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What makes a good BJ

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tell me what makes a Blow job especially good.

Is there something that people don’t do often but when they do it pushes you over the edge?

And - Do you like having your balls played with too?

Asking for a friend....

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

A few tricks I employ are...

Flicking my tongue all over and underneath his helmet

Taking it all the way down to his balls and holding it there

Running my lips all the way up and down his shaft slowly

Both his balls in my mouth while I human the national anthem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a secret shhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds and moans, the right ones.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few tricks I employ are...

Flicking my tongue all over and underneath his helmet

Taking it all the way down to his balls and holding it there

Running my lips all the way up and down his shaft slowly

Both his balls in my mouth while I human the national anthem

"

Why the national anthem?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its a secret shhhhh"

Hey! No secrets here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A few tricks I employ are...

Flicking my tongue all over and underneath his helmet

Taking it all the way down to his balls and holding it there

Running my lips all the way up and down his shaft slowly

Both his balls in my mouth while I human the national anthem

"

I only know one bar of the national anthem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a secret shhhhh

Hey! No secrets here "

Fabs all about secrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few tricks I employ are...

Flicking my tongue all over and underneath his helmet

Taking it all the way down to his balls and holding it there

Running my lips all the way up and down his shaft slowly

Both his balls in my mouth while I human the national anthem

I only know one bar of the national anthem "

A mouth

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"A few tricks I employ are...

Flicking my tongue all over and underneath his helmet

Taking it all the way down to his balls and holding it there

Running my lips all the way up and down his shaft slowly

Both his balls in my mouth while I human the national anthem

"

Both balls? I’m going to need a bigger mouth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few tricks I employ are...

Flicking my tongue all over and underneath his helmet

Taking it all the way down to his balls and holding it there

Running my lips all the way up and down his shaft slowly

Both his balls in my mouth while I human the national anthem

I only know one bar of the national anthem "

That would probably more than enough I imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me what makes a Blow job especially good.

Is there something that people don’t do often but when they do it pushes you over the edge?

And - Do you like having your balls played with too?

Asking for a friend...."

Hold dick like holding cone icecream, and lick, only difference is you lick to finish cream, here it gives cream so choose carefully

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By *igboy87100Man
over a year ago

dartmouth

Eye contact x

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Eye contact!

Has to be a good amount of eye contact (where you can manage it!)

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Ah that should have said hum the national anthem

All 27 verses

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I like my glans lucked and sucker.

Sucking my balls makes me cum quick - so that depends if she wants to keep susking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s on my cock

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By *exysquirter77Woman
over a year ago

norwich

I like to suck and twist my hand up and down hubbys cock at the same time while grabbing his balls x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me what makes a Blow job especially good.

Is there something that people don’t do often but when they do it pushes you over the edge?

And - Do you like having your balls played with too?

Asking for a friend...."
constant tight no teeth mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a slight sensation of teeth

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Tell me what makes a Blow job especially good.

Is there something that people don’t do often but when they do it pushes you over the edge?

And - Do you like having your balls played with too?

Asking for a friend...."

Just dribble lots and lots of saliva and don't great your teeth down the shaft, filp tongue round the head. Lick up and flick that part where the head is attached to the shaft.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

When receiving I have very sensitive thighs, so I enjoy those being stroked and plenty of touching around that area as well.

When giving it's the anticipation of the head going into the mouth, this needs to be built up, licking up the shaft, the balls even placing it around the cheek and chin before finally allowing it in your mouth. His reaction will tell you when, the more he moans or tries to get you to ...the more you tease. When it finally happens his penis should react immediately and harden. Keep repeating until he can't hold back

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East

Can’t believe you haven’t had a reply yet!

So... for me, if possible, eye contact, I like my helmet (i’m cut) licked and then I like it sloppy, lots of saliva, i’ve also found it horny when a previous partner would spit on my cock before continuing. Then there’s the anticipation of the finish. if there’s no condom then where to cum, on body, tits face or other. If it’s in mouth then the usual spit swallow conundrum. (I do love a snowball). Playing with my balls doesn’t do a lot for me but that said as they’re nice and smooth it can be a nice feeling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure every guy likes it slightly different but for me it’s more about the look a women gives me. And knowing that they are genuinely enjoying what they are doing. If that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for responses so far

I’m making notes... for my friend...

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By *izbitMan
over a year ago

St Helens

Gagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gagging "
ha ha this a way?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

my head off the edge of the bed, so he can fuck my mouth

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By *ueen of sleezeWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Surely the giver being enthusiastic about doing it and enjoying what they are doing is a good start.

I love giving BJs nothing better than taking a flaccid cock in your mouth ànd working on it making it stand proud.

But that just my fetish BJs

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

That the giver is enjoying it as much as the receiver

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By *verage JosephMan
over a year ago

Grays & London


"my head off the edge of the bed, so he can fuck my mouth "

Now this works for me!!

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East


"Thanks all for responses so far

I’m making notes... for my friend..."

I’d really like to meet your friend to see if she’s understood.....only for research purpose of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me what makes a Blow job especially good.

Is there something that people don’t do often but when they do it pushes you over the edge?

And - Do you like having your balls played with too?

Asking for a friend...."

A good one is where she takes her time, I meant really slow and keeps me on the edge for ages not allowing me to cum so that my whole body tingles and then boom!

My balls being played with does nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks all for responses so far

I’m making notes... for my friend...

I’d really like to meet your friend to see if she’s understood.....only for research purpose of course!"

Oh yeah I imagine she’ll be looking for volunteers, for service development. I’ll keep a list.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Enthusiasm and looking like you enjoy it is the most important thing by far, that will make up for most lack of technique.

Other than that keep it very well lubricated, don't go at it too aggressively and don't forget the balls!

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Tell me what makes a Blow job especially good.

Is there something that people don’t do often but when they do it pushes you over the edge?

And - Do you like having your balls played with too?

Asking for a friend...."

Would you happen to have your friends phone number?

I was going to give her a ring to explain...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the giver being enthusiastic about doing it and enjoying what they are doing is a good start.

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This for me is the most important bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems kinda 50/50 whether men like their balls being involved

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

A cheeky fingerb

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Tell me what makes a Blow job especially good.

Is there something that people don’t do often but when they do it pushes you over the edge?

And - Do you like having your balls played with too?

Asking for a friend...."

For me personally, it needs to be an unhurried affair. Your aim should be to give me as much pleasure as possible... not to make me cum. It is also important that you enjoy what you're doing, if you feel like it's a chore it won't be as good.

As for technique. Variety is great, but wet and slippery is always a bonus. The head of my cock and particularly the frenulum are the most sensitive parts but the whole cock and balls enjoy attention. I love having my balls played with whilst you're sucking me and enjoy a well loved finger (or two) up my arse too.

Remember too that the position you are in will make a massive difference to the sensations we feel too, a standing blowjob with you on your knees for example feels completely different to a 69er.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems kinda 50/50 whether men like their balls being involved "

Enjoy them being held at a point along with the base of my cock

What in my opinion makes a good bj

Eye contact and a look that says you as a woman are enjoying what you are doing

And being able to fit it all in

Thats a challenge in itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems kinda 50/50 whether men like their balls being involved "

I hate it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tell me what makes a Blow job especially good.

Is there something that people don’t do often but when they do it pushes you over the edge?

And - Do you like having your balls played with too?

Asking for a friend....

For me personally, it needs to be an unhurried affair. Your aim should be to give me as much pleasure as possible... not to make me cum. It is also important that you enjoy what you're doing, if you feel like it's a chore it won't be as good.

As for technique. Variety is great, but wet and slippery is always a bonus. The head of my cock and particularly the frenulum are the most sensitive parts but the whole cock and balls enjoy attention. I love having my balls played with whilst you're sucking me and enjoy a well loved finger (or two) up my arse too.

Remember too that the position you are in will make a massive difference to the sensations we feel too, a standing blowjob with you on your knees for example feels completely different to a 69er.

Cal"

Great reply, good use of frenulum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two nice mouths with good technique

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Tell me what makes a Blow job especially good.

Is there something that people don’t do often but when they do it pushes you over the edge?

And - Do you like having your balls played with too?

Asking for a friend....

For me personally, it needs to be an unhurried affair. Your aim should be to give me as much pleasure as possible... not to make me cum. It is also important that you enjoy what you're doing, if you feel like it's a chore it won't be as good.

As for technique. Variety is great, but wet and slippery is always a bonus. The head of my cock and particularly the frenulum are the most sensitive parts but the whole cock and balls enjoy attention. I love having my balls played with whilst you're sucking me and enjoy a well loved finger (or two) up my arse too.

Remember too that the position you are in will make a massive difference to the sensations we feel too, a standing blowjob with you on your knees for example feels completely different to a 69er.

Cal

Great reply, good use of frenulum"

I do enjoy a good use of the frenulum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enthusiasm and imagination are key ingredients

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

I think the lady must have to enjoy giving a blow job in order for the guy to loosen up, relax and enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact, deep throat while holding balls, suck hard and rub the top of thighs.

Ask for them to cum in your mouth then there isnt an awkward issue of when he wants to ejaculate where to shoot etc

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Suck hard and enthusiastically, be careful with your teeth!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Pretend your brushing your teeth with it OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems kinda 50/50 whether men like their balls being involved "
i dont get anything from my balls being played with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does it for me is...if the woman gets my cock wet from her pussy juice....then goes down and sucks n licks cock and balls

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pretend your brushing your teeth with it OP"

Hmmm

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

If anyone wants someone to practice on. I’ll very generously offer my cock for trial purposes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making sure teeth don’t scrape the helmet

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Enthusiasm and imagination are key ingredients "

Exactly this

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Tongue the pee slot,

Tongue on helmet then roll foreskin over tongue and move the tongue around under foreskin, lips all way down to the pubic hair, allowing them to face fuck you, always swallowing and licking any spills up..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slowwww with lots of licking..more than sucking..sensual..whether receiving or giving..especially underside of head of cock

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I'm not really sure, but what I'm doing must be good because I've never got any complaints

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Plenty of licking does it for me from the lady when half-way through. Gives me time to recover for a short while!

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