They don't seem shy when they are filling my inbox with pictures of their dick or of them having sex with other women. I think we are kinda done here, I understand you don't like dick pics in your post or on mens profiles and that you felt strongly enough to make a thread about it. I have tried to contribute in a constructive manner, explaining why maybe (note "maybe") the majority of men, unhappy with their other physical attributes might do this. I guess you could block men from messaging you and that way you wouldn't get the dicks in message pics, as for not seeing them on their profiles, I cannot give you a solution to that, other than systematically go through every male profile and block the ones with dick picks. I wish you well and happy swinging xx" You too and best of luck regarding your conference issues. | |||
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