FabSwingers.com forum: m/f couples. A question?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many ladies in a m/f couple's profile, allow their men to meet a single female for a one on one with her. The female of the couple would not be present.

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Not for us...

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I was told that I can

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It's a "No" from us too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many ladies in a m/f couple's profile, allow their men to meet a single female for a one on one with her. The female of the couple would not be present."

I like to watch, so no, Mr, wouldn't meet a lone female on his own.

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I probably would if the situation ever arose, H x (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us x

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Yes, if he wants to; but having the shared experience is a big thing for us, so he will tend to prefer a joint date if possible - he always says just because he can doesn’t mean he has to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have an issue with Fuzz meeting anyone 121, he is his own person after all and has his own likes and preferences! It's nice if I've met his potential friends but not essential, I do trust his judgement...most of the time

Peach x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

That's not for us.

The way we work it is it's fine for Hannah to meet women on her own (positively encouraged in fact!

) but not men. Luke is allowed to meet men on his own but not women.

We only meet couples together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us either. He's ok with me meeting ladies on my own, but other than that, we meet together.

N x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're just exploring this, not happened as yet tho.

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Not for us either. He's ok with me meeting ladies on my own, but other than that, we meet together.

N x

Same as us

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I know this is probably a silly question, but - why not meet a single man???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know this is probably a silly question, but - why not meet a single man???

Especially if his wife doesn't know he's on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont play alone. Not for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is ok with me meeting a woma alone..thats all. Hasnt happened yet though.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Red would let me no doubt.

I also have no doubt that if I did I would never hear from her again!

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

We don’t put any restrictions on each other, so we can meet individually if we choose to. But communication here is paramount.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Big fat no to ladies from both of us, oh and to men from him. Surely a couple lays out what they are looking for don't they?

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Not for us.

Im ok with herself meeting a woman alone although i wouldnt mind watching some time lol. She hasnt met anyone yet though

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I have done this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be open to it, but K isn’t into him meeting alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Not for me/us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Red would let me no doubt.

I also have no doubt that if I did I would never hear from her again!"

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Not for us ...What turns us on is watching each other and joining in for me it would feel wrong and cheating ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Red would let me no doubt.

I also have no doubt that if I did I would never hear from her again!"

Haha yes. Totally this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Red would let me no doubt.

I also have no doubt that if I did I would never hear from her again!

Fuck, fat fingers, wrong emoji....

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Not for us.

I love watching beast with another female but we have no interest in ever being sperate while playing.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

As a single woman, i think it would be pointless. There's plenty of married (cheating wotsits) on here already.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Not for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve talked about it. My other half knows that I miss meeting and has suggested that we should look at it. But I'm not sure, I fear it could end badly but thats likely down to my own fear of it being a different dynamic to my norm

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I am more than happy for my husband to meet a lady alone.

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

I'm happy for J to meet a lady alone. Like a hot husband thing.

Gem

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

No, this is something we explore together. No interest in meeting solo.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

NOT what we are on here for ,im the only woman for him

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Not us

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Definitely not for us, although I'm very happy for him to go off and play with someone in a club or join another couple if I'm not desired.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Not for us either. He's ok with me meeting ladies on my own, but other than that, we meet together.

N x

Same for us too

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I have no issues if hubby wants to meet woman alone as long as he comes home and gives me all the juicy details.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Me and my partner mostly only meet separately so yes I am happy for him to as long as he's totally honest with me about it. He expects the same from me. It works for us

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"How many ladies in a m/f couple's profile, allow their men to meet a single female for a one on one with her. The female of the couple would not be present."

Not for us. Strictly my man is with me and the play is for me with him and another man. Rules are rules. Meeting another woman would be something to break us

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

It would be no for us, as we meet as a couple and play as a couple no exceptions..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play together first meet with women. If all of us click he can play with her at will after that as long as honesty is there and I have an open invitation to join when I desire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many ladies in a m/f couple's profile, allow their men to meet a single female for a one on one with her. The female of the couple would not be present."

Wouldn't stop him but I feel as does he that we are a couple and we only meet as a couple.

Meeting separately for us is of no interest, why meet others to do what we can do with each other.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I do,have a couple profile and a single profile each with permission for him and me to meet others on our own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a single female...

most couples play together.. if they play seperate most are cheating behind there back...

if u agree to it then thats fine xx

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

At a club John can and has as long as we both know where each other are

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Yes, I lend him out to play as a single. He's a Stag, so plays whenever or wherever the oppertunity arises. He has his own single profile, to contact and sort meets through. Therfore, not a single guy hiding behind a couple. He's in no way cheating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have said that he could if the opportunity arose. Things have changed as he works away Monday to Friday

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

Yes, Ian has played solo with my knowledge and permission but I don’t ask details of what took place.

I’m just starting out to do solo meets (potentially) since becoming a couple but it will be a case of someone I’ve met socially or at cjs where I’m comfortable and therefore more safe.

As someone said earlier, communication & trust is paramount.

Millie

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"How many ladies in a m/f couple's profile, allow their men to meet a single female for a one on one with her. The female of the couple would not be present.

Not for us. Strictly my man is with me and the play is for me with him and another man. Rules are rules. Meeting another woman would be something to break us"
This for me 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something we have discussed. Amongst other things. Scooby can go meet other women solo although generally he does not want to, if we were in a relationship with said lady then we would both play solo and together with her. It has to depend on the person though.

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By *randmrs-newswingersCouple
over a year ago

Thornaby

Not for us, we're only playing as a couple. This is our adventure to share lol, we want to share the experiences.. not spend time away from each other X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like my hubby to do this and told him so many times but he won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not about allowing for me/us, it's about making a conscious decision.

Now I won't put my foot down and say "I wont allow you to meet solo" however...

I'm really fucking uncomfortable with the idea coz I know how cuntish people can be. So for it to happen again I want to get to know the person too even if I won't be present or involved in any shenanigans. This is down to others being manipulative, lying and game playing.

Already had it and it's not a fun situation to be in so unfortunately for B and those that want to meet him, it's jaded and really put a bad vibe around the solo meet thing for me and now I have extra rules and boundaries in place.

My thinking around the getting to know them first is if I think they're cool too and give the thumbs up but they turn out to be a wrong un then we can both shoulder the blame, other than that I KNOW I'll blame him for allowing someone into our lives who could potentially destroy us if their motives were of the evil kind.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

"Not for us ...What turns us on is watching each other and joining in for me it would feel wrong and cheating ..."

Yes, this is spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both meet seperately and together but always tell each other beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though me and my partner don't have a couples profile right now we used to. We both have single profiles, me looking for women, him looking for women or couples, neither is us is actively looking though. We had a problem in past when due to bad circumstances him having sex with someone else almost destroyed our relationship but it's made us stronger than ever and we're working on making things great for both of us without neither side having to compromise too much.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would be happy for him to, but at the moment I am only one of us that meets ladies alone.

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