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The 10 minute wonder

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By *edmark07 OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

No not the men of fab, rather the Houdini's of fab. You get chatting, swap a few msgs and then 10 minutes later they disappear never to be seen again. I mean, who joins a site to leave 10 mins later? And its happening more n more. I find it totally bizarre and its really putting me off this site now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened to me to

I just think wtf then don't give them a second thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we found a few of these in the first month or two we were on the site. It put us off and we have a break of several months.

We now only send pictures if we are fairly certain they are not fake and have been verified by other people through meets - I tend to do a bit of digging because there are people with 2-3 accounts that tend to cross verify....

Niki x

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Then stop messaging newbies lol they are probably inundated with messages I know it happened to me I had over 150 messages within 2 hours and yes I left that day but a friend persuaded me to come back on and told me about my filters. When a woman joins it is ridiculous the amount of messages you get and some of them are just horrible so I'm not surprised people leave as it is overwhelming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is probably ppl who don't wash with soap but only water

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set your message filters to maximum, its stopped 90% of all our problems.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

This is why I don't speak to new people at the weekends...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you considered changing your approach? Looks like you’re scaring them away. What do you tell them?

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

I think you should have to stay at least 15 minutes before you can leave.

You need to give it a chance.

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