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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey everyone, how long after the kids have gone to bed is it okay to play ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Play? I'm not sure what you mean by that so I can't really answer.

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish

This is going to be interesting

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

"Play? I'm not sure what you mean by that so I can't really answer. "

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By *eilde HoarWoman
over a year ago

In a wax coated bubble

Never

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Never with kids present

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

You have a lady friend in while the kids are upstairs?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Well if they haven’t pack it up, straight away, tipping Lego out of box makes a tremendous noise and could wake them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If by play you mean sex with strangers that you invite into your home then never is the answer

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Well if they haven’t pack it up, straight away, tipping Lego out of box makes a tremendous noise and could wake them. "

I have played with lego long after my kids have gone to sleep

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Fabacide

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Well if they haven’t pack it up, straight away, tipping Lego out of box makes a tremendous noise and could wake them.

I have played with lego long after my kids have gone to sleep

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Got any wheels? Swap for a twosie

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"If by play you mean sex with strangers that you invite into your home then never is the answer

This, although totally different question if it's your other half

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

With the other parent in a loving relationship? As soon as you think you won't be disturbed and you still have the energy.

With others with the kids in bed? Never.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hey everyone, how long after the kids have gone to bed is it okay to play ??"

I think it is acceptable for you to play when they are asleep if you are their parents but not one of you to play with a random stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey everyone, how long after the kids have gone to bed is it okay to play ??"

What do you think is ok?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Well if they haven’t pack it up, straight away, tipping Lego out of box makes a tremendous noise and could wake them. "

It's easy to get lured into finishing off a Lego build they have abandoned when tidying away.

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Well if they haven’t pack it up, straight away, tipping Lego out of box makes a tremendous noise and could wake them.

It's easy to get lured into finishing off a Lego build they have abandoned when tidying away.

I wish I had kids, only for the Lego though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it wasn't so disturbing it'd be funny.....

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Well if they haven’t pack it up, straight away, tipping Lego out of box makes a tremendous noise and could wake them.

It's easy to get lured into finishing off a Lego build they have abandoned when tidying away.

It is.. Then I'd get moaned at in the morning when they woke up

Bad Mother!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one who interpreted “play” as wank??

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Am I the only one who interpreted “play” as wank??

I think that is perfectly acceptable when the kids are in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only one who interpreted “play” as wank??

I think that is perfectly acceptable when the kids are in bed. "

Me too, and that’s what I thought he meant to be honest... but he hasn’t clarified either way, so....

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

No! no! no! I would hate for kids to "catch" me at it. Never "play" whilst kids are present, could easily cause more harm than good

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Well if they haven’t pack it up, straight away, tipping Lego out of box makes a tremendous noise and could wake them.

I have played with lego long after my kids have gone to sleep

Got any wheels? Swap for a twosie"

I liked the long ones for starship support struts.

I love Lego.

I got lost in a museum at 35 yes of age because they had a Lego exhibition with tables to build stuff at and I decided to make a twin turret castle.

Ex and kids appeared round the corner as my friend and I were really getting the hang of spires and said they'd been searching for about an hour

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Am I the only one who interpreted “play” as wank??

My immediate thought was Mario Kart...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Well if they haven’t pack it up, straight away, tipping Lego out of box makes a tremendous noise and could wake them.

I have played with lego long after my kids have gone to sleep

Got any wheels? Swap for a twosie

I liked the long ones for starship support struts.

I love Lego.

I got lost in a museum at 35 yes of age because they had a Lego exhibition with tables to build stuff at and I decided to make a twin turret castle.

Ex and kids appeared round the corner as my friend and I were really getting the hang of spires and said they'd been searching for about an hour

I spent all night once building a helicopter after the kids were asleep, it was multicoloured and amazing, the blades turned and everything. They looked at me like I was some kind of freak in the morning

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

I thought op meant depraved fucking!

Lego is ok though

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Am I the only one who interpreted “play” as wank??

That's why I asked what he meant, I thought that too

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Never with kids present

My sons are well grown and have their girlfriends round for "sleepovers" so now I will have a trusted FWB over if I'm in a vanilla mood. My disposable income has been much better not having to half in on hotels so much.

My sons are in their twenties and mature enough to deal with their parent having an actual sex life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Kids have brand new gaming console! I’ve left alone all day kids asleep so I think it’s time to relieve some stress on COD

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Well if they haven’t pack it up, straight away, tipping Lego out of box makes a tremendous noise and could wake them.

I have played with lego long after my kids have gone to sleep

Got any wheels? Swap for a twosie

I liked the long ones for starship support struts.

I love Lego.

I got lost in a museum at 35 yes of age because they had a Lego exhibition with tables to build stuff at and I decided to make a twin turret castle.

Ex and kids appeared round the corner as my friend and I were really getting the hang of spires and said they'd been searching for about an hour

My son and I used to spend ages building stuff only to see it fall apart if played with! I was more upset than him

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

Meccano ok too, or scaleletrix!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Those that’s questioned whether I’d bring another person into the house while kids were here I would never do that

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Well if they haven’t pack it up, straight away, tipping Lego out of box makes a tremendous noise and could wake them.

I have played with lego long after my kids have gone to sleep

Got any wheels? Swap for a twosie

I liked the long ones for starship support struts.

I love Lego.

I got lost in a museum at 35 yes of age because they had a Lego exhibition with tables to build stuff at and I decided to make a twin turret castle.

Ex and kids appeared round the corner as my friend and I were really getting the hang of spires and said they'd been searching for about an hour

My son and I used to spend ages building stuff only to see it fall apart if played with! I was more upset than him

Haha me too, spend all day building, then you're cringing when they start bashing it about.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Those that’s questioned whether I’d bring another person into the house while kids were here I would never do that "

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Kids have brand new gaming console! I’ve left alone all day kids asleep so I think it’s time to relieve some stress on COD "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kids have brand new gaming console! I’ve left alone all day kids asleep so I think it’s time to relieve some stress on COD "

Have they played on it yet? I think wait till next weekend. Tonight is just wrong.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It really hard as a single parent, I know all too well. When you have very young children the only sort of down time you get is when they are asleep. I think you have to find your own way, it is a controversial issue. You can't let others dictate how you parent. It's about risk management. Your kids are always first priority. So you need to weigh up the risks and how you can remove or minimise the risks. You need to ask is it possible to keep your kids totally unaware that other people have visited and can you ensure these people don't pose a safety risk to your kids? And of course if you can't realistically ensure these things then it has to be a no. Parenting is a lot of sacrifice. Personally for me a lot depends on how well you know the person your meeting. I wouldn't be inclined to invite strangers round. Trust is vital when letting someone in to the bubble that is also your kids home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Couldn’t agree more but in this case it wasn’t about sexual fun

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Kids have brand new gaming console! I’ve left alone all day kids asleep so I think it’s time to relieve some stress on COD

Have they played on it yet? I think wait till next weekend. Tonight is just wrong. "

He needs to “test” it be fair. Nothing worse than seeing their sad little faces when it doesn’t work. It’s every grown-ups duty to test a console.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Lass

Get it set up first OP, they sometimes take bloody ages! So yeah, “test” it first to make sure all connected properly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly I need to make sure it works and that’s my excuse

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