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"Hell no I am wonderful my mom says so lol" Im sure most mothers think that of their offspring | |||
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"Because it rude to blow your own trumpet lol " Interesting point of view....can i ask why you think so? | |||
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"Hell no I am wonderful my mom says so lolIm sure most mothers think that of their offspring " Best place to go for ego polishing and realty check all in one go | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums...." It take some people longer than others to get in touch with reality. | |||
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"Because it rude to blow your own trumpet lol " I think if most men could blow their own trumpet they wouldn't leave the house.... | |||
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"Dont think i have ever depreciated" That's something I save for my bank balance... especially these days Wolf | |||
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"Is it really self-deprecation or is it a subtle way of getting others to flatter you and feed egos?" good point loads of that going on. Plus the 'rate my cock'...'would you fuck me'...etc etc yawn | |||
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"Is it really self-deprecation or is it a subtle way of getting others to flatter you and feed egos?" Now this is a very interesting point, i do think you have something there, but im seeing it more and more, i just wondered if people openly undervalue themselves deliberately, or they genuinely feel that way | |||
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"Iloads of that going on. Plus the 'rate my cock'...'would you fuck me'...etc etc yawn" In short. 7/10 and Computer says no | |||
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"Iloads of that going on. Plus the 'rate my cock'...'would you fuck me'...etc etc yawn In short. 7/10 and Computer says no " Ha ha "computer says no" Just made giggle that..gotta love little britain | |||
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"Is it really self-deprecation or is it a subtle way of getting others to flatter you and feed egos? good point loads of that going on. Plus the 'rate my cock'...'would you fuck me'...etc etc yawn" I was more thinking the woe is me i have broke/damaged/lost XXX. The above threads are an icebreaker for some and easy for those with less to contribute but although they dont really appeal there are worse. I do smile though when you see someone rush to put another up one one has hit its limit. | |||
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"Iloads of that going on. Plus the 'rate my cock'...'would you fuck me'...etc etc yawn In short. 7/10 and Computer says no Ha ha "computer says no" Just made giggle that..gotta love little britain" | |||
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"Is it really self-deprecation or is it a subtle way of getting others to flatter you and feed egos?Now this is a very interesting point, i do think you have something there, but im seeing it more and more, i just wondered if people openly undervalue themselves deliberately, or they genuinely feel that way " Some make an art form of putting themselves down to court attention. But there are needy people on here as there is in life in general. | |||
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"Different strokes for different folks. Some do it to fish for compliments. Some have been beaten into it. I've not noticed it a lot of late. Maybe I read the wrong posts or the right ones x " Maybe theres isnt anymore than usual, just more consistency | |||
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"I like to self depreciate for a number of reasons. If you can't take the pee out of yourself then I think it reveals a slight insecurity. I am comfortable and confident in my own skin so don't see the need to boast. I like to have banter with people and I think that being self depreciating is a signal that says you can have a laugh with me and my tiny, lifeless penis, I won't get offended. Besides, just because someone boasts about themselves doesn't mean it's true. " why does it have to be from one extreme to the other? | |||
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"I was going to say there are levels of humility that can be mistaken for self depreciation but humility is a virtue. The type of self depreciation I don't like is where people go on n on about a negative aspect of themselves so that everyone will say ......awwwww but you are beautiful. Which as nice people we do but then they won't take the boost n find sommat else crap to say ....it's almost self perpetuating. Sometimes im inclined to say ......Yeah you are ugly .... only prob with that is that it's misread as being mean or negative..... Some are genuine some are needy. There are tons of things I like about myself and some that I don't. I don't air any of them on a public forum. ( That's what I like about me ) " I agree with you gran, great post xx | |||
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"Is it really self-deprecation or is it a subtle way of getting others to flatter you and feed egos?Now this is a very interesting point, i do think you have something there, but im seeing it more and more, i just wondered if people openly undervalue themselves deliberately, or they genuinely feel that way " It remonds me of primary school, where the girls would say how terrible there pictures were so all the other girls would prasie it. Didnt like it then, dont like it now. | |||
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"it's just people looking for other people to say how good they are. Fawning after compliments in the forums rather than being lambasted fow what they are posting.!!! This is just my own personal opinion and I am not wanting to cause anyone any upset in anyway shape or form. I first thought Femme was on about self defecation !!!! well a lot of people on here do talk a lot of s**t..... " Hello you..good to see you posting xx | |||
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"I think some people think too hard on here sometimes " Why do you think that oh thoughtful one ? | |||
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"I think some people think too hard on here sometimes Why do you think that oh thoughtful one ?" Ill think about it come back to you | |||
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"it's just people looking for other people to say how good they are. Fawning after compliments in the forums rather than being lambasted fow what they are posting.!!! This is just my own personal opinion and I am not wanting to cause anyone any upset in anyway shape or form. I first thought Femme was on about self defecation !!!! well a lot of people on here do talk a lot of s**t..... Hello you..good to see you posting xx" xxxx always lurking in the background lol xxx | |||
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"What if they are hurting themselves Jo or others ? " well i dont wish no one to hurt no one and not me , x people have to be who thay are , x | |||
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"I like to self depreciate for a number of reasons. If you can't take the pee out of yourself then I think it reveals a slight insecurity. I am comfortable and confident in my own skin so don't see the need to boast. I like to have banter with people and I think that being self depreciating is a signal that says you can have a laugh with me and my tiny, lifeless penis, I won't get offended. Besides, just because someone boasts about themselves doesn't mean it's true. why does it have to be from one extreme to the other? " I have no idea to be honest. I just don't take myself too seriously. All I meant was that my self depreciation is in jest rather than out of some insecurity. | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? " There are a lots of insecure people in the world full stop so you will always get a fair share on forums that are accessed from the home. People who are insecure constantly need approval. There are others who are more attention seekers though I guess. Maybe there is a related medical condition? | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? There are a lots of insecure people in the world full stop so you will always get a fair share on forums that are accessed from the home. People who are insecure constantly need approval. There are others who are more attention seekers though I guess. Maybe there is a related medical condition?" Im sure if someone invents one there will be. | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? There are a lots of insecure people in the world full stop so you will always get a fair share on forums that are accessed from the home. People who are insecure constantly need approval. There are others who are more attention seekers though I guess. Maybe there is a related medical condition? Im sure if someone invents one there will be." I guess there will be something of the sort. I know some have such low self esteem they will look for approval from anyone, it cant be good to be like that. | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? There are a lots of insecure people in the world full stop so you will always get a fair share on forums that are accessed from the home. People who are insecure constantly need approval. There are others who are more attention seekers though I guess. Maybe there is a related medical condition? Im sure if someone invents one there will be. I guess there will be something of the sort. I know some have such low self esteem they will look for approval from anyone, it cant be good to be like that. " Thing is does it make them feel better if someone tells them they are gorgeous or fit or have a great body. That they are whatever they are seeking approval about? Some one can tell you something a million times but it how you feel about yourself that counts not what others think. | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? There are a lots of insecure people in the world full stop so you will always get a fair share on forums that are accessed from the home. People who are insecure constantly need approval. There are others who are more attention seekers though I guess. Maybe there is a related medical condition? Im sure if someone invents one there will be. I guess there will be something of the sort. I know some have such low self esteem they will look for approval from anyone, it cant be good to be like that. Thing is does it make them feel better if someone tells them they are gorgeous or fit or have a great body. That they are whatever they are seeking approval about? Some one can tell you something a million times but it how you feel about yourself that counts not what others think. " hmm tis nice to be told it sometimes tho | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? There are a lots of insecure people in the world full stop so you will always get a fair share on forums that are accessed from the home. People who are insecure constantly need approval. There are others who are more attention seekers though I guess. Maybe there is a related medical condition? Im sure if someone invents one there will be. I guess there will be something of the sort. I know some have such low self esteem they will look for approval from anyone, it cant be good to be like that. Thing is does it make them feel better if someone tells them they are gorgeous or fit or have a great body. That they are whatever they are seeking approval about? Some one can tell you something a million times but it how you feel about yourself that counts not what others think. hmm tis nice to be told it sometimes tho " depends whether the person is saying it because they mean it or in reply to someone being self depreciative | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? There are a lots of insecure people in the world full stop so you will always get a fair share on forums that are accessed from the home. People who are insecure constantly need approval. There are others who are more attention seekers though I guess. Maybe there is a related medical condition? Im sure if someone invents one there will be. I guess there will be something of the sort. I know some have such low self esteem they will look for approval from anyone, it cant be good to be like that. Thing is does it make them feel better if someone tells them they are gorgeous or fit or have a great body. That they are whatever they are seeking approval about? Some one can tell you something a million times but it how you feel about yourself that counts not what others think. " Couldn't agree more with the above quote, I have very low self asteem and I don't take compliments well as I always think I'm being patronised but that's me and that's my problem, I do get the feeling most people on here are compliment seeking , one guy posted pictures of his wife asking if people thought she was alright but he must have known she was stunning, that's just ego boosting shit , prob just for him. | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? There are a lots of insecure people in the world full stop so you will always get a fair share on forums that are accessed from the home. People who are insecure constantly need approval. There are others who are more attention seekers though I guess. Maybe there is a related medical condition? Im sure if someone invents one there will be. I guess there will be something of the sort. I know some have such low self esteem they will look for approval from anyone, it cant be good to be like that. Thing is does it make them feel better if someone tells them they are gorgeous or fit or have a great body. That they are whatever they are seeking approval about? Some one can tell you something a million times but it how you feel about yourself that counts not what others think. Couldn't agree more with the above quote, I have very low self asteem and I don't take compliments well as I always think I'm being patronised but that's me and that's my problem, I do get the feeling most people on here are compliment seeking , one guy posted pictures of his wife asking if people thought she was alright but he must have known she was stunning, that's just ego boosting shit , prob just for him. " I think most of these threads are started by husbands boyfriends that get a kick out of people worshipping their better halfs.. Makes them feel better in their own insecuritys no doubt.. | |||
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"Awwwwwwwwww you are beautiful xxxx Love the pic xxx " Thank you Granny - we could be twins! | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? " fuck that! I'm awesome | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? " fuck that! I'm awesome | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? " could you be more precise femme,even give some examples. self depreciation,covers a wide and varied area,thank you. | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? could you be more precise femme,even give some examples. self depreciation,covers a wide and varied area,thank you." Oh ffs saucy...YOU KNOW EXACTLY what i mean | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? could you be more precise femme,even give some examples. self depreciation,covers a wide and varied area,thank you.Oh ffs saucy...YOU KNOW EXACTLY what i mean " oh it's not for my benefit femme,i know exactly what you mean. it's just some people seem to be including,self depreciation through sarcasm,or tongue in cheek self depreciation. it is they who need enlightened. | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? could you be more precise femme,even give some examples. self depreciation,covers a wide and varied area,thank you.Oh ffs saucy...YOU KNOW EXACTLY what i mean oh it's not for my benefit femme,i know exactly what you mean. it's just some people seem to be including,self depreciation through sarcasm,or tongue in cheek self depreciation. it is they who need enlightened. " Well i didnt specify which ones | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? could you be more precise femme,even give some examples. self depreciation,covers a wide and varied area,thank you." Ha ha you have seen them, my arm is sore, my stitches are coming out my tummy hurts and on and on till some poor sap tells them they are fantastic lovely all in the hope of getting a poke! Guess what no poke! | |||
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"Because it rude to blow your own trumpet lol I think if most men could blow their own trumpet they wouldn't leave the house.... " LOVE IT!!! | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? " I self abuse myself on the odd occasion, nothing a piece of bog roll won't clean up though. | |||
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"Self-deprecation recently in these here forums....so do you? If so why? I self abuse myself on the odd occasion, nothing a piece of bog roll won't clean up though. " did you put some sandpaper in it before ya knocked one out then? | |||
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