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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Any polite, respectful guys on Fab?

Just asking....

Bhubaysi

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Hi

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Oh yah

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

They do exist, I've chatted to some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi "

Yeah you are very respectful, and a little cutie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i know there's at least one

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes there is.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Yes there are. I have the pleasure of knowing quite a few of them. We just hear/read about the bad cases more than the positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Any polite, respectful guys on Fab?

Just asking....

Bhubaysi "

most definitely

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Hi

Yeah you are very respectful, and a little cutie"

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes, many!

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

There are lots of respectful guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've talked to loads, met some too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope sorry, you have to settle for us

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By *ayo001Man
over a year ago

Ennis

I always try to be respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a fair few tbh

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, we've met loads. Most of them don't use the forum though. Of all the men we've met only three overstepped the mark.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Loads of them

But it's the twats that get moaned about, especially on the forum.

So the negatives tend to stick out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any polite, respectful guys on Fab?

Just asking....

Bhubaysi "

No

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Absoloutely definitely yes

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"I know a fair few tbh "

Hi person from my town! 2 weeks to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely. I’ve had the pleasure of meeting some of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yep

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Lass

The guys who message me are lovely.

There are some smashers on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be

Then I wasn't

Now I am again...

(product of the environment innit...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All twats, luv

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

There are loads. You just have to find us.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I used to be

Then I wasn't

Now I am again...

(product of the environment innit...)"

Make your bloody mind up..who are ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, some lovely genuine guys on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any polite, respectful guys on Fab?

Just asking....

Bhubaysi "

Hello politeness is non threatening way of saying be my friend

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

There's some diamonds on here...

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have spoken to many and met a few good guys. They are out there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've talked to loads, but omly met Monty "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to be

Then I wasn't

Now I am again...

(product of the environment innit...)

Make your bloody mind up..who are ya "

I'm a big contradiction if that's ok....

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Yes always. It is not a very hard thing to do

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

There are quite a few

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I used to be

Then I wasn't

Now I am again...

(product of the environment innit...)

Make your bloody mind up..who are ya

I'm a big contradiction if that's ok.... "

That works for me x

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"Hi

Yeah you are very respectful, and a little cutie"

Hmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, lots of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to think so

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"There are loads. You just have to find us."

Added to perv list, um, I mean hot list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority are lovely, it's a select few that are knob heads

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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m yet to see evidence of it.....

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Yeah there are some lovely guys on here

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

Yep lovely guy here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try my best to keep my knob as far away from my head as possible

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I’m yet to see evidence of it..... "

Totally reliable and respectful, and not a display of 57 cock pics.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

fab is like a library, not all the books that have intriguing or exciting covers have the words that nourish you or the narrative to keep your interest.

((Courtesy of Lucky Liu’s Fortune Cookies))

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Of course there is

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By *0NyorksMan
over a year ago

.......

I hope there is

I'd like to think I was one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are lying. We are all shameless arseholes who post pictures we've stolen from the internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any polite, respectful guys on Fab?

Just asking....

Bhubaysi "

yes there's loads after going through the forums for a while now I've come across loads of men that are polite respectful and funny

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"They are lying. We are all shameless arseholes who post pictures we've stolen from the internet. "

Ha ha ha on a bad day yes

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West


"There are loads. You just have to find us.

Added to perv list, um, I mean hot list "

I wouldn't bother lol, I rarely add pics. However congrats, you're probably the first person to have me on there.

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By *eilde HoarWoman
over a year ago

In a wax coated bubble

As a wise man once told me, look through the trees and you will find the gems x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 96% polite and respectful.

The other 4% is clumsy and thoughtless and prone to saying things that sounded fine in my head but read back like prime arseholery. I'm working on that...

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"There are loads. You just have to find us.

Added to perv list, um, I mean hot list I wouldn't bother lol, I rarely add pics. However congrats, you're probably the first person to have me on there."

Ummm, well hello Mr negative! Welcome to my perv list

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

I try my best to give men a better name but pretty much every lady and couple I've spoken to on here have horror stories.

I shall continue my quest to prove that there are nice guys out there if you search for them

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

There used to be this really polite, respectful poster called White Daddy but he left. That was a sad day.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

There are quite a few of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. We're all single-minded, sex-crazed internet trolls full of abuse and entitlement, ready to send you pictures of our genitals in close proximity to Sky remotes and spew insults at you when ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!! I know a few of the good ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there are. They just need a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep one right here..hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been cjatting to x_eeleyx for ages i hope she will agree that im an ok bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is too amazing not to be nice and kind, that's a good start...

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Loads of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure there is, I’m not the only one!

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yep, lots of them "
ahh shucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are..

Failing that block button is great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, lots of them ahh shucks"

Mr ambassador is a gent n polite xx

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Met 2 and will again ...hens teeth on here ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but nice and polite is forgettable. That's why I never hear from the same person twice.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland


"Yes but nice and polite is forgettable. That's why I never hear from the same person twice. "
cant say that about my 2 brilliant hence 2nd and 3rd meets ongoing ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes absolutely.

We're adrift in the sea of messages in your besieged inboxes.

It's not all sharks and sun readers in those waters xx

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes there are and when you get to know them they outweigh the dickheads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite, respectful guy here!!

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By *rad_ell12Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

I would say yes, I know I am, and personally hate to think I've ever upset or disrespected anyone regardless of being on here or not! Issue is trying to find them in what I imagine is a see of messages and posts on a forum post such as this one! I so think respectful is different depending on the person and what they want, because a person cN be supwr respectful and a lovely person, but especially on this site, if there not good looking enough or you don't find them attractive then you wont respond

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Been cjatting to x_eeleyx for ages i hope she will agree that im an ok bloke."

Yep, I agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No doubt there are lots! But most are probably lost in deleted messages.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Been cjatting to x_eeleyx for ages i hope she will agree that im an ok bloke.

Yep, I agree!"

And me?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Been cjatting to x_eeleyx for ages i hope she will agree that im an ok bloke.

Yep, I agree!

And me?"

Yep, you are too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any polite, respectful guys on Fab?

Just asking....

Bhubaysi "

yes of course

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I was brought up to be polite and respectful so yes. I certainly wouldn't speak to any woman on here in the way I've seen many complain about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Polite, respectful guy here!!"

I totally agree n funny too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been cjatting to x_eeleyx for ages i hope she will agree that im an ok bloke.

Yep, I agree!"

Aww thanks darlin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without trying to sound big headed I believe I'm a friendly, polite, respectful guy. But tbh it doesn't seem to count for much on here, I haven't had a single reply.

I appreciate I won't be everyone's cup of tea because I've got long hair and I'm not ripped, but I read profiles and send good messages and have had nothing back.

Those guys who send 3 word messages with dick pics are ultimately having more success doing that.

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By *ong_John2333Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Sounds like it's agreed that it is a yes hopefully! There will always be some bad apples, but hopefully they don't spoil the bunch

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I was brought up to be polite and respectful so yes. I certainly wouldn't speak to any woman on here in the way I've seen many complain about."
here here,

Don't get that at all actually, do these lads honestly think that shite talk gets them places, ??

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Yes, there are quite a few of them. I'm fortunate enough to be able to call some of them friends

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Without trying to sound big headed I believe I'm a friendly, polite, respectful guy. But tbh it doesn't seem to count for much on here, I haven't had a single reply.

I appreciate I won't be everyone's cup of tea because I've got long hair and I'm not ripped, but I read profiles and send good messages and have had nothing back.

Those guys who send 3 word messages with dick pics are ultimately having more success doing that."

How do you know they are sending 3 words and dick pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any polite, respectful guys on Fab?

Just asking....

Bhubaysi "

I haven't seen any bad ones, atleast on the forums. They are all top blokes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any polite, respectful guys on Fab?

Just asking....

Bhubaysi "

Probably, if you want i can message ALL the guys and see which ones are what you require.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Without trying to sound big headed I believe I'm a friendly, polite, respectful guy. But tbh it doesn't seem to count for much on here, I haven't had a single reply.

I appreciate I won't be everyone's cup of tea because I've got long hair and I'm not ripped, but I read profiles and send good messages and have had nothing back.

Those guys who send 3 word messages with dick pics are ultimately having more success doing that."

They're not.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Yes there are. I have the pleasure of knowing quite a few of them. We just hear/read about the bad cases more than the positive. "

Nail and head Meli

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Yes there are. I have the pleasure of knowing quite a few of them. We just hear/read about the bad cases more than the positive.

Nail and head Meli "

It's the same with everything, people love to talk about negative things but rarely about good things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without trying to sound big headed I believe I'm a friendly, polite, respectful guy. But tbh it doesn't seem to count for much on here, I haven't had a single reply.

I appreciate I won't be everyone's cup of tea because I've got long hair and I'm not ripped, but I read profiles and send good messages and have had nothing back.

Those guys who send 3 word messages with dick pics are ultimately having more success doing that."

Pondering what the 3 worded message would be, that will get an instant reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you to all the women that have stuck up for the men and I'm sure I can speak for all the good blokes out there and say it's much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you to all the women that have stuck up for the men and I'm sure I can speak for all the good blokes out there and say it's much appreciated "

Jbaz for the next PM!

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By *irty Flirty HarryMan
over a year ago

East Sussex

I like to think I'm polite and respectful, in fact I know I am and I'm not being arrogant when I say that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any polite, respectful guys on Fab?

Just asking....

Bhubaysi "

Have you tried pressing 'ctrl+del+backspace+spacebar+esc' before searching for the guys. All the good guys pops up when you follow this command!

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York


"I was brought up to be polite and respectful so yes. I certainly wouldn't speak to any woman on here in the way I've seen many complain about. here here,

Don't get that at all actually, do these lads honestly think that shite talk gets them places, ?? "

It's the ones who start firing horrendous abuse at people just because they got turned down that I don't understand, why not just take it on the chin and walk away instead of proceeding to bombard their inbox with insults? Some very fragile egos on here.

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

I like to think that I am still as polite and respectful as I was bought up to be. I was always told that manners cost nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe so, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always respectful and non pushy.

Never seem to get anywhere though.

Maybe these men who are rude and aggressive have been rejected so many times they think, fuck it I’ve tried the pleasant approach, that doesn’t work. What have they got to lose.

The only thing is, they put people off single men. We all get tarred with the same brush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%, though it gets tiring having to follow women's "application process" to earn your message being opened.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands


"I have spoken to many and met a few good guys. They are out there x"

Thank you. That's so kind of you to say.

Manners maketh the man.......

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By *nthonyreidMan
over a year ago

Santa Cruz Mountains Ca

Loads of us but truth is we get ignored if we are respectful or pushy A GUY CANT WIN ! lol

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Of course there are. Anyways you free now? Fancy a fuck? What size are your tits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Polite, respectful guy here!!

I totally agree n funny too"

Aww, thank you!! Ditto!! Xxx

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Absolutely 100% - there are lots of great guys out there.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep ... I’ve found a few along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any polite, respectful guys on Fab?

Just asking....

Bhubaysi "

I am a goddammned delight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south


"Yes there are "

There Buttons as well as some fabulous looking girls

(You!)

X

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border


"Any polite, respectful guys on Fab?

Just asking....

Bhubaysi "

Morning

I’m a guy and I’m on fab looking for a sexy girl

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By *kiptongueMan
over a year ago

Barnoldswick


"Any polite, respectful guys on Fab?

Just asking....

Bhubaysi "

I am always polite and respectful, to the point that I am often told I'm too polite for here.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Yes there are. I have the pleasure of knowing quite a few of them. We just hear/read about the bad cases more than the positive. "

Good news travels.

Bad news travels further and faster....

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By *hesterXXXMan
over a year ago

in your dreams

I'm polite and respectful. I've just got a terrible sense of humour and an average body. But if people are going to be picky........!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, for sure there is.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

Mr Sofa is one of these men for sure!

Until you get to know him, then he is a complete sex pest

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Any polite, respectful guys on Fab?

Just asking....

Bhubaysi "

Yes...?

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"Any polite, respectful guys on Fab?

Just asking....

Bhubaysi "

Yes there are, and I try to be one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I d like to think that is how I am...but it's not how we see ourselves but how others see us so here's hoping...lol...op it's a case of sorting the wheat from the chaff

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